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  • Paul Perrier... Did WHAT at 64?

    Paul Perrier shares his incredible journey of riding across Canada at the age of 64, motivated by a desire to raise awareness for mental health and addiction. He discusses his background in photography and filmmaking, the making of his impactful documentary 'Cracked Not Broken', and the personal growth he experienced throughout his journey. The conversation delves into the challenges he faced, the emotional toll of documenting addiction, and the lessons learned from his experiences. From a documentary filmed in a dark apartment in Toronto to The Oprah Winfrey Show and HBO...It's truly a remarkable story!

                                                                                                                                                               Takeaways

    • Paul rode across Canada to raise awareness for mental health.
    • His background in photography influenced his documentary work.
    • 'Cracked Not Broken' highlights the struggles of addiction.
    • The documentary had a significant impact on Lisa's life.
    • Paul's memoir 'Cracked Wide Open' explores his personal journey.
    • He faced numerous challenges during his bike ride.
    • The experience was both terrifying and rewarding for Paul.
    • Fear often holds people back from pursuing their dreams.
    • Paul's journey serves as an inspiration for others.
    • The importance of storytelling in addressing addiction.

      • Chapters

      (00:00)-Introduction to Paul Perrier's Journey

      (02:30)-The Motivation Behind the Bike Tour

      (04:25)-From Photography to Documentary Filmmaking

      (06:14)-The Making of 'Cracked Not Broken'

      (08:21)-The Impact of Addiction and Mental Health

      (10:17)-The Journey of Lisa and the Documentary's Reception

      (12:30)-The Aftermath and Lessons Learned

      (14:47)-Reflections on Art and Addiction

      (16:48)-Conclusion and Future Aspirations

      (23:41)-The Roots of Creativity

      (26:22)-The Evolution of Photography

      (29:03)-Capturing Moments in a Digital Age

      (31:59)-The Art of Portrait Photography

      (35:32)-A Journey Across Canada

      (39:33)-The Personal Pilgrimage

      (44:37)-Facing Fears and Embracing Adventure  

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      53 min
    • Angelo Tsarouchas ... My Favourite Greek

      Terry Evans and Angelo Tsarouchas delve into a variety of topics, from their shared love of hockey and Canadian culture to the challenges and joys of touring as a comedian. They reflect on their childhood experiences, the differences between life in Canada and California, and the evolving landscape of comedy and social media. Angelo shares anecdotes from his film career, including memorable encounters with Marlon Brando, Robert Deniro, and discusses the importance of maintaining friendships in the industry. The conversation is filled with humor, nostalgia, and insights into the life of a traveling comedian.


      Takeaways:


      • Angelo Tsarouchas shares his love for hockey and Canadian culture.

      • The conversation highlights the differences in sports culture between Canada and the U.S.

      • Traveling as a comedian offers unique experiences and challenges.

      • Nostalgia plays a significant role in their discussions about growing up.

      • Life in California is contrasted with the Canadian experience, especially regarding weather.

      • Social media has changed the landscape of comedy and audience engagement.

      • Friendships in the comedy industry are vital for support and collaboration.

      • Angelo's experiences on film sets provide insight into celebrity culture.

      • The importance of adapting comedy for different audiences, such as on cruise ships.

      • The conversation emphasizes the joy of performing and staying connected with fans.

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      Chapters

      (00:00)Hockey Passion and Cultural Differences

      (04:40)Travel Tales and Cultural Observations

      (08:56)Generational Perspectives on Parenting

      (14:09)Health Care and Insurance Experiences

      (17:52)Air Travel and Pricing Issues

      (19:21)Natural Disasters and Living in California

      (24:31)Social Media Trends and Content Creation

      (30:18)Cruise Ship Comedy: A Unique Experience

      (35:27)The New Wave of Comedians

      (46:41)Upcoming Projects and Future Endeavors

      www.funnygreek.com

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      59 min
    • Art New... The Players Moving Day

      Terry Evans speaks with Art New, the head pro at Trestle Creek Golf Resort, about the ongoing Players Championship at TPC Sawgrass. They discuss the significance of the tournament, the unique features of Trestle Creek, and the mental challenges of golf. The conversation also highlights emerging talents in the golf world, the performance of Canadian golfers, and the costs associated with playing iconic courses. The episode wraps up with promotions for Trestle Creek and Mixd Bag Golf.

