Relationships and Relatable Life Chronicles

Trying to love someone who doesn't want you is a bad decision. You will suffer the consequences of your choices. Love yourself enough to respect yourself and know your worth. If you haven't figured you out or learnt to love yourself you will undoubtedly open yourself up to unnecessary and unwarranted drama, headache, and heartache. Stop trying to hold on to people who don't want to you. Love yourself enough to make better choices.

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Too many people live life in misery. They struggle their entire lives because they keep doing the same things. They choose to be comfortable where they have always been, but never see that they are their own worst enemy. If you know you're struggling with something but you keep indulging in it or going back to it, you're the problem! People fail themselves over and over. On top of that, they choose to do it again and again. You can't get better by remaining the same. That weight will never get off of your back until you take it off. The only person holding you down and back is you!

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It doesn't matter how much you love him or her, if they don't love you, it will be an unhealthy relationship and you'll be an unhappy person.

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Many people operate from unhealthy mindsets. It doesn't matter how much someone loves you or you love someone, they can't take away the pain inside of you. Unhealed hearts and minds ruins and sabotages lives and sometimes leads to self destruction.

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Sadly, many people are using their children as pawns and scapegoats because of the emotional ties, bonds, and feelings they still have for their exes. You're wrong!!!! All it does is cause more issues for everyone to include the children. There should be clear boundaries that exes and children must understand and not be allowed to cross. You can't give a child everything, there has to be boundaries. You can't do everything a child ask of you, because sometimes you need to say no, because what they ask isn't feasible of you being a person with another significant other. You can't make up for lost times and there shouldn't be a situation where your new significant other feels they're not wanted or accepted, because your child want it to be just their mom and dad. You have to be able explain this to your child/ren. You have to know how to have a healthy balance and do not cross the boundaries you've set or let anyone else cross them, to include your child. People, to include your child, treat you how you have taught them to treat you. Always be there for your child, but in a mature and healthy way, not through emotional ties and lingering feelings for their mom or dad. Be that parent who set good and solid boundaries for all involved. When children know your weak concerning them, children can sometimes be manipulative, especially if coerced by the other parent or if it's the child's own doing. You shouldn't have an obligation to the other parent but to the child. There should be clear boundaries set. Never give anyone empty promises, just be honest!

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Be sure to treat the one you supposedly love with love and care, because if you constantly chip away at their love for you by always doing the wrong things, they will check out on you mentally. Oftentimes there's no coming back from it. If you love who you're with, don't mess up your relationship. Too many people choose to put more time and energy in others than in the one they're with. People treat you how you've taught them to treat you.

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Whatever they do or don't do to you or whatever you have to go through is because you've empowered them. They treat you how you've taught them to treat you.

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It's a fact! You can blame all you want to, but as an adult, who or what you've chosen to become, falls solely on you! If you choose to remain in the same place in life, you'll never grow mentally. Many people are stuck mentally in their early years because they do not choose to change. Instead, they go through life complaining, blaming, and waddling, despite the fact it's causing dysfunction in their lives. You can blame anyone you choose, whatever you do or whoever you choose to become falls on you! Your choice, your decision!

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When you're caught up on looks and it's all you see or care about, you'll miss the substance it requires to have a healthy relationship. I don't care what anyone says, it's the mindset of immature individuals who are led by what they see, feel, want, and desire.

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How you think will directly affect how you feel and act. Many people may not act out, but they're still affected by how they think. There are others who will act out for the same reason, their mindsets. Unhealed hearts and minds alters lives. How you think will affect your relationships and other facets of your life. Change is up to you and only you! All things and every situation are only as bad as you think they are and make them.

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