Relationships and Relatable Life Chronicles

You never know who you're dealing with when you're out there cheating/messing around. Many people think they're slick until they are caught up in unnecessary drama. Be careful, becuase while you're playing around, the other person isn't!

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Most people lose self, while focused on their significant others even when they're being treated like crap. Whatever you allow from your significant other is exactly what you'll get. When you're angry and hurt about it, look at the person staring back at you in the mirror. It falls on you. If you take it, they will give it. When you heal from your pain, you become a better person, one who loves his or herself. When you love yourself, you will not take unnecessary crap from your significant other or anyone else.

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Hearts have truly wax cold. There is so much murdering going on. The devil is busy doing what he does, killing, stealing, and destroying. He's tricking people into doing the unthinkable, because they've given him entry through thier negative thoughts. If you let the devil in, he will try to take over, and will; if you let him. People are murdering out of anger, hurt, old pain, etc. Others are murdering, because they've lost their minds to the devil. Demons are literally taking the minds of people. People who don't want to listen, oftentimes end up going down dark roads leading to destruction. No person or nothing is worth it. You only have one life to live and no one should ever choose to live their life with cold hearts and minds. If someone doesn't want to be with you, life goes on. They aren't worth you doing the unthinkable. To hurt or kill people because it's over between you and them is completely the devil's work. There is no situation worth anyone doing things they can't undo. Stop being prisoners to negative mindsets. Too many people go through life allowing how they think, to ruin their lives.

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Most people are unhappy in their relationships, because their relationships are unhealthy. I don't care how much you love someone, you have to put in the work to make it work. However, it shouldn't be hardwork. Too many people settle for unhealthy relationships and think it's the best they'll ever have. Most people just want to be with someone, and unfortunately, many people settle for just that; someone. More than not, it ends up being a person who isn't good for them. You get what you open yourself up too, and what you allow and accept. Most people are miserable, lonely, and unhappy in their relationships, and spend most time fighting in one way or another. It's unhealthy, but most people can't see it.

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Who you love and how you love is determined by your mindset and their mindset. In relationships, most people put all of their everything into who they're with, while the other person isn't treating them the same way. People settle for one-sided love and it's normally that love, which comes along with a lot of unnecessary drama. As I always say, if a person isn't enhancing your life then, they're the wrong person for you. People can and will drain you in every way possible if you allow it. Too many people believe in it's better to have some love, rather than, no love at all. Loving someone who isn't loving his or herself is going to cause you a lot of drama, and it's a clear sign they have unresolved inner issues. It's important to first know and love yourself so that you don't open yourself up to people who aren't good for you. You can't see this when you're blind to love. If you're blind to love, you're blind to reality.

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Most people think if they look good it fixes them, not understanding the hurt and pain inside is what causing them to believe and think how they do about themselves. Change your mindset it will change your life. Most people go through life miserable, because of their unresolved inner issues. They project them and take on those of other people. Women think they have to expose their bodies to be accepted. It's really sad! People can't find happiness in their relationships, because of their own inner issues and the inner issues of those their involved with. Stop following societal views and opinions, that comes from other broken people. Afterwhile, we will have a world full of people who look the same and act the same. It's happening before our eyes!

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Unfortunately, this is the case for many. Most people would rather stay in their unhappy and unhealthy mindsets than to be alone. Most people have crippling mindsets that has caused major insecurities in their lives. The greatest enemy for most is their own mindsets. If you're afraid to be alone or if you have an issue with being alone, it means you have unresolved issues that you need to deal with in order to heal, let them go, and move on. Most people are far too busy trying to find love, than trying to heal and become better individuals. People are allowing so much foolishness in their lives to be with someone who's doing nothing but cause them drama, draining them, and taking from them. This is clear sign of not loving yourself. Any time you allow and accept anything for love, it is exactly what you will get. I've always said, if they don't enhance your life, you're with the wrong person. You create the monster/s in your life. You!!!

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To avoid an affair you must want to avoid it. The problem is immature people who are still sowing their wild oats or waddling in past pains, don't care when they want, what they want. These types of people have unhealthy mindsets, that causes them to make bad choices and decisions. It causes them the lack, void, etc., inside, which leads to dysfunctional lives. Many people don't try to avoid it, they go full throttle ahead, without thinking of the risks or anything else. Mature people do not think or act that way. It takes a lot to get to a mentally mature level. It changes your life! To become a better person you must choose to become a better person. You'll never get to that level by remaining the same and still being led by your flesh.  Most of all, I recommend Jesus. He can and will tranform you and your life!

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They will go along and pretend to be whatever you tell them that you want. Be careful of what you say, because people are known to become what you tell them you're seeking. They will play the role until they get you, after that, they will begin to be who they really are. If you're able to see the signs and red flags, you'll be able to see through their manipulating ways. Unfortunately, due to unhealed hearts and minds, most people can't see the truth because they're too busy chasing and seeking after their wants and desires. They only accept what's in their faces when they realize that they're in unhealthy and unhappy relationships. People desperately seek love when they have no clue what love is about. Most people don't even love self. It's one of the main reasons people can't see the truth!

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Most people can't see the truth about the person they want to be with or is with, because they're blind by their own feelings, wants, and desires. They can't see the red flags and signs, because they're too wrapped up in self. They're in denial about what is actually happening in the relationship because they tend to make everything about self. People are caught up in their own wants, desires, and feelings. Many are being mistreated but they won't accept it because they hope the person will change. They do whatever they think is possible to try to make the person happy, thinking it will make him or her love them and want to be with them. It doesn't! Unhealed hearts and minds equals to brokenness, which causes insecurities of different levels and is why many seek love, etc., in others when they don't even love self. These types of people allow and accept things they shouldn't.

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