Resilient Butterfly

In this powerful and heart-centered episode of Resilient Butterfly, we sit down with the extraordinary Denise Klein—CEO, co-owner, and soul behind Milestones Ranch Malibu, one of the most respected dual-diagnosis treatment centers in the country. From her early days in in-home therapy to 35 years of pioneering compassionate care, Denise shares how her personal journey shaped her life’s work in addiction and mental health recovery.

Together, we explore why real healing must include the family system, how trauma and shame ripple across generations, and why “quick fixes” in rehab are failing us. Denise also gives us an exclusive look at her upcoming book The Truth About Rehab, aiming to restore clarity, humanity, and connection to the recovery process. If you’ve ever wondered what real healing looks like—from the inside out—this conversation is your roadmap.

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Looking for a practical takeaway from this conversation?
Download our complimentary companion resource, Looking Beyond the Behavior, designed to help parents and caregivers shift from asking "What's wrong with my child?" to "What might my child be communicating?" The guide explores how looking at children's emotional, behavioral, and physical health through a holistic lens can open the door to greater understanding, connection, and support.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
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In this heartfelt and deeply moving episode of Resilient Butterfly, we sit down with internationally recognized counselor, author, and child advocate Jerry Moe—the man who changed the way we think about addiction and children. From his personal story as a teenager navigating a home shadowed by alcoholism to becoming the visionary behind groundbreaking children’s programs at the Betty Ford Center and beyond, Jerry brings raw honesty, wisdom, and decades of experience to the mic.

Together, we explore how addiction isolates but recovery rebuilds, why family systems must heal together, and how tools like the Seven C’s and the Sesame Street Parental Addiction Initiative are helping kids everywhere feel seen, heard, and safe. This isn’t just a conversation—it’s a call to honor resilience, celebrate generational healing, and recognize the power of giving children a voice in recovery.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

Looking for a practical takeaway from this conversation?
Download our complimentary companion resource, Looking Beyond the Behavior, designed to help parents and caregivers shift from asking "What's wrong with my child?" to "What might my child be communicating?" The guide explores how looking at children's emotional, behavioral, and physical health through a holistic lens can open the door to greater understanding, connection, and support.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

In this powerful episode Pam Feinberg-Rivkin sits down with Matthew Tomain—Irish-born entrepreneur, film producer, and creator of The Evolution of Success. Once a young property investor riding high, Matthew lost everything during the 2008 recession and quietly battled alcoholism while appearing “just fine” on the outside. What followed was a complete unraveling—and a remarkable rebirth.

Matthew shares how embracing sobriety, redefining success, and following his intuition led him to create a new life filled with purpose, global travel, creative work, and emotional freedom. From standing in unemployment lines to interviewing Law of Attraction leaders like Jack Canfield and Bob Doyle, Matthew’s journey is living proof that it’s never too late to begin again—with honesty, intention, and heart.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

Looking for a practical takeaway from this conversation?
Download our complimentary companion resource, Looking Beyond the Behavior, designed to help parents and caregivers shift from asking "What's wrong with my child?" to "What might my child be communicating?" The guide explores how looking at children's emotional, behavioral, and physical health through a holistic lens can open the door to greater understanding, connection, and support.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

For decades, family members of addicts have been labeled codependent, often criticized for their unwavering support. But what if their dedication wasn’t dysfunction, but rather an act of love? In this compelling episode, host Pam Feinberg-Rivkin sits down with Dr. Robert Weiss, renowned therapist, author, and Chief Clinical Officer of Seeking Integrity, to challenge the long-held stigma surrounding caregivers of addicts. Dr. Weiss introduces Prodependence, a revolutionary approach that shifts the narrative from blame to validation, recognizing the resilience and devotion of those who stand by their loved ones through addiction.

Together, they explore the deep emotional toll addiction takes on families, the damaging misconceptions around codependency, and the crucial role of community and self-care in the healing process. Dr. Weiss offers profound insights into how therapists, treatment centers, and society at large can transform the way we support both addicts and their families. If you've ever felt judged for loving someone through their struggles, this episode will inspire you to see yourself—and your journey—through a whole new lens.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

Looking for a practical takeaway from this conversation?
Download our complimentary companion resource, Looking Beyond the Behavior, designed to help parents and caregivers shift from asking "What's wrong with my child?" to "What might my child be communicating?" The guide explores how looking at children's emotional, behavioral, and physical health through a holistic lens can open the door to greater understanding, connection, and support.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

What happens when a mother doesn’t know if her daughter is dead or alive? In this raw and deeply moving episode of Resilient Butterfly, host Pam Feinberg-Rivkin sits down with Nikki Tartell and her mother, Sharon Dietrich, to share an unfiltered story of addiction, survival, and second chances. Nikki’s journey from excelling in school to battling a decade-long heroin addiction—while unknowingly pregnant—led to a desperate plea from her mother to Dr. Phil. What followed was a life-changing intervention, a fight for recovery, and a powerful transformation that brought Nikki from the streets to the courtroom—not as a defendant, but as a social worker helping other struggling parents reclaim their lives.