      Takeaways

      • Art New has extensive experience in the golf industry.
      • Trestle Creek Golf Resort is a hidden gem with a vibrant community.
      • The Players Championship is a prestigious event for golfers.
      • Justin Thomas's comeback from a poor round to a record-tying performance is remarkable.
      • The type of grass on golf courses can significantly affect play.
      • Emerging golfers like Eric Cole and Chandler Phillips show great potential.
      • Canadian golfers like Corey Conners and Taylor Pendrith are on the rise.
      • The cost of playing iconic courses like TPC Sawgrass is quite high.
      • Golf is as much a mental game as it is physical.
      • The conversation around golf needs more character and personality.

        • Chapters

        (00:00)-Introduction and Background of Art New

        (03:25)-The Players Championship and TPC Sawgrass

        (06:10)-The Impact of LIV Golf on the PGA Tour

        (09:08)-Justin Thomas's Incredible Round

        (13:40)-Scotty Scheffler's Potential and Rory McIlroy's Comeback

        (16:17)-Emerging Golf Talents to Watch

        (19:34)-Canadian Golfers Making Waves

        (22:54)-The Cost of Playing Iconic Golf Courses

        (25:56)-Promotions and Closing Remarks

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        35 min
      • Mel Chmilar Jr. ... Dark Side of the Grill

        Mel Chmilar, a renowned pit master and the face behind 'Dark Side of the Grill.' Mel shares his journey from being a welder in Edmonton to becoming an international barbecue superstar. He discusses the influence of his family, the role of social media in his rise to fame, and the unique experiences he has had while catering and competing in barbecue events around the world. Mel also delves into his culinary inspirations, the development of his brand, and his plans for the future, all while emphasizing the joy of cooking and sharing food with others. Mel is a super interesting guy and the perfect example of "Stepping off the curb" and developing a unique brand. A personality that is as big as some of the briskets he cooks.


        Takeaways

        -Mel Chmilar transitioned from welding to barbecue due to a passion for cooking.

        -Social media played a crucial role in Mel's rise to fame as a pit master.

        -Family influence, particularly from his father, shaped Mel's adventurous spirit.

        -Mel built a massive smoker during the COVID lockdown, showcasing his welding skills.

        -Catering events allow Mel to bring joy and food to diverse audiences.

        -Mel's culinary background includes traditional family recipes and techniques.

        -He emphasizes the importance of using quality ingredients in barbecue.

        -Mel enjoys teaching and sharing his knowledge of barbecue with others.

        -Traveling for barbecue competitions has led to unique experiences around the world.

        -Mel's brand, 'Dark Side of the Grill,' continues to grow with new products and collaborations.


        Chapters


        (00:00)-Introduction to Mel Chmilar

        (02:47)-The Journey from Welder to Pit Master

        (05:21)-Social Media and the Rise to Fame

        (08:07)-Family Legacy and Personal Stories

        (10:52)-The Big Green Egg Ambassador Experience

        (13:23)-Building the Ultimate Smoker

        (16:08)-Culinary Influences and Techniques

        (18:54)-Cooking for the Community

        (22:56)-Traveling the World for Barbecue

        (25:55)-Engagement with Alberta Beef and Local Classes

        (29:27)-Catering and Competitions: The BBQ Journey Begins

        (31:19)-Key West Invitational: A Unique BBQ Experience

        (35:27)-Global Adventures: BBQing Around the World

        (37:38)-The Evolution of a BBQ Entrepreneur

        (41:21)-The Quirky Side of BBQ: Stories and Experiences

        (43:26)-Charcoal vs. Gas: The BBQ Debate

        (46:11)-Big Green Egg: The Ultimate BBQ Tool

        (52:21)-BBQ Rubs and Flavors: The Secret Ingredients

        (56:06)-Upcoming Events: What's Next for the BBQ Enthusiast

        www.darksideofthegrill.com

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        1 hr 1 min
      • Scott Thornton ... 3rd Overall Pick

        Terry's old Bungy Jumping pal, Scott Thornton, reflects on his nearly two-decade NHL career, sharing stories about his time with teams like the Toronto Maple Leafs, Edmonton Oilers, and Montreal Canadiens. He discusses the friendships formed during his playing days, the impact of trades, and the camaraderie among players. Thornton also opens up about the health challenges he faced post-career, including concussions and recovery. He highlights his involvement with Valor Hockey, a company focused on creating safer helmets, and discusses the growth of women's hockey as a promising future for the sport.


