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We often focus on finding the right person, but what if the key to a thriving relationship is being the right person first? Before stepping into love, we need to step into purpose, wisdom, and identity.
Through the story of creation in Genesis and the wisdom of scripture, we’ll explore four essential truths that prepare us for next-level love:
1️⃣ Before I find my person, I need to find my purpose.
God created us for a reason—our identity isn’t defined by who we’re with but by the purpose He has designed for us (Ephesians 2:10).
2️⃣ Before I make a covenant, I need to make wise choices.
Faithfulness starts with the small things. Marriage doesn’t transform us—it magnifies who we already are (Luke 16:10).
3️⃣ Before I seek out intimacy, I need to seek out my identity.
True love starts with knowing who we are in Christ. Without a strong foundation in Him, we’ll search for wholeness in places that can never satisfy (Genesis 2:21).
4️⃣ Before I pursue a relationship, I pursue rest.
Until we find rest and fulfillment in God, no relationship can bring lasting peace (Psalm 62:5).
Let’s discover how focusing on spiritual growth, wise decision-making, and God’s design can shape us into the person He has called us to be—so that we can love others from a place of strength, not striving.
💬 Discussion Questions:
• What stood out to you this week?
• Which of your relationships needs your attention the most?
• How could working on yourself improve your closest relationships?
• What practical steps can you take to align with God’s purpose this week?
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