Ladies you are meant to be found not you searching. Trust the process and not rush the process on this journey. Do not force the hand.

Truly our words subconsciously have a make or break outcome over our love life and what we attract into our lives.

We have conformed to the mindset of just settling in this dating and relationship space for the sake of saying that I have a warm body next to me at night; which causes us to delay blessings in this space.

On this journey of finding love, we tend to negate the red flags along the way and we begin to settle by looking the other way.

Oftentimes we negate the red flags in hopes of change, but the change never comes and the words never line up with the actions. How we Navigate through that?

How many deposits are you making into your relationship and are deposits being reciprocal. Oftentimes, we become numb to acceptance of the constant withdrawals in our life; it becomes a norm. We have to command the value we are worth.

We tend to rush the process in finding and searching for love to speed up the timing process. In doing this we continue to push ourselves further away from the person we are meant to be with.

We focus so much on searching for Mr/Mrs. Right in our love life, that we negate the preparation it takes to receive them or attract them into our lives.

We sometimes lose ourselves in our dating experiences or relationships for the sake of others. In doing this we begin to forget that we are individuals first and we question our value.

If you really zone in and focus on your process and not just the fact of being lonely, you can really find clarity on the Why!