        Takeaways

        • Scott Thornton had a successful NHL career spanning nearly two decades.
        • He formed lasting friendships with teammates and other players.
        • The trade from Toronto to Edmonton was a significant moment in his career.
        • Playing in iconic hockey cities like Toronto, Edmonton, and Montreal was a unique experience.
        • Health challenges post-career include dealing with concussions and injuries.
        • Valor Hockey aims to innovate safety gear for hockey players.
        • The growth of women's hockey is a positive trend for the sport.
        • Thornton emphasizes the importance of camaraderie among players.
        • He remains active and adventurous in his post-hockey life.
        • The hockey community is deeply connected, sharing experiences and support.


          • Chapters

          (00:00) -Introduction and Early Career Highlights

          (02:36) -Life After Hockey: Hobbies and Friendships

          (04:42) -Charity Rides and Community Engagement

          (07:27) -The Brotherhood of Hockey: Teammates and Bonds

          (09:41) -Memories of Edmonton: Teammates and Fun Times

          (12:35) -Reflections on Loss and Camaraderie

          (15:22) -Draft Day and Transition to the NHL

          (17:53) -Blockbuster Trade: A New Chapter Begins

          (23:14) -The Big Trade: A Turning Point in Career

          (25:05) -Experiencing the Greatness of Edmonton

          (28:23) -The Montreal Experience: A Dream Come True

          (30:33) -Family Life: Balancing Career and Parenthood

          (35:08) -The Next Generation: Kids and Hockey

          (38:56) -Health Challenges Post-Career

          (40:36) -Valor Hockey: A New Era in Safety

          (48:58) -The Growth of Women's Hockey

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          56 min
        • Mike Plume... Saw Slash Naked

          Looking back on friendships, I have come to the conclusion that I have left far too much time between checking in a catching up with dear friends. Shit happens and life gets in the way of stuff...but don't let too much time go by without reconnecting with your pals. In this episode of the Reluctantly Podcast, I reconnect with musician Mike Plume for a four-month checkup. It's been four months since Mike was my first podcast guest.. He also has a Canadian Prairies Tour coming up that you should go see. We discuss various topics, including reflections on music documentaries, the evolution of podcasting, memorable encounters in the music industry, and the vibrant Canadian music scene. Plume shares stories from his career, including a hilarious encounter at the U.S. border and a memorable night with Slash. The conversation wraps up with details about Plume's upcoming tour and the excitement of sharing stories and songs with audiences.


          Takeaways

          • Mike Plume reflects on his role as a recurring guest.
          • The impact of music documentaries on artists and fans.
          • Podcasting offers a new platform for storytelling.
          • Memorable encounters in the music industry shape careers.
          • The Canadian music scene has a rich history and influence.
          • Terry Evans shares his journey into podcasting.
          • The importance of personal stories in music.
          • Upcoming tour details highlight the excitement of live performances.
          • The evolution of music consumption and its impact on artists.
          • The significance of Canadian content regulations in music.


            • Chapters

            (00:00) -Introduction and Podcast Origins

            (09:32) -Reflections on Saturday Night Live and Its Impact

            (19:18) -The We Are the World Documentary Discussion

            (29:28) -Memorable First Trip to LA

            (31:49) -Hanging Out with Slash

            (35:35) -Canadian Music Scene Reflections

            (36:17) -The Evolution of Media Consumption

            (41:21) -Upcoming Solo Tour Plans

            (45:30) -Personal Stories and Anecdotes

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            57 min
          • Leesa Beeson... Upside Down Aircraft

            2025 has been noteworthy in the Commercial Airline industry for the wrong reasons. Most recently the crash of the Delta Airlines flight at Toronto's Pearson International Airport. 

