Relationships and Relatable Life Chronicles

The song is a clip from my gospel album (Do Right) by Cherry Gates. Serving God we must do right, there's no other way! People don't believe they can live holy because they have no faith in God or themselves. They don't have time for building a relationship with Jesus because they're too caught up by the world. Jesus is coming back for each and every one of us and if you're not ready, that's on you! One thing for sure is you can't get away, no one can evade death! Your eternal home will be what you've chosen!

Many people are in horrible situations because they got involved with people or with things that were no good for them. Some people have hurt themselves or others, because they couldn't handle the situation. Some people have lost their minds because of the evil they got involved with. Some people lost their lives or took the lives of others, because of what or who they became involved with. Some people are in prison because of who or what they became involved with. Some people have lost everything because of what or who they became involved with. Some people have developed mental health issues, because of the situations they're in. I can go on and on! What or who you open yourself to may be your worse nightmare!

What you do or don't do falls on you! If you live the dreams of others, that falls on you! If you allow others to hold you back, it falls on you! If you allow the fear you've created stop you from reaching your goals, it's falls on you! Get my point?! You only have one life to live, don't let negative self-talk stop or block you. Your talents aren't just for you, they are for you to share with the world! Don't worry about what people will say, because good or bad, people with their own inner issues allow jealousy and envy to show, and they will always have something to say. Block them out, don't let them block your progress!

You don't understand that when you empower people to do what they want to do to you or what they want to do in general, they will do it. When you empower people you create a problem in your own life because many people don't have a moral compass of right or wrong, they just do what they are allowed to do.

This episode is about two categories, the immature and the mature. Men and women will act according to the category they fall in. Sadly, most immature women put all men in the same category and immature men put all women in the same category, but both are wrong! Immature people think similarly, and they don't feel, or act like mature men and women. It's seen in their choices and decisions, what they allow and accept in their lives, and how they talk and act. Mature people are on a different level, they move differently, and they don't entertain the foolishness of immature people! Most people don't understand it because they can't see past their eyes, hearts, wants, and desires.

Aging isn't the problem, it's your state of mind! People are doing the most outlandish things to prevent aging, when it's impossible. When you love yourself, you will accept your whole self, and the aging process. Man may create something to make your skin or body look better, which helps you to look better, but the aging process is happening inside before you see it on the outside. Man can't stop it!

It's all by choice! When desires for people and things of this world are stronger than the desire for Christ, people will choose the world over God. The Devil and the world will be their god/s, but Hell will be their home!

It's never the load, it's how you carry it! So many people give into the actual situation, not understanding situations pass and what remains are the memories of it. It's not what you've gone through, it's how you've allowed it to affect you! When you are bound by what you've gone through it will always affect your life negatively, and you will remain stuck! Millions of people are mentally and emotionally stuck of free will, because they refuse to allow healing to take place so they can let go and move on! People are comfortable and complacent in their mess because it's a familiar pain they become possessed by. You can't grow with that type of mindset!

This episode explains why I wrote the book "It Hurts Me, A Book for Parents." Think about the atrocities children are having to endure, that they shouldn't. Many parents are subjecting their children to the unthinkable, because of their own unresolved hurt, and unfortunately some of the children are adopting and adapting to negative ways of thinking, feeling, and acting; only to carry that mindset into their adulthood. Most times cycles continue! We see the products of it wherever we go! Although I could have made the book much longer, I decided to make it short, but impactful!

Random thoughts will always come, and most are out of your control, but how you respond to them or entertain them falls solely on you! Many people have allowed their random thoughts to grow by giving power to them, which no longer makes them random. When this happens those random thoughts have become lasting to the point of people succumbing to them, causing havoc in their own lives and in the lives of others!