Rich Woman Rising

When you were a kid, did you ever started the school year with a uniform that was way too big, only to outgrow it by the end of the year? That’s exactly how identity works... especially when it comes to money. The beliefs you inherited about success, wealth, and work habits weren’t consciously chosen; they were handed to you. And just like that uniform, they might be too small for who you’re becoming.  

In today’s episode, I'm exploring:

- What identity really is and why most of it was shaped for you... not by you. 

- How to actively choose a new money identity that aligns with the version of you who thrives.  

If you’re feeling like no matter what you do, you’re still operating from an old version of yourself that hesitates, undercharges, or overworks... this episode will shift everything for you. 

Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business who feel stuck in financial stress rewire their nervous system’s response to wealth—so they can finally make, keep, and enjoy their money.  

Regulate to Riches is the program designed to help you expand your nervous system’s capacity to hold success with ease. Because more money won’t fix a dysregulated system... but learning how to feel safe with overflow will change everything. Join here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/regulated-riches  

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Is your nervous system secretly holding you back from reaching your financial goals? Take the free quiz! here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz  

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If you've ever caught yourself thinking "I just need to work harder" while chugging your third coffee while your body is screaming "GURRRL, STOP!" - this episode is your wake-up call. Meet Dr. Erin Bowe, the rebellious psychologist who had to have a literal stroke (yes, you read that right!) before she realised maybe seeing 9 clients a day wasn't the flex she thought it was.

Now she's spilling allll the tea about how she transformed from burnout central to running a successful business that doesn't require sacrificing her sanity. Wondering how to make money without working yourself into the ground? Grab your notebook for this one. Because your worth isn't measured by how many clients you can squeeze into a day (and your nervous system will thank you for finally getting that memo! 😘).

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What's Really Stopping Your 7-Figure Business Growth? Take the free quiz here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business reprogram their relationship with money using body based techniques. Her popular membership, the Aligned Wealth Academy helps you shift your money fear so you can make more income without hustling harder.

FREEBIES!

QUIZ: How's your Money Fear Really Holding you Back? Take the free quiz! here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz

CRACK THE WEALTH CODES:If chanting "I am a money magnet" actually worked, we'd all be billionaires by now 😅 Join this masterclass to discover the real reason your brilliant, successful self still feels wobbly about wealth (hint: it's neuroscience, not your mindset). Get instant here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/crack-wealth-codes-masterclass

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Connect with Erin here:

Website: https://doctorerin.com.au/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorerinbowe/

Hey, it’s Eloise! In this episode of Rich Woman Rising, I’m tackling overthinking... something I struggled with for years. Overthinking isn’t just a bad habit; it’s a nervous system response keeping you stuck, especially when it comes to money and business.

I’ll break down why we overthink, how it’s tied to fight-flight-freeze-fawn responses, and why your brain prioritises safety over success. Plus, I’ll share simple strategies to calm your mind, make confident decisions, and finally move past the mental loops holding you back.

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business who feel stuck in financial stress rewire their nervous system’s response to wealth—so they can finally make, keep, and enjoy their money.

FREEBIES! What’s your next step to stop feeling stuck with money? Take the free quiz! here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz

Unlock financial clarity and stop spinning your wheels so you can take aligned action. Download your free reflective guide here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/3-steps-financial-clarity

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Have you ever felt like your life is stuck in a strange loop? Like you’ve got one foot pressing down hard on the accelerator, but the other is stuck on the brake, keeping you from moving forward... even though you KNOW there is so much more potential in you?

This episode unpacks why we can feel so stuck when it comes to reaching our financial goals.

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business break free from the cycle of money anxiety by transforming their nervous system's response to wealth, so they can stop living in fear and confidently create a life of financial freedom.

FREEBIES!

What’s your next step to stop feeling stuck with money? Take the free quiz! here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz

Unlock financial clarity and stop spinning your wheels so you can take aligned action. Download your free reflective guide here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/3-steps-financial-clarity

Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_/

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This is a topic that comes up time and time again with women I speak to, and we need to talk about it... because, how do you build a successful business when the person who's meant to be your biggest cheerleader is also the person who inadvertently holds you back?

Join me as I dive into this controversial topic, and let's unpack the societal conditioning that's blocking women from wealth - and why healing our relationship with money is important, beyond just making more of it!

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business reprogram their relationship with money using body based techniques. Her popular membership, the Aligned Wealth Academy helps you shift your money fear so you can make more income without hustling harder.

FREEBIES!

QUIZ How's your Money Fear Really Holding you Back? Take the free quiz! here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz

CRACK THE WEALTH CODES: If chanting "I am a money magnet" actually worked, we'd all be billionaires by now 😅 Join this masterclass to discover the real reason your brilliant, successful self still feels wobbly about wealth (hint: it's neuroscience, not your mindset). Get instant here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/crack-wealth-codes-masterclass

Check out the Aligned Wealth Academy: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/alignedwealthacademy 

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Ever wondered how that confident woman on TV really feels about money? Pop your AirPods in and get ready for a treat because media queen Shelly Horton is spilling ALL the goss about her money journey - from small-town girl to major TV presenter, speaker and menopause advocate. She's sharing the stuff we're all thinking but too scared to say out loud: the late-night bank balance checks (guilty!), the stomach-churning moments asking for higher rates, and yes, even the reality that sometimes success means working in your PJs with wet hair before glam-ing up for the camera!