            Terry Evans and former Flight Attendant, Leesa Beeson discuss the multifaceted role of FA's, touching on their training, experiences, and the importance of their work in ensuring passenger safety. Leesa shares her journey from being a flight attendant to starting her own business, www.WanderlustStuff.com , which focuses on unique travel accessories for women. They also delve into the challenges flight attendants face, including public perception, pay structure, and the need for greater respect in the industry.


            Takeaways

            • Air travel is a luxury for many and a necessity for others.
            • Leesa started her business during COVID to embody the feeling of wanderlust.
            • Every product on her website has a unique story behind it.
            • Flight attendants are trained extensively for emergency situations.
            • The one crew concept ensures teamwork among flight attendants.
            • Public perception often underestimates the skills of flight attendants.
            • Flight attendants are only paid when the cabin door is closed.
            • There is a movement in Canada for better pay for flight attendants.
            • Keeping your phone on airplane mode is still a best practice.
            • A simple act of kindness can make a flight attendant's day.


              • Chapters

              (00:00) -Introduction to Flight Attendant Life

              (02:05) -The Entrepreneurial Spirit: Wanderlust Stuff

              (05:17) -The Importance of Flight Attendants

              (11:46) -Training and Emergency Preparedness

              (18:14) -Real-Life Experiences in the Air

              (28:06) -Changing Perceptions and Pay Structures


              Connect with Leesa Here - www.WanderlustStuff.com

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              37 min
            • Lee Aaron... My First Rock Star

              Ahead of her show coming up in Edmonton February 22/25 at The Century Casino Showroom, Terry and Lee Aaron reflect on their 41-year acquaintance in the Canadian music industry, the parallels they share in life, the evolution of the music scene, the challenges of social media, and the importance of authenticity. Nobody has an easy road in Rock and Roll and sadly, men have made it more difficult for women who deserve to be recognized for more than their appearance. It's an age-old issue that Lee has battled her entire career. She shares insights on parenting in a musical household, her journey as a trailblazer for women in rock, and the dynamics of working with family. The discussion also touches on the significance of sisterhood in the industry, and her aspirations for the future of her music and legacy.


              Takeaways

              • Lee Aaron and Terry Evans met 41 years ago.
              • The music scene has changed significantly, making it harder for new artists to find a circuit.
              • Social media is essential for artists, but it can be overwhelming to manage authentically.
              • Parenting in a musical household brings unique challenges and joys.
              • Lee Aaron's career was built on hard work and perseverance, not meteoric success.
              • She feels a sense of responsibility as a trailblazer for women in rock music.
              • Collaboration and camaraderie among female artists are important to her.
              • The business of music today requires artists to maintain control over their work.
              • Empowerment themes in her music resonate with both men and women.
              • Lee Aaron is exploring the possibility of reclaiming her music masters.


                • Chapters


                (00:00) -The Longest Relationship in Rock and Roll

                (02:49) -The Evolution of the Music Scene

                (05:51) -Navigating Social Media as a Musician

                (08:18) -Parenting and Artistic Influence

                (11:18) -The Journey of a Rock Star

                (13:46) -Artistic Aspirations and Future Projects

                (27:36) -Behind the Scenes of 'Metal Queen' Video

                (31:27) -Trailblazing Women in Rock

                (36:53) -Empowerment Themes in Music

                (42:28) -Sisterhood Among Female Artists

                (45:48) -Influences Shaping Lee Aaron's Sound

                (47:31) -Navigating Marriage and Music

                (49:56) -The Evolution of Music Production

                (51:35) -Owning Artistic Control in Music

                (54:24) -Future Projects and Legacy

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                1 hr 3 min
              • Toque... A Knit Cap

                This is a Friday Bonus Episode featuring Todd Kerns and Cory Churko of Toque. They discuss their upcoming performance at the Rockin' Thunder Music Festival in a number of cities across Canada this Summer. Cory and Todd talk about creating new music in the modern music industry, and their journey from covering classic Canadian rock to writing original songs. All four members have incredible pedigree and have shared the stage with some of the biggest names in music from Shania Twain to Slash, Alice Cooper to Gene Simmons and Nickelback to P!nk.

