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May 22, 2022                                                                                                 Achilles Week 5

Common areas where we can be overloaded:

ActivitiesWorkInformation

ChoicesChangesAccessibility

DebtWorriesPace of Life

How did Jesus deal with overload?

Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus.  So when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days, John 11:5-6

On his arrival, Jesus found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days.  Now Bethany was less than two miles from Jerusalem,            John 11:17-18

Jesus had the most important assignment on the planet, and yet he was never in a hurry.  

Hurry sickness: A behavior pattern characterized by continual rushing and anxiousness.  

If we follow an unrushed Jesus, 

we should be living an unrushed life.

You Cannot love well and be in a hurry.

Be still, and know that I am God.  Psalm 46:10

How do I stop the hurry?  Create Margins

Margin is the space between my load and my limits

1. Add margins for problems.

“In this world you will have trouble!”  John 16:33

Sensible people will see trouble coming and avoid it, but an unthinking person will walk right into it and regret it later.  Proverbs 22:3

1. Add margins for people.

Then one of the synagogue leaders, named Jairus, came, and when he saw Jesus, he fell at his feet.  He pleaded earnestly with him, “My little daughter is dying. Please come and put your hands on her so that she will be healed and live.”  So Jesus went with him.  A large crowd followed and pressed around him. And a woman was there who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years.  Then the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came and fell at his feet and, trembling with fear, told him the whole truth.         Mark 5:25

 Jesus turned and saw her. “Take heart, daughter,” he said, “your faith has healed you.” And the woman was healed at that moment.  Matthew 9:22

Is you focus on the things you need to do,

or the people you need to pour into?

You must slow down in order to see.

1. Add margins for play.

And as Jesus reclined at table in the house, behold, many tax collectors and sinners came and were reclining with Jesus and his disciples.            Matthew 9:10. ESV

When you rush toward what is next, 

you miss what is now.

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May 15, 2022                                                                                                 Achilles Week 4

Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom.  Song of Solomon 2:15

But the godly will flourish like palm trees and grow strong like the cedars of Lebanon.  For they are transplanted to the Lord’s own house.  They flourish in the courts of our God.   Even in old age they will still produce fruit;
 they will remain vital and green.   Psalm 92:12-13

JESUS’ COMMUNITY

Jesus went up on a mountainside and called to him those he wanted, and they came to him.  He appointed twelve that they might be with him and that he might send them out to preach and to have authority to drive out demons.  Mark 3:13

1. I need a community that ______________________.

Then Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan River.  He was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, where he was tempted by the devil for forty days.  Luke 4:1-2

My community that loves Jesus: _____________________

Don’t team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness?  What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil?  2 Corinthians 6:14

1. I need a community that is ____________________.

 Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works.  And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near.  Hebrews 10:24

What is my community that 

is on mission: ________________________

Every Member is a ___________________.

Every _______________ is Important.

Everyone is a ________ at something.

1. I need a community that ______________________.

Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.  James 5:16

We go to Christ for our ________________________. 

We go to the Church for our _______________________.

My Community that brings Freedom:  _________________

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May 1, 2022                                                                                                 Achilles Week 2

Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom.  Song of Solomon 2:15

Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. The promise is for you and your children and for all who are far off—for all whom the Lord our God will call.” Acts 2:38-39 (NIV)

I can receive the Holy Spirit. 

The amazing grace of the Master, Jesus Christ, the extravagant love of God, the intimate friendship of the Holy Spirit, be with all of you. 2 Corinthians 13:14 (MSG)

While Apollos was at Corinth, Paul took the road through the interior and arrived at Ephesus. There he found some disciples and asked them, “Did you receive the Holy Spirit when you believed?” They answered, “No, we have not even heard that there is a Holy Spirit.”   So Paul asked, “Then what baptism did you receive?” “John’s baptism,” they replied. Paul said, “John’s baptism was a baptism of repentance. He told the people to believe in the one coming after him, that is, in Jesus.” On hearing this, they were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus.  When Paul placed his hands on them, the Holy Spirit came on them, and they spoke in tongues and prophesied. Acts 19:1-6 

Philip went down to a city in Samaria and proclaimed the Christ there...  But when they believed Philip as he preached the good news of the kingdom of God and the name of Jesus Christ, they were baptized, both men and women.  When the apostles in Jerusalem heard that Samaria had accepted the word of God, they sent Peter and John to them.  When they arrived, they prayed for them that they might receive the Holy Spirit, because the Holy Spirit had not yet come upon any of them; Acts 8:5, 12 (NIV)

they had simply been baptized into the name of the Lord Jesus. Then Peter and John placed their hands on them, and they received the Holy Spirit. Acts 8:14-17 (NIV)

I can be led by the Holy Spirit.

