RelationFix

In this episode, Shana discusses people-pleasing! Where does it come from, why does it happen, how does it impact our relationships, and how can we change this cycle. You don't want to miss this important episode. Let's dive in!

Resources:

People pleaser: Definition, signs, risks, and how to stop (medicalnewstoday.com)

Home - Live Better, Longer - Blue Zones

The Many Faces of Ego | Eckhart Tolle Teachings - YouTube

How to Stop Being A People Pleaser and Starting Putting Yourself First | Mel Robbins - YouTube

Brené Brown Helps Kelly Set Boundaries - YouTube

Host: Shana Dubay

Music: ROA

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In this episode, Frank joins Shana once again to discuss personal growth. Every relationship begins with the relationship we have with ourselves. Shana and Frank discuss Jay Shetty’s advice about relationships and Shana guides Frank through the process of creating a new persona who acts more from his higher self. You won’t want to miss this episode of transformation. It’s time to do the work. Let’s dive in.

Resources:

CBT Schema

Jay Shetty 3 relationships 

8 Rules of Love: How to Find It, Keep It, and Let It Go: Shetty, Jay: 9781982183066: Amazon.com: Books

Quote: “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is your power to choose your response. In your response lies your growth and your freedom.” -Viktor Frankl

Frank’s Persona Name: Forza Saggio (for-tsa saj-eo)

Shana’s Persona Name: Sekhmet 

Host: Shana Dubay

Guest: Frank Anthony DiLuzio

Music: ROA

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In this episode, Shana talks about one of the hardest aspects of relationships: grief and loss. She discusses her personal experiences with loss and the feelings that arise; Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, Susan Cain, and Glennon Doyle’s work on loss and pain; and how to help transform our pain into service and love. If we live long enough, we will all face this type of pain at some point in our lives. You won’t want to miss this deep and poignant episode. Let’s dive in.

Resources:

Mr Magorium's Wonder Emporium He Dies - Your Life is An Occasion - YouTube

Five stages of grief | CNN

On Death and Dying: What the Dying Have to Teach Doctors, Nurses, Clergy and Their Own Families: Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth, Byock M.D., Ira: 9781476775548: Amazon.com: Books

On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss: Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth, Kessler, David, Shriver, Maria: 9781476775555: Amazon.com: Books

Bittersweet (Oprah's Book Club): How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole: Cain, Susan: 9780451499783: Amazon.com: Books

Glennon Doyle Melton: First the Pain, Then the Rising | SuperSoul Sessions | Oprah Winfrey Network - YouTube

Host: Shana Dubay

Music: ROA

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In this episode, Shana talks about common themes that keep arising with her clients and in her own life. She discusses the “let them” theory, created by the amazing life coach and author Mel Robbins; kin keeping: what it is, its importance, and how it impacts relationship dynamics; and anticipating needs: how anticipating your partner's needs is important and different than mind-reading. Don’t miss this quick yet important episode. Let’s dive in!

Resources:

3 Ways to use the Let Them Theory | Mel Robbins Podcast Clips - YouTube

The Family Kinkeeper Role | Psychology Today

Spheres Of Influence

Orange: things I can control

Green: things I can influence

Blue: Things I can't control 

Host: Shana Dubay

Music: ROA

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One of the most common problems in relationships is feeling unloved and unseen by our partners and friends. Learning how we give and receive love is one of the highest forms of communication and can help us reconnect to form more meaningful experiences. In this episode, Frank returns to help Shana explore Gary Chapman's world of the 5 Love Languages. You won't want to miss this interesting and fun episode! 

Resources:

The Love Language® Quiz (5lovelanguages.com)

Bookstore (5lovelanguages.com)

Host: Shana Dubay

Guest: Frank DiLuzio

Music: ROA

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In this episode of RelationFix, Shana gives some quick tips for self-love, grace, and communication in your relationships during times of great stress. Don't miss this quick and to the point episode. Let's dive in. 

P.S. RelationFix will be taking a break over the month of May. We will be back with more amazing content on June 5th. Don't forget to take care of yourselves and lead with love and contribution. See you soon.

Host: Shana Dubay

Music: ROA

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In this episode, Shana is joined by the amazing Frank and her partner Melissa to talk about the multi-faceted world of same-sex relationships. Hear all three of their stories in this candid, funny, touching, and honest conversation about what people within the LGBTQ+ community can face in their lives and relationships. Understanding other people's experiences only seeks to bring people closer together. Don't miss this opportunity to connect and learn more. Let's dive in.

Resources:

Understanding Gender and Sexual Identities:

Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity Definitions - Human Rights Campaign (hrc.org)

A Guide to Understanding Gender Identity and Pronouns : NPR

Transgender Youth:

The Trevor Project | For Young LGBTQ Lives

Violence Against LGBTQ+ Community Info:

Violent Victimization by Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity, 2017–2020 | Bureau of Justice Statistics (ojp.gov)

Fatal Violence Against the Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming Community in 2021 - Human Rights Campaign (hrc.org)

Host: Shana Dubay

Guests: Frank DiLuzio and Melissa Small

Music: ROA

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In this "quick tips" episode of RelationFix, Shana discusses 3 no no's for masculine and feminine energy types. Learn what behaviors and patterns to avoid, and how to change them. 

Host: Shana Dubay

Music: ROA

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In this episode of RelationFix, Shana and Frank discuss Attachment Theory; the theory that how we related to our caregivers in early life impacts our ability to form secure relationships later in life. They explore the different types of attachments and give some helpful tips on shifting from anxious, avoidant, or disorganized attachments to secure. Our early relationships often set the foundation for our relationship dynamics as adults, so you will not want to miss this episode to understand how they affected you and your loved ones. 

Resources:

The Attachment Project: Learn Attachment Theory from Experts

Interview with Marisa G. Franco: How to Improve Any Relationship: The 4 Attachment Styles You Need to Know & Tools to Become More Secure (melrobbins.com)

M.A.P.S.: About MAPS - Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies - MAPS

Books: 

Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make--And Keep--Friends a book by Marisa G Franco (bookshop.org)

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--And Keep--Love a book by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller (bookshop.org)

Host: Shana Dubay

Guest: Frank DiLuzio

Music: ROA

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