In this reflective solo episode, Ken dives into the powerful idea that “nothing changes until something changes”—and that “something” is usually us. Drawing from personal experience, client conversations, and scriptural insight from the Book of Mormon about things to act and things to be acted upon, Ken challenges listeners to stop waiting for external circumstances, revelations, or perfect timing to transform their lives. Instead, he invites us to recognize the subtle “rules” we’ve accepted—beliefs that masquerade as obligations—and to question whether they truly serve us.

Ken explores how unexamined rules shape our behavior at work, at home, and in spiritual life. From the fear of appearing like a “job hopper,” to absorbing others’ stress by default, to believing church activity earns God’s love, he reveals how these stories can quietly limit our freedom and growth. The invitation is simple but profound: identify the rules you don’t have to follow, take ownership of who you want to become, and act accordingly—because the change you’re waiting for starts with you.

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