RelationShipping and Handling

The last part of this mini-series on how to argue, based out of James 1:19-20. I'm answering the question of why. Why be quick to listen? Why be slow to speak? Why be slow to become angry? Why does it matter? He could've put a period at the end of verse 19, but didn't. Here's why.

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What makes me angry? Why does it make me angry? How do I need to deal with that anger? All good questions to ask myself, but when I'm in an argument I'm not thinking about those questions. Well James tells us in the core scripture of this mini-series that maybe that should be a higher priority.

This week is focused on a hard topic to digest for some when it comes to arguing: Anger.

(Plus, I talk about Jim and Pam for any Office fans.)

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Part 2 of a series on James' instructions on how to argue. Last week was all about listening and how bad I am at it, with some very dad-like jokes sprinkled in. If you missed it, definitely scroll down and watch.

This week is something I'm equally bad at: speaking. I might have misunderstood my pastor 10 years ago when it came to James 1:19, but I think I finally understand. Let's learn together what it truly means to think twice before speaking.

Starting off a series of episodes about arguing, with James 1:19-20 as the central verses this week. What does the Bible say is the first step in healthy disagreements? Answer: probably one of my biggest weaknesses. Listening. 👂

Apparently it's one of my biggest flaws too...according to Jasmine. 🤣

It's a guarantee in life: death, taxes and dealing with difficult people. Whatever race, gender, economic status, age, everyone will encounter this at some point.

Join me as I dive into the human responses vs how the Holy Spirit is nudging us to respond

Warning! This is a bit controversial, but I'm going to come right out and say it: Self care is not biblical. What God creates, Satan counterfeits. And self care is one of those things.

Whether it's through books, magazines, websites or seminars, you can find a never-ending list of things and ideas to check off trying to rest in self care. But that rest is empty and a lie when you rely on yourself for it.

Find out what God care is and why it's the only way to fully care for yourself and find true rest.

Can you ever truly be friends with your parent or your child? And if so, how does that work?

My mom and I jump into this topic from the both parent and child perspectives. We've been, and still are navigating through that transition process. We're definitely not perfect, but want to share what the Holy Spirit has revealed to us on this subject.

Plus, learn a little more about what it's like to be a Pettijohn, why the nut doesn't fall far from the tree when it comes to punching holes in walls, and how many times I can embarrass my mom. Please share and thanks for listening.

Is dating a serious endeavor for you?

Feel more like an interview process than having fun with someone?

Ever felt like early on into a relationship it had no direction?

Well Jasmine and I address those issues and much more in this episode of Relationshipping and Handling: Elements of Early Dating. Find out with us what God says about how and what to talk about, boundries and time management.

We're also firm believers that dating should be fun, so we've got some date ideas and how to have fun with each other.

Jesus tells us that in order to love others properly, we must first love ourselves properly. How can we love ourselves correctly if we don't view ourselves correctly?

As humans we tend to be overly positive or overly negative when it comes to self reflection. Especially in a social media and fame driven world. Both feed ungodly and sinful actions or thought patterns.

In this episode we'll take a look at what God's Word says about these point of views and my journey towards having a godly relationship with myself.

What better relationship to start with than Jesus. Let's answer some important questions together to see where we stand in that relationship.

1. Do I know Jesus?

2. Does Jesus know me?

3. Do I talk about Jesus?

4. How often do I talk to Jesus?

5. How often does Jesus talk to me?

6. How close am I to Jesus?

7. What can I do to better grow this relationship?/

Where do I need improvement in this relationship? Thanks for listening. Next week: early dating life feat. Jasmine Villanova.