How to get heard by your spouse.

For years the message women were given has been You Don’t Need a Man. But this has back fired. As long as men think that a woman can do it without them they have no reason to give up being a boy. It’s time we women fix this.

Most women expect their husbands to know what they want. And if they have to tell them then it doesn’t count. Ladies, men can’t read your mind. Don’t get mad when they don’t know what you want. Learn to ask.

Laughter makes life better. Bring laughter in to your Marriage.

If you’re not fixing the problem then you’re not working on the right problem. What was your unmet expectation? What was the meaning you gave it? And Why was it a problem?

Don’t let yourself get crazy in your marriage. It happens when you believe your truth but your spouse is telling you the opposite.

When the couple waits too long to figure out why the love is fading then what a counselor gets are two people blaming each other and aren’t willing to change in order to fix things. Don’t wait that long. Get help how to communicate

Clarify the relationship you’re in. Don’t let their expectations lead to disappointment. Follow me at Be Married (FB) and Kimberly Brenner LCSW (IG)

Did you know you have a mental eco system? A system that is operating unbeknownst to your awareness. And that eco system influences how we communicate.

What my is it that my husband doesn’t talk to me? I hear him talking to other people. It makes me feel alone and that he doesn’t care. Help!