Resourceful Influencing

If there is enough introspection

then the reasons are apparent.

Accept the reasons honestly.

and start working on it 

𝙄 𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙞𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙗𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙛𝙖𝙞𝙡𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙨𝙩 2.5 𝙮𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙨

Well, why that thought came to me?

Because I did not sell significantly.

𝙃𝙤𝙬 𝙙𝙞𝙙 𝙄 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙄 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬?

Well, 34 years of experience behind me is what which explains that.

Isn’t it?

If you allocate 99 failures to one success, then the amount of failures is enormous for my life.

Agree on that?

𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨

It was never me.

It has to be them.

If I shock them before I offer them the service, they will be apprehensive about getting discovered more, rather than getting the issue resolved.

………That is happening in their life.

What use knowing something, which only can embarrass them?

𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙄 𝙩𝙚𝙡𝙡 𝙣𝙤𝙬

They are feeling helpless.

Life can happen to anybody.

It can happen in a number of ways.

It does not necessarily appear at work place, and 90% of my prospects have confirmed that.

This has changed my TONE, while discussing the probable solution!!

𝙄 𝙜𝙤𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙖 𝙘𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛

First of all, I didn’t expect it to come from a lady.

She could compliment because she is okay with the life situation.

I had an impression that there is nothing to feel awkward about having a problem.

Well, it is not so.

Not with majority of us.

They can connect to what I am saying or writing, but the INHIBITION is too much to open up with me.

How was this learning, guys?

Do please comment…

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The sure success recipe at workplace is following these 5 soft skills, 

which are 

Critical thinking, 

flexibility,

problem solving, 

communication and 

teamwork,

I have encountered these problems recently with a client and worked out in an excel sheet as to how to manage this situation.

One of my long standing dream has come true.  

Mobilizing 11 people to come to the group that takes a common service.  

How to set a dream that moves the Universe?

Using the strengths that we have outlined, 

the comptency stories will be generated.

Let us see how

Many people are now approaching me to recommend people with competencies for their vacancies.

These days, people with great educational backgrounds are there, but it is difficult to find people with adequate employ-ability.

I figure out that by speaking to you about your story.

I also figure out your strengths, weaknesses(alternative strengths), potential, skills and experience to build competency stories.

With 1000 such stories your confidence and communication skills can be restored,

provided you surrender to my caoching.

You need to be teachable and my dream client.

I

You have been recruited to a certain profile.

But you can discuss with your senior management about a raise if 

👔 you have other skills, viz. communication skills (written and verbal) which differentiates you from the batch mates

👔 you have better dealing with vendors,which is proof of your negotiating skills,  and

👔 you want to take more responsibilities as required by the company

Therefore,

you need to get rid of the guilt or the mind block that stops from making this request.

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We have a resume to detail out our experiences.

Yet we are out of sync with out reality.

In a crisis it becomes more apparent.

Anybody can tell if you are not at a place of your choice.

What small changes you need to do to be able to do that?

Hear it out

a competency story is about a strength, a weakness (modified strength), a skill and an experience.

How many of each category do you have?

Can you see the point?

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He has been a business coach, certified NLP practitioner who teaches tricks to build a bold life.

He has been trained as an Engineer, but wanted to be his own boss all the while.

He is in a mission to bring about the entrepreneurial spirit in 10,000 business coaches.

He goes deep into spirituality to be the one we are, to define success too our own individual context.

He describes how he is implanting it into each of us..

hear him out

I have heard people saying that they are bad at socializing because they are introverts.

What I have experienced, however, is being an introvert myself, I am good at listening.

People love to be heard.

Just pouring themselves out.

When they are done, remember the most important aspects of their characters.

Both good and bad, according to you.

Speak the good things.

If he remembers those points, then he would gradually overcome his BAD, over time.

Trust!

𝙎𝙪𝙥𝙚𝙧 𝙥𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧𝙨 - 𝕮𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙮, 𝙃𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙀𝙢𝙥𝙖𝙩𝙝𝙮

What I mean is

🧨Do it every day irrespective of the Result

🧨Be Genuinely interested in others, even Demon-daughters can teach you the biggest tricks

And

🧨 Do not attach any intention to how people behave- we don’t know their story

When we look around to learn something from the environment, the GUIDANCE comes from a conversation, a wall-poster, a song, a Book, a browse…

Even the Car numbers.

Yesterday I associated something to the Car number 666…

And I saw right in front of the eye.

You call that as a Sweet spot.

Today, I assigned the number to 444… and I saw 4444.

Incredible.

I was seeking a guidance from the higher power.

I can seek that from anybody.

And I thought I was granted my wish.

I submitted to the beaded straight line.

I moved a bead ahead.

𝙎𝙤 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙢𝙮 𝙤𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧

Let me support you for the next 7 months to create your own competency stories- 17000 of them.

Let me listen to the CORE of you.

Just 5 of you.

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