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What's Really Stopping Your 7-Figure Business Growth? Take the free quiz here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business reprogram their relationship with money using body based techniques. Her popular membership, the Aligned Wealth Academy helps you shift your money fear so you can make more income without hustling harder.

Learn more: http://www.eloisetomkins.com

Aligned Wealth Academy: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/aligned-wealth-academy

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Connect with Shelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shellyhorton1/

Website: https://shellshockedmedia.com/

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Warning: This episode contains serious amounts of money realness and might cause unexpected bursts of confidence! 💫💪

Ever wondered why some money decisions feel "off" even when they sound like a good idea? Or why success sometimes feels uncomfortable even when you're crushing it? In this episode, I dive deep into how your body holds the key to making aligned money moves and building authentic success. You'll discover why that "gut feeling" about pricing isn't just anxiety, and how learning to decode your body's signals can transform your relationship with money. Don't forget to follow Rich Woman Rising for more insights on building wealth in alignment with your true self!

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business reprogram their relationship with money using body based techniques. Her popular membership, the Aligned Wealth Academy helps you shift your money fear so you can make more income without hustling harder. 

FREEBIES!

QUIZ How's your Money Fear Really Holding you Back? Take the free quiz! here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz 

Rewire your Mindset for Abundance: If chanting "I am a money magnet" actually worked, we'd all be billionaires by now 😅 Join this masterclass to discover the real reason your brilliant, successful self still feels wobbly about wealth (hint: it's neuroscience, not your mindset). Get instant here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/live-masterclass

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Ever catch yourself saying "I'll rest when I hit my next income goal" or "Just one more launch and then I'll slow down"? (Yet that magical moment never seems to come!!) Join me as I share why understanding your body's stress signals is the game-changer most ambitious women are missing.

You'll discover:

Why you're probably catching your stress signals way too late (and the sneaky early signs you're overlooking)

A simple pen-and-paper exercise that'll completely change how you view your stress patterns

How to stop the exhausting cycle of pushing until you break

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business reprogram their relationship with money using body based techniques. Her popular membership, the Aligned Wealth Academy helps you shift your money fear so you can make more income without hustling harder. 

FREEBIES!

QUIZ
How's your Money Fear Really Holding you Back? Take the free quiz! here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz 

CRACK THE WEALTH CODES:
If chanting "I am a money magnet" actually worked, we'd all be billionaires by now 😅 Join this masterclass to discover the real reason your brilliant, successful self still feels wobbly about wealth (hint: it's neuroscience, not your mindset). Get instant here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/crack-wealth-codes-masterclass

Check out the Aligned Wealth Academy: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/alignedwealthacademy 

Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_/ 

Follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eloisetomkinscoaching

Imagine being a child and seeing your family home be repossessed, living week to week with barely enough money to make ends meet. That child then became an adult who went on to create a successful seven figure business... Yet also lost 5.5 million dollars because she avoided healing parts of her relationship with money.

Join me as I interview Dani Zetzer, founder of Respect Legal, where we chat about how she's experienced several huge financial failures in her businesses. She explains how they can actually be huge lessons when we let ourselves connect with our body from a place of compassion instead of shame.

You'll walk away from this episode with a clear understanding of why it is so important that our relationship with money isn't just based on what we think... but also what we feel.

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business reprogram their relationship with money using body based techniques. Her popular membership, the Aligned Wealth Academy helps you shift your money fear so you can make more income without hustling harder. 

FREEBIES!

QUIZ
How's your Money Fear Really Holding you Back? Take the free quiz! here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz 

CRACK THE WEALTH CODES:
If chanting "I am a money magnet" actually worked, we'd all be billionaires by now 😅 Join this masterclass to discover the real reason your brilliant, successful self still feels wobbly about wealth (hint: it's neuroscience, not your mindset).

Get instant here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/crack-wealth-codes-masterclass

Check out the Aligned Wealth Academy: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/alignedwealthacademy 

Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_/ 

Follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eloisetomkinscoaching 

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Connect with Dani here: https://www.instagram.com/daniellezetzer

Listen to Diary of a Divorce Lawyer: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/diary-of-a-divorce-lawyer-with-dani-zetzer/id1764880778

Respect Legal: Website: https://respectlegal.com.au/

Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/company/respect-legal/ 

Think confident people are just born that way? Join me as I reveal how mastering the art of boundaries - not faking confidence - is the real secret to personal and financial growth.

You'll learn:

How boundary violations manifest as emotional signals (anxiety, resentment, guilt)

Why setting boundaries is your responsibility, but enforcing them is about managing consequences

The importance of starting small and building up boundary-setting muscles

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Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business reprogram their relationship with money using body based techniques. Her popular membership, the Aligned Wealth Academy helps you shift your money fear so you can make more income without hustling harder. 

FREEBIES!

QUIZ
How's your Money Fear Really Holding you Back? Take the free quiz! here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz 

CRACK THE WEALTH CODES:
If chanting "I am a money magnet" actually worked, we'd all be billionaires by now 😅 Join this masterclass to discover the real reason your brilliant, successful self still feels wobbly about wealth (hint: it's neuroscience, not your mindset). Get instant here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/crack-wealth-codes-masterclass

Check out the Aligned Wealth Academy: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/alignedwealthacademy 

Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_/ 

Follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eloisetomkinscoaching