Abusers know they're abusers, but they'll always blame others for their behaviors. Because of their unhealed hearts and minds, whatever power you give to an abuser they will take. You empower them to be who they are in your life.

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We've all have gone through something and we've all felt some pain to some degree. However, how we allow things to affect us falls on us. If we choose to hold on to pain, it stays with us and causes problems in our lives. Most people won't let go and only become comfortable with it. Don't be that person!

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I'm putting this episode out after missing putting out an episode on Monday. I've never missed putting out an episode since I started podcasting. I was in an area hit hard by the storm. This episode talks about people who you allow into your life. Bottom line is whatever or whomever you allow to cause you problems will do just that. Unfortunately, many people are in relationships with manipulative people, and those people will always do to you what you allow. People will always trick you into things they know they can trick you into. They react to how you act. People learn to manipulate early. They are people of all ages, genders, and races.

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When you go through life trying to please and appease others you normally end up losing a sense of who you are. Not having the will to say no will make you always be that person to say yes, which leads to a lot of unnecessary drama and self-inflicted pain. You have no peace because it is you who gave it up. People treat you exactly how you have taught them and how you've allowed.

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Although it may hurt, it isn't the end of the world. Some of you totally disregard the fact that they DON'T want you. You only see what you want (you wanting them), which is why you're suffering so much. You allow them not wanting you to alter your life in a negative way. If a person doesn't want you, it should give you enough strength to want better for yourself and move on. Unfortunately, many people get caught up in their thoughts, feelings, and emotions and because of it, people allow self inflicted pain in their lives. You become your biggest problem. A person who doesn't want you isn't worth your thoughts or your tears. Think about that!!!

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Everything we do begins with a thought! You're in your own way and your mindset is your greatest enemy. Staying in the same negative place (mindset) is a choice no one should make.

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What else is there to say? Unfortunately, due to the hearts and minds of many, there is a lot more to say, because people don't want to hear the truth. If it's wrong, it's wrong for you! You can't see it until you can see past your feelings, wants, desires, and what you see. You can't see past it until you allow healing in your life. Stop chasing love, when you don't love yourself or know what love looks like.

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Sadly, the one person most people need to give attention to is the one who doesn't get it, which is self.  That inner you is who's neglected the most and because of it people are living their lives in despair. Prisoners to their own wrong ways of thinking. The focus of most people is in the wrong place. You can't become better if you remain the same! Allow yourself to heal from your past pains. If you do, your life will never be the same again. Most people who don't heal, live their lives projecting their pains on others, while sabotging thier own lives.

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Most people look outward for love, only to get everything but love in return! It is the reason most people never experience true love. Looking for some to love, validate, and complete you, will always having you chasing and seeking after love. If you want to know what love feels and look like, look inward. You must first learn to love yourself. Allow the inner you to heal so you can move on to become the best you possible.

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A parent can make or break their children. The sad part is because of unhealed hearts and minds, people can't see the damage they're doing to their children. They can't see the devastation they're causing in the children's lives. Many people are unhealed adults who are still carrying around past pain that has hindered and tainted their lives. Unfortunately many of these people are parents who project their hurt onto and into the lives of their children. Many children are reared in horrible conditions, enduring things no child should ever endure. Unfortunately many parents are hurting their children mentally, emotionally, and physically, to include sexually. This is absolutely wrong!. Many parents are treating their children similar or worse than they were treated. The cycle then, continues! It's a sad truth!

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