Relationsh!t Podcast

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Marko and Steve dive into the tricky dynamic of "parenting" your partner in a relationship. They explore how taking on a parental role—whether through constant reminders, micromanaging, or handling all responsibilities—can create imbalance, resentment, and even emotional exhaustion. They discuss how this pattern often leads to one partner feeling overwhelmed and the other feeling infantilized, which can erode intimacy and mutual respect. Marko and Steve also share insights on how to shift out of this unhealthy dynamic, set boundaries, and build a more equal partnership. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. Parade | 11 Common Signs You're 'Parenting' Your Partner, According to Psychologists
2. Forbes | 3 Signs You Play The ‘Parent’ In Your Relationship—By A Psychologist

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Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT.  That’s (903) 763-7448.  You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at [email protected].

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Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today!  Your donations will give you early access to the podcast,  behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.

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Marko and Steve dive deep into the dangers of complacency in relationships and how staying complacent in your single life can hinder personal growth. They start by defining complacency as a state of stagnation, and discuss moments in their lives where they may have been complacent by themselves or with a partner, and how they got past it. Are we at all guilty of experiencing mundanity or complacency in our lives? To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. Marriage.com | 11 Signs of Complacency in a Relationship and Ways to Fix It
2. BetterHelp.com | The Impact Of Becoming Complacent In A Relationship And How To Overcome It

Support the show

Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT.  That’s (903) 763-7448.  You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at [email protected].

Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast.

Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today!  Your donations will give you early access to the podcast,  behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.

Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review!

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Marko and Steve dive into the world of social media relationships—those picture-perfect couples and "IG thots" that flood Instagram with seemingly flawless moments. They discuss how these curated posts have shaped their own perceptions, sometimes making them question what's real and what's just for show. They break down the illusion of online romance, how filters and captions hide the struggles underneath, and why comparing your own relationships to these highlight reels is a losing game. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. Mary Jo Rapini | 5 Things Happy Couples Know About Social Media

Support the show

Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT.  That’s (903) 763-7448.  You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at [email protected].

Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast.

Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today!  Your donations will give you early access to the podcast,  behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.

Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review!

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To open up season 11, Marko and new co-host Steve dive into the realities of being single, aka "in these streets," and contrast it with married life—discussing what "in these streets" might mean when you're in a committed relationship. They share personal takes, debate the pros and cons of both lifestyles, and sprinkle in some humor along the way. To wrap things up, they tackle the week's Listener Sh!tuation, offering their thoughts and guidance on a real-life dilemma from the audience.

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Articles:

1. What's On Queer BC | The Struggles and Strategies of Gay Dating
2. Little Gay Book | Make Your Own Dating Rules for 2025

Support the show

Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT.  That’s (903) 763-7448.  You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at [email protected].

Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast.

Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today!  Your donations will give you early access to the podcast,  behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.

Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review!

Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit

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If you haven't listened to last week's episode - START THERE!

Once you've done that, check out this interview from the newest co-host of Relationsh!t as he sits down with Marko to talk about the future of the podcast.

Support the show

Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT.  That’s (903) 763-7448.  You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at [email protected].

Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast.

Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today!  Your donations will give you early access to the podcast,  behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.

Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review!

Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit

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After last season's big Relationsh!t announcement, Marko returns this week with a podcast update and new co-host ...

Support the show

Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT.  That’s (903) 763-7448.  You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at [email protected].

Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast.

Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today!  Your donations will give you early access to the podcast,  behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.

Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review!

Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit

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We adore Kiko (@keek_oh) and Drew (@hi.drews), this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals - all the way in Hawaii. These husbands and life-lovers are so sweet on each other and the way they adore one another is beyond inspiring and incredible to watch. Give them a follow on IG and make sure to tell them the Critellis sent you! Then, though they haven’t experienced this together, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about threesomes! They’ve had lives before one another, and sometimes that life included a threesome (or a few) … but what happens when you’re in a monogamous relationship? Are threesomes completely off the table? If not, does it redefine your relationship altogether? The guys sit down to discuss. Finally, @thecritellis read this week’s Listener Sh!tuation and do their best to give some guidance, Critelli-style.

Articles:

1. WebMD: What to Know About Having a Threesome

Shit to Put on Your Radar:

• Visit the More Elephant website (https://www.moreelephant.com/) to learn more about Jason’s podcast and learn more about the Alvin O. McCray and Jason M. Rudman Community College Scholarship program. Check it out and donate if your heart is moved to do so.
• If you could use some mental clarity, natural energy, and enhanced productivity, then we totally recommend you try Magic Mind! You can get it at: www.magicmind.com/relation. With RELATION20 you also get up to 56% off your first subscription or 20% off your one-time purchase - it also works if you’re already a subscriber! You save on your next subscription payment.
• Get all your shave and beard needs by visiting www.proraso-usa.com and using code RELATIONSHIT15 at checkout, and get 15% off your purchase! 

Support the show

Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at [email protected].

Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast.

Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.

Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review!

Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit

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Jason (@mrjohnsmccall) and James (@jsquared05), and all their greatness, is this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals. These Atlanta-based husbands are equal parts fierce and fantastic - and we are so inspired by them and their love for one another. Give them a follow on IG, and make sure to let them know the Critellis sent you! Then, the guys sit down to talk about something both silly and sweet: pet names. Is calling your partner something cutesy (other than their name) necessary for a successful relationship? At what point does a pet name become gross for bystanders? Then, the guys are joined at the virtual Critable by husbands Alvin (@alvinonielmcrray70) and Jason (@jasonrudman) to discuss their 26-year long relationship and marriage, the choice to have children, and all around LGBTQ+ amazingness.  Finally, @thecritellis read this week’s Listener Sh!tuation and do their best to give some guidance, Critelli-style.

Articles:

1. Scientific American: Why Do We Use Pet Names in Relationships?

Shit to Put on Your Radar:

• Visit the More Elephant website (https://www.moreelephant.com/) to learn more about Jason’s podcast and learn more about the Alvin O. McCray and Jason M. Rudman Community College Scholarship program. Check it out and donate if your heart is moved to do so.
• If you could use some mental clarity, natural energy, and enhanced productivity, then we totally recommend you try Magic Mind! You can get it at: www.magicmind.com/relation. With RELATION20 you also get up to 56% off your first subscription or 20% off your one-time purchase - it also works if you’re already a subscriber! You save on your next subscription payment.
• Get all your shave and beard needs by visiting www.proraso-usa.com and using code RELATIONSHIT15 at checkout, and get 15% off your purchase!

Support the show

Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at [email protected].

Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast.

Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.

Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review!

Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit

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Wanna see fabulousness? Then look no further than Sharnika and Mahala (@meetthepowers) - the week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals. These goddesses are perfection and love personified, and we are so infatuated with them.  Go give them a follow on IG and show them some love - and don’t forget to let them know the Critelli’s sent you.  Then, Marko and Tony get together to find out whether or not they’ve slept with friends or ever thought about it. Is it “normal” in gay culture to separate sex and friendship? And should everyone be more comfortable with boinking their bestie? Finally, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by the jacked priest himself, Father Ethan Jewett (@jackedpriest). We find out about Father Ethan’s journey to the church and how his muscles play a part in his social media and faith. Finally, @thecritellis read this week’s Listener Sh!tuation and do their best to give some guidance, Critelli-style.

Articles:

1. Mic.com: Queer People Have Mastered Sexual Friendships-and It’s Time You Straights Caught On 
2. Very Well Family: You’re Gay and You’ve Slept with All Your Friends

Shit to Put on Your Radar:

• Want to be a guest on Relationsh!t? The Critellis are looking for interesting LGBTQ+ listeners to guest on the podcast and chat with the guys for a future episode. DM the guys on Instagram or send an email to [email protected] and let’s get an interview scheduled!
• If you could use some mental clarity, natural energy, and enhanced productivity, then we totally recommend you try Magic Mind! You can get it at: www.magicmind.com/relation. With RELATION20 you also get up to 56% off your first subscription or 20% off your one-time purchase - it also works if you’re already a subscriber! You save on your next subscription payment.
• Get all your shave and beard needs by visiting www.proraso-usa.com and using code RELATIONSHIT15 at checkout, and get 15% off your purchase! 

Support the show

Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at [email protected].

Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast.

Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.

Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review!

Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit

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Bloggers and partners, Karl and Daan (@coupleofmen) are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals - and we are so fascinated by them! This storytelling and traveling duo make it a point to explore the world and share their experiences with like-minded LGBTQ+ adventurers. If you’re craving queer love at its best, with a side of travel - these guys are for you! Check them out and give them a follow. Then, the guys sit down to explore the ‘1-1-1-1 Rule’ for marriages and talk about their experiences and goals with it. How can you make your relationship and time together more effective? This topic and episode will give you some tips.  And finally, @thecritellis read this week’s Listener Sh!tuation and do their best to give some guidance, Critelli-style.

Articles:

1. Your Tango: 7 Reasons Taking Vacations Together Actually Makes You Healthier
2. Very Well Family: Should You Vacation Without Your Kids?
3. Very Well Mind: How to Initiate Sex With Your Partner
4. Marriage.com: The Importance of Date Night in a Marriage and Tips to Make It Happen
5. Thrive Couples Counseling: Social Media’s Effect on Marriage: How to Balance Screen Time and Keep Your Relationship Strong

Shit to Put on Your Radar:

• Want to be a guest on Relationsh!t? The Critellis are looking for interesting LGBTQ+ listeners to guest on the podcast and chat with the guys for a future episode. DM the guys on Instagram or send an email to [email protected] and let’s get an interview scheduled!
• Get all your shave and beard needs by visiting www.proraso-usa.com and using code RELATIONSHIT15 at checkout, and get 15% off your purchase! 

Support the show

Sh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 763-7448. You can also fill out a Listener Sh!tuation on our website, podrelationshit.com, or email us at [email protected].

Visit Us |www.podrelationshit.com for more Relationsh!t content and information about the podcast.

Donate | Head over to patreon.com/podrelationshit and start donating today! Your donations will give you early access to the podcast, behind-the-scenes interviews with our weekly guests, and merchandise.

Rate Us | Go to your favorite podcast directory and give Relationsh!t a 5-Star rating, and a fantastic review!

Follow Us | Instagram and Facebook: @podrelationshit