Then Jesus, full of the Holy Spirit, returned from the Jordan River.  He was led by the Spirit in the wilderness, where he was tempted by the devil for forty days.  Luke 4:1-2

Whatever fill you leads you.

Being led by the Spirit might not make sense, 
but it will make a difference.

All that we have is not all that God has. 

As the man went eastward with a measuring line in his hand, he measured off a thousand cubits and then led me through water that was ankle-deep.  He measured off another thousand cubits and led me through water that was knee-deep. He measured off another thousand and led me through water that was up to the waist. He measured off another thousand, but now it was a river that I could not cross, because the water had risen and was deep enough to swim in—a river that no one could cross. Swarms of living creatures will live wherever the river flows. There will be large numbers of fish, because this water flows there and makes the salt water fresh; so where the river flows everything will live. Ezekiel 47:9 (NIV)

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April 24, 2022                                                                                                 Achilles Week 1

My Tongue

James 1:26 NLT If you claim to be religious but don’t control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless. 

1. My words will determine my direction. 

We can make a large horse go wherever we want by means of a small bit in its mouth.  And a small rudder makes a huge ship turn wherever the pilot chooses to go, even though the winds are strong.  James 3:3-4 NLT

If I change my words, my life will change.

1. My words can give life or take life.

In the same way, the tongue is a small thing that makes grand speeches.  But a tiny spark can set a great forest on fire.  And among all the parts of the body, the tongue is a flame of fire.  James 3:5-6 NLT

We shape our words and then our words shape us. 

1. My words always reveal my heart.

Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses those who have been made in the image of God.  And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right!  Does a spring of water bubble out with both fresh water and bitter water?   James 3:9-11 NLT

The real problem isn’t my tongue, it’s my heart. 

So what do we do?

1. Allow God to change my heart.

People can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and fish, but no one can tame the tongue. It is restless and evil, full of deadly poison.  James 3:7-8

May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing to you, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.  Psalm 19:14 

1. Put a filter on what I allow in my heart.

For out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks. Matthew 12:34-35

The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. Matthew 12:34-35

Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Proverbs 4:23

1. Decide to speak words of life.

Words of affection.

Words of praise.

Words of encouragement.

Words of healing.

Words of faith.

Discussion Questions:

How have you been affected by life-giving and life-taking words? Which do you tend toward?

What life-giving words do you need to speak to yourself and others?

Name some things that you should not allow into your heart.

Which words do you need to work on the most?

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 April 10, 2022                                                                                                 GLOW       Week 4

ANYTHING SHORT OF SIN

On hearing this, Jesus said to them, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” Mark 2:17

A few days later, when Jesus again entered Capernaum, the people heard that he had come home.  They gathered in such large numbers that there was no room left, not even outside the door, and he preached the word to them.   Some men came, bringing to him a paralyzed man, carried by four of them. Since they could not get him to Jesus because of the crowd, they made an opening in the roof above Jesus by digging through it and then lowered the mat the man was lying on. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralyzed man, “Son, your sins are forgiven.” Mark 2:1-5

WE WILL DO ANYTHING SHORT OF SIN TO ____________ PEOPLE WHO DON’T KNOW CHRIST. 

LOVE FOR PEOPLE WITHOUT CHRIST

   Apathetic       1    2    3    4    5    6    7    8    9    10       Passionate

1. BEAR SOME ____________________.

Some men came, bringing to [Jesus] a paralyzed man, carried by four of them. Mark 2:3

People don’t ____________ how much you _____________ 

until they _____________ how much you ______________.

Stop being __________________ and 

start being __________________.

2. BREAK SOME ____________________.

Since they could not get him to Jesus because of the crowd, they made an opening in the roof above Jesus by digging through it and then lowered the mat the man was lying on. Mark 2:4

Discussion Questions:

Running with scissors? Swimming after eating? What rules do you find yourself breaking that seem totally worth it?

What do you like about our church that you could share with others? What about inviting them to this group?

Brainstorm creative ways to use your circle of influence to bring people closer to Christ. Don’t forget your online influence!

