In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I’m joined by Alexandra Terrey, a global entrepreneur, coach, and recently published author, who brings a refreshing perspective on the path to true progress. Her guiding mantra, “Progress is in stillness,” challenges our typical belief that progress is all about relentless hustle and constant movement. Through Alexandra’s own journey—building businesses across continents, hitting burnout, and rediscovering her purpose—she shares how taking time to pause, reflect, and realign with our true values can lead to more clarity, creativity, and authentic success. Alexandra’s practical advice on actively engaging in self-reflection, rather than passively waiting for answers, is a game-changer for anyone feeling stuck or overwhelmed by constant busyness. We explore the importance of defining progress for ourselves, not just chasing external metrics or other people’s expectations. Listeners will come away with actionable strategies for tapping into their intuition, finding alignment, and making wiser, more meaningful decisions—proving that sometimes the fastest way forward is to slow down and look within.

Connect with Alexandra Terrey

Website: https://limitlessoul.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thementoringeffect/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandra-terrey/

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:33 Meet Alexandra Terrey
00:50 “Progress Is In Stillness” Explained
01:29 Stillness Versus Busyness Mindset
02:51 Personal Story Of Burnout
04:36 Finding Alignment And Purpose
05:13 Life And Business Results Shift
06:16 The Role Of Action In Progress
06:59 Redefining Progress And Happiness
09:09 Clarifying True Aspirations
11:22 Mistaking Motion For Progress
12:12 Practical Steps For Reflection
14:36 Stillness As An Active Process
15:18 Gaining Clarity Through Experience
17:07 Reflection And Continuous Growth
18:54 The Value Of Character Over Metrics
19:33 Choices, Values, And Daily Alignment
19:33 Thank You And Closing
20:46 Where To Find Alexandra Terrey
21:32 Episode Wrap-Up

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I had a heartfelt and eye-opening conversation with entrepreneur Joe Pomeroy. Joe shared a mantra that’s been transformative for him: the idea of “some great thing”—a powerful reminder that the greatest breakthroughs in life and business rarely come from grand gestures, but from consistent, small actions in the present moment. Through the biblical story of Naaman, Joe reveals how our obsession with big achievements can blind us to the deeper fulfillment found in being truly present, whether building our businesses or nurturing our families. We get candid about the traps of chasing distant milestones, comparing ourselves to others, and the sneaky ways we use “future success” to excuse neglecting what matters most now. If you’re an entrepreneur, parent, or anyone with big dreams, this episode is packed with wisdom on reclaiming joy and purpose by engaging with the everyday. Listen in for practical advice, vulnerable stories, and a quote that just might reshape your definition of success and happiness.

Connect with Joe Pomeroy

Website:https://www.forwardwithjoe.com/

Twitter: https://x.com/thejoepomeroy

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejoepomeroy/

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:36 Meet Joe Pomeroy
01:13 The “Some Great Thing” Mantra
02:01 The Story of Naaman
04:14 Small Actions vs. Big Gestures
05:29 Living in the Present Moment
06:38 The Arrival Syndrome Trap
09:25 Hills, Goals, and Staying Present
10:37 Learning Through the Journey
13:38 Why We Delay Action
14:46 Connect, Don’t Compare
17:28 Do You Want to Look Smart?
18:53 Realizing You Have Enough
20:02 Everyday Actions Matter Most
21:00 Compensating With Grand Gestures
22:06 Taking Simple Present Actions
23:22 Closing Reflections and Farewell
24:39 Where to Find Joe Pomeroy
24:48 Outro and Final Thoughts

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sit down with Susan Hensley, a transformational coach and author, whose mantra "wild, free, and filled with joy" became her guiding light during one of life's most uncertain seasons. Susan opens up about the pressures she faced as a global HR executive during the pandemic and how art journaling helped her turn fear and anxiety into creativity and self-expression. We dive deep into the power of art journaling—not just as an artistic outlet, but as a playful, private, and healing tool for processing difficult emotions. Susan shares her journey of trading a high-stress corporate life for one filled with curiosity, spontaneity, and service, showing how the meaning of her mantra has evolved from grand adventures to everyday acts of kindness and presence. Listeners will walk away inspired to embrace small moments of play, tap into their creative side, and discover new ways to navigate life’s transitions with more resilience, purpose, and joy.

