Despite the reason why, you can't fix whatever the problem is with your significant other. Many people have lost a sense of self trying desperately to love someone who doesn't want to be loved. A person can't love you if they can't love self.

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This isn't meant as being egotistical. It means being aware of how you're being treated. It means being aware of what you allow and accept in your relationship. You created the monster you now have to deal with. You create the monster when you let your significant other treat you any way they want. If you take it they will dish it out!

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Too many people settle for this type of relationship thinking their significant others will change. Why would they when they're allowed to do whatever they want to you? You teach people exactly how they can treat you by enabling them and making them think what they do to you is okay when it's not okay!

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Your love for your significant changed when you finally realized they weren't willing to stop the shenanighans. Too many people accept and allow the shenanighans, but then they get to a point where they can't deal with them anymore. What they thought they felt for their significant other changed and they no longer feel the same. The things you see now is what you should have saw before. It is time to decide what to do next.

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Plenty of people are in very toxic and volatile relationships. The relationship is stressful and full of constant drama. It causes family, friends, and others to not want you around because of who you're with. Everyone, but you sees your life as a train wreck waiting to happen. This is an extremely unhealthy and dangerous relationship.

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Sadly most people are not. People get into relationships for all of the wrong reasons with the wrong people. However, because people want what they want they will get into relationships they shouldn't be in. There are many people who are married to people they're not evenly yoked with and people who aren't really meant for them. This is what happens when individuals chase after the flesh (desires, wants, feelings, emotions, self gratification, the superficial, etc). They ultimately end up in unhappy unfulfilled realtionships.

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The title says it all! Some people still won't get it, because their focus is self gratification while their significant other's focus is the same (self gratification). Love isn't blind, people are!

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This is a very unhealthy way to think, yet it's what some people do. Blaming yourself for the actions of your significant others keeps you in unhealthy relationships. All this does is empower and enable others to do whatever they want to you.

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You'll become drained and beaten down trying to make an unhappy person happy. Happiness has to start within each of us. No one can give you what you must possess within self. Many people find out the hard way people only change, because they choose to change. You can't fix, save, or change anyone other than yourself!

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When you think abuse is love it's clear you don't know what love is at all! People abuse because it's what they've grown accustom to doing. They are given permission when the person abused says and does nothing.

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