Other people’s money fears can sneak into your nervous system, not because you “absorb the vibe,” but because your brain is literally wired to copy what it sees. Through mirror neurons, your body rehearses other people’s doubts, scarcity, and stress as if they’re your own.

If you’ve ever:

Left a conversation feeling smaller than when you walked in

Started doubting your goals after hearing someone else’s money struggles

Felt your body tense when talking about wealth, even when things are going well

…this episode is for you.

You’ll learn:
💥 What mirror neurons are and how they influence your money mindset
💥 Why other people’s micro-actions trigger your nervous system more than their words
💥 How to protect your goals from being unconsciously downsized
💥 Practical ways to choose whose money energy you mirror

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach & Psychologist helping women in business stop letting fear and conditioning run the show, and start remembering who the fuck they are, so their business, bank account, and body finally feel aligned.

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The patriarchy is designed to pit women against each other, through early gender socialisation, scarcity narratives, and competitive dynamics. ultimately disconnecting women from their power, wealth, and authentic desires. 

This podcast episode is a fiery call-out on how patriarchal conditioning keeps women broke, burnt out, and in competition with each other instead of rising together.

We unpack how social conditioning starts before you're even born (yes, gender reveals count), why the “good girl” narrative is keeping you small, and how your nervous system has been wired to fear success, wealth, and visibility.

If you’ve ever felt like:

You compare yourself to other women in business

You hold back from selling or taking up space

You secretly panic when someone else succeeds
...this episode is for you.

You’ll learn:
💥 How scarcity mindset is embedded in our culture
💥 Why women compete instead of collaborate (and how to change that)
💥 How nervous system regulation is the missing link to unapologetic wealth
💥 What it takes to build a regulated, rich AF business on your terms

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it.

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Join me as I sit down with Brook McCarthy, a high-performing woman in business who’s done all the right things... and still found herself stuck in an invisible income glass ceiling.  

We unpack the money rules she didn’t know she was living by, the identity clash between the part of her that wants more and the part of her that’s terrified to be seen wanting, and how over functioning is often just a nervous system clinging to safety. 

From early beliefs about being the “good girl” to unconscious loyalty to her family’s money patterns, Brook’s story will hit you in the places your mindset work couldn’t reach.  

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it.  

Join Fire and Fortune here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/somatic-money-reset  

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Connect with Brook:  

Website: https://brookmccarthy.com/ Linked in: https://au.linkedin.com/in/brookmccarthy  

In this episode, I'm getting real about why "doing" isn't enough when it comes to money, why we ALL have money trauma (yes, even that seemingly small stuff from childhood), and exactly why your body keeps sabotaging your financial success even when your brain knows better.

I'm also sharing my own story of hitting an upper limit in my business and what it took to actually breakthrough (it wasn't more strategy).

If you're tired of beating yourself up for not having your money stuff "figured out" yet, this episode is for you. 

Fair warning: I drop some F-bombs and get a little spicy about the basic money advice that's keeping you broke.

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it.

Join Fire and Fortune here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/somatic-money-reset

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In this episode I'm going to share with you something that's going to make some of you uncomfortable.  

You say you want to trust your intuition, that you're listening to your inner wisdom when you make business decisions. Well, here's the thing - you've been lied to. Not intentionally, but those well-meaning people telling you to 'trust your gut'? They're keeping you stuck.  

And I'm going to explain exactly why in this episode!   

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it.  

 Join Fire and Fortune here for $27: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/somatic-money-reset

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You can know every money strategy in the book and still make terrible financial decisions. In this episode, I dive into why knowledge alone won't fix your money problems and what actually will.

Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn't just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it.

Money Capacity Quiz: www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz 

Discovery Call: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/discovery-call

Website: www.eloisetomkins.com

Insta: www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_

Join me as I chat with business coach Phoebe Walpole to explore how childhood can fuel both incredible success AND devastating burnout. 

From growing up with addiction, domestic violence, and "never enough money" to building multiple six-figure businesses, Phoebe's story will give you chills. She opens up about becoming the "parent" at age 12, how she turned adversity in childhood into an unstoppable drive for success, and the shocking moment she realised her biggest strength was also her biggest limitation.

Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business who feel stuck in financial stress rewire their nervous system’s response to wealth, so they can finally make, keep, and enjoy their money.

Want to go deeper?

Book your Alignment Call here → https://www.eloisetomkins.com/discovery-call 

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🧠 Take the Nervous System Money Quiz! Which of the 4 hidden money identities is your nervous system defaulting to? https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz 

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bestlifephoebee/ 

Website: https://www.phoebeewalpole.com/ 

You say you want more income, to make more impact... More freedom to live life at your own damn pace. But have you actually decided to be wealthy?

In this episode, I’m talking about the quiet, sneaky reason you’re still not making the money you know you’re capable of. It's not because you aren't working hard enough or cos you're not capable. It’s because there’s a part of you that still hasn’t fully decided. And if you haven't fully decided... you're going to find yourself holding back.

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it.

Nervous system money quiz: www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz

Discovery Call: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/discovery-call

Website: www.eloisetomkins.com

Insta: www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_ 

What if who you think you are around money… isn’t actually who you are?

In this episode, I share how I grew up hearing “people don’t change” and how that one sentence shaped my financial identity for years. I unpack the invisible money beliefs we inherit, absorb, and often never question.

You’ll learn:

Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it.

Somatic Money Reset: www.eloisetomkins.com/somatic-money-reset

Discovery Call: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/discovery-call

Website: www.eloisetomkins.com

Insta: www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_ 

You don’t need to be loud, high-energy, or constantly “on” to build a profitable business. In this episode, I talk about how hustle culture snuck its way into my own business (even though I knew better) and how I caught myself before burning out (again).

I unpack the myth that you have to show up a certain way to make big money, and explore how understanding your nervous system edges (not just your capacity) changes how you create wealth.

This isn’t just about slowing down. It’s about building a business your way, one that works with your nervous system, not against it. Whether you’re tired of pretending you’re someone you’re not, or just ready to make more money without the exhaustion… this one’s for you.

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it.

Somatic Money Reset: www.eloisetomkins.com/somatic-money-reset

Discovery Call: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/discovery-call

Website: www.eloisetomkins.com

Insta: www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_