Connect With Susan Hensley
Website: https://susan-hensley.com
Book (Art for Your Sanity)

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:38 Meet Susan Hensley
00:51 The Mantra: Wild, Free, and Filled With Joy
01:55 Discovering Art Journaling
03:28 How the Mantra’s Meaning Evolved
04:08 Life Changes and Bold Adventures
04:55 Service, Spontaneity, and Everyday Joy
05:44 Art Journaling for Life Transitions
06:20 What Is Art Journaling?
07:53 How Art Journaling Connects to the Mantra
08:56 The Power of Play and Curiosity
10:20 Art Journaling Before the Mantra
12:07 Introducing "Art For Your Sanity"
14:17 A Simple Practice Listeners Can Try
16:28 The Role of Joy and Playfulness in Healing
19:02 Is Joy Escaping or Empowering?
21:03 How the Mantra Reshaped Susan’s Life
23:33 Spontaneity, Presence, and Everyday Kindness
25:06 Wild, Free, and Awake—Right Now
25:18 What Readers Will Find in the Book
26:12 Where to Find Susan Hensley
26:53 Closing and Takeaways

On this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I’m joined by Jody Maberry—known as “the happiest podcaster on earth”—to dig into the quote that’s carried him through life’s ups and downs: “Do your best and forgive yourself.” Given to him by Lee Cockerell (via Admiral Charles Payne), this simple but powerful mantra has helped Jody navigate not just his career as a park ranger and podcaster but also the unpredictability of parenting and creativity. We talk about the real struggle of perfectionism and the courage it takes to truly “show up,” even when you’re feeling far from your best. Jody shares stories of missed marks, second chances, and the confidence built through consistency—like his commitment to 10,000 steps a day, rain or shine. Listeners who wrestle with self-doubt, people-pleasing, or fear of falling short will find practical encouragement to keep showing up, learn from each day, and offer themselves more grace. This is an episode for anyone longing to move forward even when things don’t go perfectly—because wisdom isn’t about getting it right, but growing anyway.

Connect With Jody Maberry
Website: https://jodymaberry.com

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:30 Jody’s Story and Work
01:14 Jody’s Favorite Quote Explained
02:17 When the Quote Helped Most
03:14 Learning from Setbacks
04:26 Perfectionism and Self-Forgiveness
05:37 The Two Sides of the Quote
06:16 The Power of Showing Up
07:05 Park Ranger Story on Opportunity
09:51 Daily Practice of Consistency
10:09 Mindset and Podcasting
11:40 Advice for Listeners Who Struggle
12:58 One Simple Action to Start
14:42 Connecting with Jody
15:38 Closing and Final Reflection

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sat down with USA TODAY bestselling author and Marine Corps veteran G. Michael Hopf, who shared the transformative power behind his favorite quote from Napoleon Hill: “Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” Michael took us through his personal journey—starting as someone with no formal writing education, to the moment he held his first children’s book in hand, and on to publishing more than 40 books. He candidly discussed how mindset, belief, consistent action, and reframing failure have been the engines driving his resilience and creative success. For everyone out there doubting their ideas or feeling paralyzed by not knowing ‘how’ to start, Michael’s story is a powerful reminder that action, discipline, and investing in yourself are the real magic. Whether you’re trying to write your first book or simply bring an idea to life, this episode is packed with wisdom on embracing persistence, courage, and the essential truth: our reality truly does begin in the mind.

Connect with G. Michael Hopf

Website: https://www.gmichaelhopf.com/

Twitter: https://x.com/GMichaelHopf1

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/beyond_the_fray_publishing/#

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:29 Meet G. Michael Hopf
00:45 Favorite Quote And Its Impact
01:57 Discovering Napoleon Hill
03:11 Why The Quote Resonates
05:28 Conceiving, Believing, Achieving
07:43 Lessons From Writing The First Book
09:14 The Power Of Taking Action
11:37 Learning And Building Skills
13:02 Belief Vs. Investment
15:19 Discipline And Consistency
17:21 What Consistent Action Really Means
21:18 Fear Of Failure And Delayed Action
23:38 Why Storytelling Matters
24:24 Closing Reflections And Farewell

On this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I’m joined by Bryan Charleau, a seasoned sales professional, coach, and author, who brings forward one of those deceptively simple quotes that quietly shapes every area of life: "The way you do anything is the way you do everything." We dig into where this mantra came from, how it surfaced for Bryan not in his athletic days but later as he balanced work, personal life, and the pressure of growth—and why it now anchors his approach to both success and setbacks. Bryan shares practical, heartfelt stories about the challenges of maintaining consistency in all areas—work, relationships, self-care—and how avoiding hard tasks or difficult conversations often just lets anxieties simmer. We talk about self-reflection, accountability, and why practicing honesty with ourselves (and others) actually lightens our load. If you’ve ever felt stretched in too many directions, or wondered how tiny habits and attitudes spill into all you do, Bryan’s stories will encourage you to look for deeper alignment and take action, one step at a time.