Through heartbreaking confessions and incredible resilience, Nikki and Sharon reveal the hidden struggles of addiction, the stigma families face, and the unwavering power of love and hope. Whether you or someone you love has faced addiction, this episode is a testament that no matter how deep the darkness, recovery is possible. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation about healing, redemption, and the strength it takes to rewrite your story.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

Looking for a practical takeaway from this conversation?
Download our complimentary companion resource, Looking Beyond the Behavior, designed to help parents and caregivers shift from asking "What's wrong with my child?" to "What might my child be communicating?" The guide explores how looking at children's emotional, behavioral, and physical health through a holistic lens can open the door to greater understanding, connection, and support.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

In this eye-opening episode of Resilient Butterfly, Pam Feinberg-Rivkin sits down with Dr. Jason Schiffman, founder of Camden Center and a leading voice in addiction medicine, to explore the raw realities of addiction, trauma, and mental health care. Dr. Schiffman shares his own remarkable journey to sobriety after a near-fatal overdose during medical school and how it inspired him to revolutionize mental health treatment through integrated, collaborative care. From the hidden impact of developmental trauma to the alarming rise of universal addiction driven by technology and hyper-rewarding stimuli, this conversation dives deep into the complex interplay between emotional pain, addiction, and healing. Tune in for a powerful discussion on the future of mental health, the gaps in our current system, and what we can do to break the cycle before it’s too late.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

Looking for a practical takeaway from this conversation?
Download our complimentary companion resource, Looking Beyond the Behavior, designed to help parents and caregivers shift from asking "What's wrong with my child?" to "What might my child be communicating?" The guide explores how looking at children's emotional, behavioral, and physical health through a holistic lens can open the door to greater understanding, connection, and support.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

Welcome to the Resilient Butterfly Podcast, powered by Feinberg Consulting, Intervention Case Management, Coaching, and Companion Services. Hosted by Pam Feinberg-Rivkin, this episode features a powerful conversation with Dr. Elaine Rotenberg, PhD, a clinical psychologist and Chief Clinical & Impact Officer at Alpert JFS and Levine JRFS. With over 32 years of experience, Dr. Rotenberg has been instrumental in shaping mental health initiatives, including introducing Mental Health First Aid to Palm Beach County, certifying over 14,000 individuals in recognizing the signs of mental illness and substance use disorders.

In this episode, we discuss the upcoming No Excuse for Abuse event on February 16th at the Kravis Center, featuring special guest Aly Raisman, Olympic gold medalist and survivor-turned-advocate for abuse awareness. Dr. Rotenberg shares her insights on the evolution of domestic abuse support services, the challenges of addressing abuse within faith communities, and the critical role of mental health awareness in breaking the cycle of trauma.

Pam also opens up about her personal journey of leaving an abusive relationship over 30 years ago, shedding light on the power of resilience, healing, and transformation. Together, Pam and Dr. Rotenberg discuss the importance of breaking the stigma, empowering survivors, and providing support for those in need.

Join us for an eye-opening discussion on mental health, resilience, and advocacy. If you or someone you know needs help, contact Alpert JFS at 561-684-1991 or visit alpertjfs.org.

Follow Resilient Butterfly Podcast on Apple, Spotify, or your favorite podcast platform. You are not alone. Help is available.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

Looking for a practical takeaway from this conversation?
Download our complimentary companion resource, Looking Beyond the Behavior, designed to help parents and caregivers shift from asking "What's wrong with my child?" to "What might my child be communicating?" The guide explores how looking at children's emotional, behavioral, and physical health through a holistic lens can open the door to greater understanding, connection, and support.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

What if the biggest thing holding you back wasn’t failure—but fear of being judged? In this eye-opening episode, Pam Feinberg-Rivkin, founder of Feinberg Consulting, and Janine Stella, podcast producer and former finance professional, get real about the crippling effects of judgment, shame, and self-doubt. From childhood experiences to career changes, they reveal how fear kept them stuck, second-guessing, and scared—until they finally said, “Let them judge.”

With personal stories, powerful insights, and a fresh take on Mel Robbins’ ‘Let Them Theory’, this episode is a must-listen for anyone who’s tired of playing small. If you’ve ever worried about what others think, struggled with perfectionism, or felt paralyzed by fear—this is your wake-up call. Tune in now and start taking your power back!

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

Looking for a practical takeaway from this conversation?
Download our complimentary companion resource, Looking Beyond the Behavior, designed to help parents and caregivers shift from asking "What's wrong with my child?" to "What might my child be communicating?" The guide explores how looking at children's emotional, behavioral, and physical health through a holistic lens can open the door to greater understanding, connection, and support.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

Hi, I'm Pam Feinberg-Rivkin, and I'm thrilled to welcome you to Resilient Butterfly, a podcast celebrating the strength of survivors and the incredible power of transformation, healing, and growth.

Life is messy: relationships, family dynamics, mental health, addiction. These struggles can feel overwhelming, but I believe in the resilience within all of us. I've seen it, I've lived it, and I want to share it with you.

For nearly 50 years as a nurse and almost 30 as the founder of Feinberg Consulting, I've walked alongside individuals and families who have struggled with some of life's toughest challenges. Through it all, I've learned one profound truth: we are not perfect, nor are we meant to be.

Join us as we dive into real stories. This podcast isn't about me having all the answers; it's about sharing grace, hope, and dignity with those who've struggled. We'll hear from experts and resilient souls who faced breakdowns and found breakthroughs into a life they never dreamed of.

Follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059 

Looking for a practical takeaway from this conversation?
Download our complimentary companion resource, Looking Beyond the Behavior, designed to help parents and caregivers shift from asking "What's wrong with my child?" to "What might my child be communicating?" The guide explores how looking at children's emotional, behavioral, and physical health through a holistic lens can open the door to greater understanding, connection, and support.

Contact Pam Feinberg-Rivkin:
Facebook: @FeinbergCare
Instagram: @FeinbergCare
LinkedIn: Feinberg Consulting Inc
YouTube: @FeinbergConsulting8059