In this episode of #rightyourownstory I talk about a concept of fleas in a jar and about limiting beliefs. 

A limiting belief will keep you down more than anything else I know about because, as a quote from Henry Ford goes, "If you think you can, or think you can't, you're probably right".

Not only what we say verbally is important (because you engage another sense - you hear it), but our self-talk is so very important too because if it is poor, it will stop you from going for things that you really want to do. 

BUT, it does not have to be that way.

When you learn to develop an automatic strong and purposeful self-talk, you naturally burn down many obstacles that stop others. You then start to get different and better results too, just because you decided to internally say, "Yes, I can', as opposed to "No, I can't".

Then you change gear internally and externally, and everything starts to change for you.

If you would like help developing your own internal self-talk and becoming a more resilient version of yourself, taking on new challenges, and just knowing you can succeed, I can definitely help you with that.

What would it be like for you to just have that natural and automatic approach to life? What could you go on to achieve? What message would that send to your family, your children, your peers?

I'm guessing that would be pretty amazing, right?

Well, you can, and you would be amazed at how your life would change.

If you would like to have a free informal consultation, just reach out via phone or email (details below), and you can test the water with this before you dive in, all at no risk, so you really have nothing to lose whatsoever. 

If you would like to get in touch, you can either email me or call me on +447511915580

What have you got to lose, and what have you got to gain?

My very best wishes, 

James

Right Your Own Story Ltd

In this weeks episode of #rightyourownstory, I talk about the recent death of one of my mentors, Bob Proctor.

Bob was such an inspirational figure for me, and his knowledge was incredible. At 26 years of age, he met a man who would change his life forever. That man (Ray Stanford) showed him that he was capable of so much more, and it put him on a path that he would never wander from. 

When Bob learned and applied this knowledge, not only did his own life change, but he also decided he wanted to educate others so their lives could change too.

He did this until he passed away on February 3rd 2022, aged 87.

He was an amazing man.

Best wishes, 

James

Right Your Own Story Ltd

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Would you say it is ok to tell a lie depending on the content or motive of the person saying it?

In this episode of #rightyourownstory, I tell a story of a big decision a mother had to make towards her son and what then took place afterwards. 

Do you think she was correct, and would you have done the same?

I also talk about how certain messages told to children repeatedly (innocently or not), can be both a blessing and a curse. 

I hope you enjoy this one.

My very best wishes,

James

Right Your Own Story Ltd

In this episode of #rightyourownstory, I talk about Sigmund Freud's psychoanalytic theory of the id, the Ego and the Superego and explain it in a more user-friendly sort of way, as well as giving some examples of it in action.

It was originally translated by British Psychoanalyst James Strachey (b.1887 - d.1967), and this translation has come under some criticism that the true meaning and theory of Freud has been 'lost in translation'.

For further reading on Freuds work, I would definitely recommend the following book on Amazon.

My very best wishes,

James

Right Your Own Story Ltd

In this episode of #rightyourownstory, I talk about a topic concerning planning a goal, or goal setting, and the three stages we always go through to achieve this.

I also mention a book too, so here is the Amazon link for that. 

My very best wishes,

James

Right Your Own Story Ltd

In this episode of #rightyourownstory, I talk about a spider that was in my bath, but what it 'really meant' was a lesson I could know and take forward for myself, and how you can do the same too.

You might be surprised at what you discover with this episode!

As always, my very best wishes,

James

Right Your Own Story Ltd 

In this episode of #rightyourownstory, I talk about a spider that was in my bath, but what it 'really meant', a lesson I could know and take foreword for myself, and how you could do the same too.

You might be quite surprised at what you discover with this episode!

As always, my very best wishes,

James

https://rightyourownstory.co.uk

In this episode of #Rightyourownstory I talk about the concept of others who have given you things that they should not have, and perhaps some of these 'bowls' you didn't even ask for or deserve.

To prevent this from continuing to happen, I would recommend evaluating your boundaries, both with yourself and others. 

Boundary setting is truly huge, and although perhaps difficult to approach, you truly do reap the rewards by having them in place.

It is also most important that YOU set your own boundaries and not another set them for you.

I also mention a money-saving tip from a previous episode, so here is the link for that. 

And here is the 12 minute guided meditation I mentioned as well, to assist you with your own Boundary setting. 

My best wishes,

James

Right Your Own Story Ltd 

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In this episode of #rightyourownstory, (the first of 2022) I talk about a series of incidents that took place with a certain teacher I had at primary school, and although one was truly horrific for me, in a strange way that I couldn't appreciate at the time, it definitely shaped me into who I am today. 

Later, I got my revenge on this teacher in front of the entire class, and in a way that neither of us could have predicted either!

I truly would not wish this experience on anyone, but I definitely learned something valuable that day, and I've also never forgotten it. 

I hope you enjoy this story. 

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My very best wishes to you and yours for the New Year,

James

Right Your Own Story Ltd

In this episode of #rightyourownstory (the last episode of 2021!), I talk about a strange dream I had a while ago and also the concept of making New Year resolutions too. 

When I was able to analyse my own dream, I was able to make progress in a way that was previously holding me back. 

Spoiler Alert - It was 'me' holding 'me' back, and my subconscious was letting me know it too. However, it was then up to me to take the required action. 

As part of my work as a Counsellor, Hypnotherapist and Life Coach I do include dream analysis when it crops up because dreams (and nightmares) can be so very revealing. 

Here is the link to the podcast episode where I explain why we dream in the first place:

I hope you find my dream thought-provoking.

I will see you in 2022 with more tips, thoughts and advice to help you 'Right Your Own Story', as only you should.

(Teaser - My next episode is a true story on one of those breadcrumbs moments that defined my life, which was a big one for me!)

Please remember to Subscribe, Follow and Share to be notified when I realise new episodes every Monday. 

My very best wishes to you and yours for the New Year, 

James

Right Your Own Story Ltd