Connect with Bryan Charleau

Website: https://www.pitchingsalesconsulting.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bryancharleau/

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:34 Bryan’s Background And Roles
00:56 Sharing His Favorite Quote
01:10 Breaking Down The Meaning
02:12 When The Quote Resonated
03:27 Consistency In Daily Life
05:00 Work-Life Balance Reflections
05:38 The Importance Of Organization
06:15 Punctuality And Genuine Relationships
07:04 Accountable Conversations In Sales
07:32 Parallels With Personal Life
08:16 Facing The Temptation To Avoid
08:56 Responsibility And Growth
10:04 Fear Of Suffering Versus Reality
11:01 Why Accountability Matters
11:55 Key Takeaways For Listeners
13:15 Self-Reflection And Control
13:55 Saying Yes Or No Intentionally
14:36 Letting Go Of What Drains You
14:44 Where To Find Bryan
15:13 Lifelong Mindset And Support
15:47 Closing Remarks And Outro

On this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I had the pleasure of sitting down with John Borden, whose journey from self-destruction to self-discovery is truly inspiring. John’s mantra—“Your mindset is your reality”—is more than just a quote for him; it’s the foundation of the profound change in his life, and even the title of his book. We dove deep into John’s personal transformation, exploring how his experiences with psilocybin mushrooms helped shift his perspective, moving him from blaming others and feeling stuck to taking ownership and making significant, positive changes. Whether you’ve struggled with setbacks, self-limiting beliefs, or simply want to get better at reframing life’s challenges, John’s candid stories and practical wisdom will push you to reconsider how your own mindset shapes your world. For anyone searching for resilient motivation, actionable insight, and the courage to rewrite your narrative, this conversation is a must-listen.

Connect with John Borden

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/johnniebe/

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Chapters

00:00 A Story About Perception
00:37 Introduction to Relatable Wisdom
01:07 Meet John Borden
01:26 John’s Favorite Quote
02:19 Exploring “Your Mindset Is Your Reality”
02:34 John’s Personal Journey
03:51 How Life Events Led to the Realization
05:27 The “Before and After” of John’s Mindset
06:03 Transforming Habits and Lifestyle
06:38 Mid-Episode Break
08:02 Positive Change Through Self-Work
08:35 How The Mind Shapes Reality
09:52 Facing Setbacks & Losing Identity
11:28 Reframing Failure and Setbacks
11:46 Everyday Examples of Mindset
13:09 Finding Opportunity in Loss
13:29 Why Perspective Is Everything
14:28 Choice, Action, and Growth
15:05 Clarity from Adversity
15:25 Consistent Daily Growth
15:32 Gratitude and Publishing the Book
16:01 The Power of Storytelling
16:54 Where to Find John and His Book
17:34 Closing and Appreciation

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I had the pleasure of welcoming Lannette West, single mom, IT professional, and reality TV star from TLC’s MILF Manor. Lannette opened up about her journey with mental health, addiction recovery, and the power of perspective. Her favorite quote, “This too shall pass,” is a mantra she leans on in both her darkest moments and her moments of joy, reminding us of life's ever-changing nature. We explored Lannette’s experiences with bipolar disorder and depression, how she grounds herself using this simple yet profound phrase, and why she’s even considered tattooing it as a constant reminder. She also shared the importance of living in the present and treasuring both highs and lows. Whether you’re in need of hope, perspective, or just a boost to get through today’s challenges, Lannette’s story and insights will resonate deeply. Tune in for practical wisdom on coping, gratitude, and staying grounded through life’s storms.

Connect with Lannette West

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lannette.west/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lannette-west-724b752/

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Chapters

00:00 Navigating Chaos And Reflection
00:26 Welcome And Guest Introduction
00:57 Meet Lanette West
01:12 Sharing Her Favorite Quote
01:53 The Deeper Meaning Of “This Too Shall Pass”
02:48 Addiction, Mental Health, And Resilience
03:53 Embracing Life’s Impermanence
04:49 The King Solomon Anecdote
06:22 Appreciating Good Moments
07:10 Life’s Too Short To Be Unhappy
08:04 Living In The Present
08:47 Humor, Cars, And Joy
09:47 Overcoming Overwhelm
09:58 Fight, Flight, Fawn, Freeze Explained
10:36 The Power Of Visible Reminders
10:45 Birthday Reflection And Milestones
11:26 Food, Parties, And Friendship
12:01 Applying The Quote To Life
12:56 The Side Effect: Hope For Change
13:51 Lanette’s Professional Life Explained
14:44 Data Storage Made Simple
15:56 The Name Behind “The Cloud”
16:02 Where To Connect With Lanette
17:22 Closing And Final Words

