" And do not bring sorrow to God's Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, He is the one who has indentified you as His own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redeemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words and slander, as well as all types of malacious behavior. Instead be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one abother, just as God though Christ has forgiven you."