If we don't find someone who can or wants to bond, we will not have a satisfying relationship.

To gain intimacy momentum you need rituals and rhythms.

We all have to repair our broken bonds from time to time. If we don’t we will find ourselves alone.

Our differences can divide us or attach us. We all want intimacy, but we often feel it alludes us. We think it’s some kind of mystical gift. he truth is that we can grow our “bonding skills” just like any other skills. Bondability is not a fixed trait.

We often wonder why we fight. We think it is our differences or money or annoying habits. But the thing below the thing, the issue below the problem is that we feel our bond is threatened.

We were made to bond and be intimate. People who are bonded to others have better health, are happier, more resilient, stronger and more successful in their endeavors. Intimacy is life giving. We are confused about what bonding and intimacy is.

An easy, cheap Christianity is not worth living.

The Spirit is where you get the power to live the life God has for you. The purpose of the power is to make disciples who make disciples who change the world.

We can feed the Spirit or starve the Spirit. We can grieve the Spirit of release the Spirit. Being aware of this is one of the secrets of being fully alive spiritually.

The Spirit is speaking. The Spirit is sending. The Spirit has an adventure for us all. The Celts called him the Wild Goose. If you are bored spiritually its probably because you have not been chasing the Goose lately.