This episode of Relatable Wisdom was a blast to record! I sat down with Laura Perkes, an experienced public relations specialist with over 20 years in the field, to dig deep into the mantra that’s been guiding her: “Things don’t happen to you, they happen for you.” Laura shares how embracing this perspective helped her move from blame and frustration in her business journey to a place of radical responsibility, growth, and even humor about life’s inevitable “catalog of errors.” We explored how the lessons she’s gleaned from tough times have shaped her personal development — and how reframing adversity can help all of us find purpose, connection, and new opportunities, both in business and in life. Whether you’re navigating the highs and lows of entrepreneurship or just need a reminder to look for meaning in the messiness, Laura’s candid stories and actionable wisdom will help you approach challenges differently and focus on positive change.

Connect with Laura Perkes

Website: https://prwithperkes.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-perkes/

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Chapters

00:00 Finding Positivity In Adversity
01:01 Who Is Laura Perkes?
01:27 Laura’s Favorite Quote Revealed
01:56 Origins Of The Quote’s Impact
03:30 Laura’s “Catalog Of Errors” Moment
04:47 Learning From Intuition And Mistakes
06:06 Debating The Quote’s Boldness
06:38 A Difficult Lesson In Business
07:00 What Is Public Relations?
08:14 Repeating Hard Lessons
09:27 Taking True Responsibility
11:07 Learning The Right Lessons
12:35 Culture, Blame, And Self-Development
13:41 Radical Responsibility And Positivity
14:24 Choosing Your Game—Victim Or Victor
15:28 The Power Of Choice
16:12 Chasing Happiness Vs. Being Present
17:10 Embracing The Messiness
18:21 Seeing Good Or Bad In Events
19:22 Choose Your Hard—And Learn
19:51 Responsibility, Control, And Healing
21:16 The Power Of Story In Podcasting
22:26 Podcasting, Networking, And Impact
23:38 Opening Doors Through Conversations
24:29 The Opportunity Of Technology
24:43 Laura’s Podcast: What Is Public Relations?
25:35 Making PR Accessible For All
26:26 Exploring Topics That Feed Into PR
26:53 Where To Find Laura Online
27:43 Reflections And Farewell

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Chris Marhefka, a transformational coach whose journey from high-achieving entrepreneur to devoted father and guide is nothing short of inspiring. Chris shared with us his favorite quote by Henry Ford: “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.” This mantra has repeatedly shaped his life—whether pushing past self-doubt as an aspiring athlete, conquering the monumental challenge of an Ironman triathlon, or navigating the vulnerable moments of starting a business with nothing but belief and persistence. Chris’s stories peel back the layers on how self-belief—matched with constant action—can break us out of the “artificial cages” we create in our own minds. For listeners seeking that extra spark to pursue “impossible” goals, Chris’s insights on prioritizing what matters and embracing seasons of being truly “all-in” are not to be missed. You’ll walk away from this conversation questioning your limits—and ready to rewrite them.

Connect with Chris Marhefka

Website:https://www.chrismarhefka.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrismarhefka/

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Chapters

00:00 The Power Of Going All In
00:47 Introduction To Chris Marhefka
01:17 Chris Shares His Favorite Quote
01:34 Early Encounters With Self-Belief
02:25 Training For An Ironman
03:35 Overcoming Physical And Mental Limits
04:34 Belief Versus Discipline
05:30 Struggles With Writing A Book
06:59 Breaking The “Artificial Cage”
08:33 The Soundtrack Of Resilience
10:00 Accepting Doubt And Pushing Forward
12:54 Doubt, Fear, And Taking Action
13:11 The Role Of Training And Belief
15:08 Growing Belief Through Action
16:44 Lessons In Fatherhood
17:44 Progress Through Repetition
18:44 Counting Real Experience
19:53 Prioritizing And Going All In
21:54 Life Seasons And Minimum Effective Dose
24:53 Tradeoffs And Intentional Living
25:40 Facing Major Business Obstacles
27:16 Getting A Loan Against All Odds
30:47 The Role Of Self-Belief In Success
30:59 Closing And Where To Find Chris