Humans are the only species that store pain. We do this by either resisting or clinging.


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Resisting and clinging to pain

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I was about 9 years old and in the early hours of the morning to escape my fathers violence I climbed out of my bedroom window and fled into the wintry night.
This is a story from my childhood, I am sharing this traumatic experience in the hope it helps anyone who can relate to be curious about your own trauma and continue to heal and grow from your own negative life experiences. 

The Night I Fled For My Life

In part two of this podcast about my Relationship Wisdom I share more about these 3 points.
#3 - All Relationships Come With Distinct Energies
#4 - You cannot control other people’s behaviour, but you can limit the impact with boundaries.
#5 - Never make your emotional home in another person.
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Relationship Wisdom pt. 2

Here is part one of Paul Scanlon's Top 5 Relationship Wisdom.  
#1 - Relationships Are Spatial  
#2 - The Version Of Me In Your Head Is Not My Responsibility  
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Relationship Wisdom Pt. 1

It’s not change that stops us it’s the transition from what or who we know to something or someone we don’t know.
Change is easier if we have good transition skills and that is what I want to give you through this teaching.   
In this podcast episode I share about the 3 stages from caterpillar, cocoon to butterfly.  Cocoons of transition aren’t cosy and if you’re in one please remember that we fall apart to become new.  In the cocoon a caterpillar liquifies, it literally has a meltdown.  
We have to go through the dark to fly in the sun. 
 As well as share a metaphor about transition when it comes to the baby, the mother and the midwife.  There's a crucial moment in childbirth called the point of transition.  
It's when the baby is in the birth canal between where it's been and where it's going.  
The key player is the transition coach and she's called the midwife.  I hope this teaching helps you or someone you know who id going through a session of transition.
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The 5th Season: Transition

Has life been painting layers on you?
I want you to get back to the bare oak version of who you are.
Here is a preview from my online course - The Prosperity Of The Soul.
In this short episode I want to share with you about

 How to get back to the best version of you, free from labels
 The origins of The Ego.
 How to manage your ego.

If you’re interested in learning more about your SOUL get a hold of my online course for 60% off - limited time only at paulscanlon.com
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Resisting and clinging to pain

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