                Takeaways

                • The Rockin' Thunder Music Festival features major acts like Def Leppard, Weezer, Stone Temple Pilots and Joan Jett.
                • Toque is focusing on releasing new music one song at a time.
                • The music industry has changed significantly, impacting how artists promote their work.
                • Collaboration is key for Toque, especially with members' busy schedules.
                • The band started as a tribute to Canadian rock but evolved into creating original music.
                • Toque's name reflects their Canadian identity and musical heritage.
                • The writing process involves collaboration with talented artists like Derry from Honeymoon Suite.
                • The band members have extensive backgrounds in the music industry, enhancing their collaboration.
                • Toque's music aims to resonate with both Canadian and international audiences.
                • The band is excited about their upcoming performances and new releases.


                  • Chapters

                  00:00-Rock and Thunder Concert Announcement

                  02:48-Navigating the Modern Music Industry

                  05:55-The Evolution of Toque: From Covers to Originals

                  08:48-Collaborative Writing Process and Upcoming Music


                  Broken by Toque https://youtu.be/mZzhoKtbasY?si=h41Y9iYfmyEQBflD

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                  11 min
                • Nice Horse... Sew Puzzled

                  Terry corals Brandi and Katie from Nice Horse to discuss their recent nominations for the Country Music Alberta Awards, their experiences in the music industry, and how they have both embraced being the coolest nerds in country music. They share personal stories about their journey as a duo, the importance of live performances, and the impact of community support during tough times, including a recent gear theft incident. The duo also reflects on the role of women in music, their aspirations for the future and how important the two members who left Nice Horse still are to them today. Two of the funnest people I have had the pleasure to meet in the music industry! Check out their music, videos, merch and tour dates at www.nicehorsemusic.com #NiceHorse #countrymusic #countrymusicalbertaawards #womeninmusic #songwriting #communitysupport #singersongwriter #katierox #brandisidoryk 

                   Takeaways 


                   The journey of Nice Horse has been marked by perseverance and community support. 

                  Charity events play a significant role in connecting artists with their fans and the community. 

                  Awards recognition is a validation of hard work and dedication to their craft. 

                  The transition from a four-member band to a duo brought new opportunities and challenges. 

                  Personal stories and experiences shape the music and connection with audiences. 

                  The pandemic forced artists to adapt and find new ways to engage with fans. 

                  Women in music face unique challenges but are making significant strides in the industry. 

                  Live performances are crucial for building a fanbase and showcasing talent. 

                  The importance of community support during difficult times cannot be overstated. 

                  Future aspirations include continuing to create music and connect with audiences. 


                  Chapters 

                  (00:00) -Introduction and Award Nominations 

                  (03:00) -Charity Events and Community Engagement 

                  (05:27) -Reflections on the Grammys and Alberta Country Music Awards 

                  (08:02) -Songwriting and Creative Process 

                  (10:39) -Personal Stories and Hobbies 

                  (13:03) -Transitioning from a Four-Piece to a Duo 

                  (15:40) -The Importance of Live Performances 

                  (18:33) -The Journey of Nice Horse 

                  (21:14) -Career Backgrounds and Side Hustles 

                  (24:31) -The Evolution of Hobbies 

                  (25:35) -Celebrating Creative Collaborations 

                  (26:47) -The Impact of Mentorship in Music 

                  (29:48) -Navigating the Pandemic as Artists 

                  (34:22) -Finding Resilience in Adversity 

                  (38:08) -The Journey of Podcasting and Content Creation 

                  (41:11) -The Journey to Bass Guitar 

                  (43:07) -Breaking Stereotypes in Music 

                  (46:13) -The Banjo Adventure 

                  (50:09) -2024: A Year of Milestones 

                  (55:06) -Community Support and Recovery 

                  (01:01:42) -Performing for the Big Stage 

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                  1 hr 8 min

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                Remarkable people with fantastic stories that deserve to be heard. Terry Evans let's the guest tell their story. Comics, Musicians, Sports Personalities, Entrepreneurs, Weirdos, Wackos and Nutbars.…