This week’s take on tools and tips from the recovery is about empathy, triggers, and the quiet truth that healing doesn’t usually arrive in a lightning bolt.

If you’ve ever felt activated by things that shouldn’t be a big deal… this episode is for you. 

Core idea: You can understand someone without co-signing them. You can hear venting without taking on the baggage

Empathy is seeing someone, not siding with them. Empathy is not compliance. Agreement is a choice and an inner belief; empathy is a posture.

Agreement for the sake of “keeping peace” is at the expense of truth and honesty.  UGH hard lesson!

Recovery Is Gradual, Not Sudden

Healing is quieter than we were taught to expect.

“What am I asking to be resolved when what I really need is peace or relief in the moment?”

As the stoics say: Let’s work for the rest of our lives on self-improvement.