Jesus ate with sinners. What are some ways you can get more involved in the lives of people who are far from Christ? 

Name three people you know who need Jesus in their lives. What will you do this week to reach out to them? 

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April 3, 2022 GLOW 

Week 3 // The Customer is always right!

Meanwhile his disciples urged him, “Rabbi, eat something.” But he said to them, “I have food to eat that you know nothing about.” Then his disciples said to each other, “Could someone have brought him food?” “My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work. John 4:31-34

Helping someone else is what helps me the most.

Consumer 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Contributor

How to become a Contributor!!!

1. Move from Passive to Active.

The Church isn’t a building, it’s God’sPeople.

6 In his grace, God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has given you. 7 If your gift is serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, teach well. 8 If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly. Romans 12:6-8 NLT

2. Move from Entitled to Grateful.

Yes, they knew God, but they wouldn’t worship him as God or even give him thanks. And they began to think up foolish ideas of what God was like. As a result, their minds became dark and confused. Romans 1:21-22

The right response to God’s generosity to us is Gratitude

3. Move from Me to We.

God doesn’t make me better than you,

He makes me better than me

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:14-16 

…And God’s grace was so powerfully at work in them all 34 that there were no needy persons among them. Acts 4:33-34

Discussion Questions:

Name some examples of consumerism in our culture?

What did Jesus mean by, “…food you know nothing about.”?

What does an Active Faith life look like?

How does gratitude help keep me from being entitled?

Why is the “we” so important in our mission as a church?

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March 27, 2022                                                                                                 
GLOW       Week 2

COMMUNITY MATTERS

Community is part of God’s plan for us to healthy.

Those who accepted his message were baptized, and about three thousand were added to their number that day.  They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.  Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles.  All the believers were together and had everything in common.  They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need.  Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.  Acts 2:41-47

A commitment to get along.

A commitment to care for on another.

A commitment to worship together.

A commitment to hang out outside of church. 

A commitment to celebrate together

A commitment to grow the community

The Local Church is the hope of the world.

1. Commitment is easier together.

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but 

encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.  Hebrews 10:24-25

Connect to your community

1. Join a Small Group.
2. Join the Dream Team.

2. We are Tougher Together.

Once you had no identity as a people; now you are God’s people.                 1 Peter 2:10

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3. We can do more together.

Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function, so it is with Christ’s body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other.  Romans 12:4-5

Every member is a minister.

Every task is important.

Everyone is a 10 at something.

Discussion Questions:

Why have some people avoided joining a local church?

What are some unhealthy devotions we have?

How can community help me stay committed and healthy?

How can we become more like the early church community?

What can you do to bring new people into our community?

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March 13, 2022                                                                                                 GLOW                     Week 1

Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.  Matthew 28:19

GO BIGGER

Human desires are like the world of the dead—there is always room for more.  Proverbs 27:20

OUR VISION: 

We exist to make life giving relationships that lead people to Know and Follow Jesus Christ.

Know God – Sunday Services

Find Freedom – Small Groups

Discover Purpose – Growth Track

Make a Difference – Dream Team

 [Jesus] could not do any miracles there, except lay his hands on a few sick people and heal them. 6 He was amazed at their lack of faith. Mark 6:5-6

When Jesus heard this, he was amazed at him, and turning to the crowd following him, he said, “I tell you, I have not found such great faith even in Israel.” Luke 7:9

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3 Things you need to know about Faith

1. YOU CANNOT PLAY IT SAFE AND PLEASE GOD.

And without faith it is impossible to please God… Hebrews 11:6

If you can accomplish your goals without God, your God is too small.

2. If YOU HAVE A GUARANTEE—YOU DON’T HAVE FAITH. 

Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see. Heb 11:1 NLT

By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going. Hebrews 11:8

You can have faith or you can have control you can’t have both.

I am the way the truth and the life.  No one comes to the Father except through me.   John 14:6

3. FAITH IS TAKING ACTION EVEN IF YOU DON’T FULLY UNDERSTAND. 

You see, his (Abraham) faith and his actions worked together. His actions made his faith complete.  James 2:14

Our Actions Complete Our Faith

Discussion Questions:

Have you ever been scammed by someone or something? 

What is something you are trusting God for right now?

How can we expand our Faith together as a church?

Where are you having trouble letting God have control?

How will you put your faith into action this week?

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