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Attachment style quiz link: https://tr.ee/ohCdqdeTmX
Ever wondered why you overthink texts, fear abandonment, shut down when someone gets close, or keep repeating the same relationship pattern even when you know better.
In this episode, Natalie and Nancy break down the four attachment styles and how your nervous system learned them in childhood as a survival strategy. You’ll learn what your patterns are trying to protect you from, how attachment shows up in communication and boundaries and how reparenting helps you move toward secure, steady love.
Plus, you’ll find a free attachment style quiz link below so you can identify your style in minutes and start making sense of your triggers with less shame and more clarity.
Maybe get your partner to do it too and compare results!
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Link to our Holiday Season Self Check Worksheet: https://tr.ee/Eeeai0
In this episode, Nancy and Natalie unpack the hidden patterns of codependency and how childhood conditioning can turn love, care and connection into self abandonment.
You’ll hear Nancy share, “I didn’t know myself yet. That’s why none of those relationships worked,” and Natalie reflect, “Healing codependency isn’t about loving yourself less. It’s about loving yourself more without guilt.”
You'll learn how fear of rejection and a need for approval show up in adult relationships, what it feels like in the body and how to reconnect with your authentic self.
They share personal stories, practical tools for the holiday season and a free worksheet to help you pause before saying yes, rebuild self trust and reconnect with your inner child.
Tune in to recognise the signs, understand your patterns and start healing from the inside out.
Link to our Holiday Season Self Check Worksheet: https://tr.ee/Eeeai0
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Do you say yes to keep the peace, apologise when you did nothing wrong or feel your chest tighten at the thought of someone being upset with you?
This episode unpacks people pleasing as a form of self-abandonment, where approval gets picked over truth and belonging gets tied to performance.
Nancy and Natalie share personal stories, name the early moments where self-worth got tangled with being useful and walk through simple boundary scripts you can use today to rebuild self trust.
What you’ll hear:
- Clear signs of people pleasing in daily life
- How childhood conditioning shaped your “be nice at any cost” reflex
- The cost to health, energy, relationships when you abandon your needs
- A 3-part reset: notice the moment, tell the truth, set one clean boundary
Try this today
Say, “That doesn’t work for me,” or “I need time to think,” or “I’m not available right now.”
No apology, no long explanation, just calm truth.
Nancy: “You don’t owe anyone a version of you that leaves you hollow.”
Natalie: “The most powerful boundary is often the quietest one.”
Want to go deeper? Download our free eBook Journey Back to You for values-based tools and micro practices that build real-time calm and self trust. https://tr.ee/7SxY0hIgZh
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If you’ve ever spiraled after a text, lost sleep replaying a conversation, or been told you’re “too much,” “too sensitive,” or that you “need to learn how to self-regulate,” this episode is for you.
In this conversation on The Reparenting Method, Nancy and Natalie share raw, personal stories of identity loss, grief, and emotional triggers, and unpack why emotional regulation is the life skill we were never taught but always needed. From cultural conditioning to workplace overwhelm, they explore how reparenting helps you move from reaction to resilience, offering practical steps to build inner safety, emotional balance, and self-support.
Together, we unpack:
- Why most of us were taught to survive emotions, not regulate them
- How heartbreak, conflict, and childhood conditioning shaped our reactions
- The difference between spiraling and choosing — and why it matters
- What it looks like to support yourself, even when it feels foreign
- How knowing your core values helps you stay steady when life feels messy
Favourite Quotes:
“Emotional regulation isn’t about handing your safety over to someone else’s opinion. It’s learning to hold yourself without needing to be understood by everyone.”
“When you stop leaking your energy, stop performing your pain for connection, and start holding yourself with clarity, that's emotional regulation. No one claps for it, but it rewires your life.”
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In this conversation, we unpack how early childhood conditioning quietly shapes our adult relationships. Whether it’s people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, over-functioning, or shutdown, these are not personality traits. They’re survival strategies. And the moment you start to see them for what they are… everything begins to shift.
You’ll hear:
- How childhood conditioning creates your “emotional blueprint”
- Why even healthy relationships can awaken old wounds
- The difference between knowing your patterns and actually embodying change
- Practical ways to catch a trigger before it runs the show
- How to stop abandoning yourself to keep the peace
Episode quotes we love:
🎧 Listen now and start unlearning who you had to be, so you can finally show up as who you are.
Link to our Free eBook - "Journey Back to You": https://tr.ee/wCNaPI
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In this deeply honest and emotionally charged episode, Nancy and Natalie explore the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that you may be in need of reparenting. Through real-life stories, vulnerable reflections, and lived wisdom, they unpack what it means to be stuck in the gap between knowing better and doing better.
Expect to hear about shame spirals, self-worth resets, and the quiet power of self-acceptance. Whether you’re in a period of transition, burnout, or just starting to question old patterns, this one is for you.
What We Cover:
- What reparenting looks like in the real world (no fluff)
- The hidden signs that you might be carrying unhealed patterns
- Nancy’s story of career burnout and rediscovering self-worth
- Natalie’s story of heartbreak, identity loss, and reclaiming her voice
- The power of reflection, micro-moments of acceptance, and journaling
Want to go deeper?
Download our free "Journey Back to You" E-book via DM on Instagram @reparentingmethodpodcast to receive it.
Episode quotes We Love:
“It’s not about recognising pain. It’s how you respond to pain that shows you where the healing begins.”
“You’re not broken. You’re just ready for more.”
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If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the work but still stuck in the same emotional loops overthinking, people-pleasing, second-guessing your worth, this episode is your starting point.
In the very first episode of RMP, Nancy and Natalie open up about the personal turning points that led them to this healing work. Through raw stories and honest reflections, they unpack what reparenting really means; not just in theory, but in the lived experience of women who grew up feeling like they had to earn love, prove their value, or be perfect just to feel safe.
You'll learn:
For the woman who’s spent years achieving, fixing, or pleasing others at the cost of herself… This episode is for you.
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From the publisher's feed
The Reparenting Method Podcast is about becoming the parent you needed when you were younger.
Hosted by Natalie and Nancy, this is a space for…
Together, we explore how childhood shapes our beliefs, behaviours and sense of self and how reparenting helps us rewrite the story.
Through real conversations and gentle guidance, we help you reconnect with your truth, break old patterns and start showing up for yourself in the way you always needed.