Are you feeling lost after divorce? Wondering how to move forward when life feels like it’s been reduced to rubble? This episode is for you.

I’m sharing where I’ve been, where I want to go in the new year, and the life-changing practice the Lord and I started years ago—creating a blueprint for healing and rebuilding. It begins with seeking the Lord for words, phrases, and scripture to guide the year ahead.

This isn’t a journey you take alone—it’s a project between you and the Holy Spirit. Together, you can rebuild with stones chiseled by His hand.

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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SCRIPTURES AND WORDS REFERENCED:

2020

Hope – Romans 15:13

Endurance – Hebrews 10:35-36

2021

Rebuilding the Well – Jeremiah 31:4

Isaiah 12:2-3

2022

Transition – Deuteronomy 31:8

Change – Psalms 32:8

2023

Focus – Philippians 3:12-13

Vision – Habakkuk 2:3

2024

Shephard – 1 Peter 5:2

Obedience – Luke 5:5-6

Fear - Habakkuk 3:17-19

In this episode, Dana welcomes back Peggy Hurd, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to dive into the challenging and often unspoken questions surrounding divorce from a Christian perspective. Peggy, with 51 years of marriage and extensive experience in family therapy, brings her wisdom and insight to address some of the most pressing questions that many face before, during, and after divorce.

This episode is a must-listen if you’re seeking clarity, understanding, and hope in navigating life after divorce. Settle in, grab a warm drink, and join Dana and Peggy for an honest conversation on topics that are hard to discuss but essential to healing.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Functioning Alone After Divorce

   - A candid discussion on the misconceptions around divorce and sin in the Christian community.

   - Peggy’s insights on understanding God’s forgiveness and acceptance, offering reassurance to those feeling guilt or shame.

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We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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RESOURCES MENTIONED:

The Divorced Christian, Pastor Darius Good

The Emotionally Destructive Marriage, Leslie

Guest: Jeff Herring, Founder of Content Profit Systems and host of the Content Profit Show. Jeff is a former Marriage and Family Therapist with 25 years of experience, an author of an international relationship column, and a former relationship radio host.

Description:

In this episode, we're joined by Jeff Herring, who shares his expertise on navigating the dating world after divorce. Jeff brings invaluable insights from his background in therapy and relationships, offering guidance for anyone ready to explore dating again.

What We Cover in this episode:

• What are the 3 things we HAVE to have when starting the dating journey?

Why You Should Listen: 

Jeff offers powerful advice for anyone considering dating after divorce. Whether you're wondering about timelines, self-reflection, or uncovering old patterns, this episode is packed with the wisdom you need to make informed decisions. Plus, it’s just the first part of our deep dive with Jeff, so stay tuned for more!

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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www.jeffherring.com

Guest: Jeff Herring, Founder of Content Profit Systems and host of the Content Profit Show. Jeff is a former Marriage and Family Therapist with 25 years of experience, an author of an international relationship column, and a former relationship radio host.

Description:

In this episode, we're joined by Jeff Herring, who shares his expertise on navigating the dating world after divorce. Jeff brings invaluable insights from his background in therapy and relationships, offering guidance for anyone ready to explore dating again.

What We Cover:

- How long should one wait to date after a divorce? Jeff shares insights on recommended time frames and why this waiting period is crucial.

- Influence of Past Relationships: We dive into how past relationships, even as far back as childhood, can shape your choices and preferences in future partners.

- Self-Red Flags in the Dating Game: Jeff explains the importance of self-awareness and highlights the red flags to watch for in yourself before jumping back into dating.

Why You Should Listen: 

Jeff offers powerful advice for anyone considering dating after divorce. Whether you're wondering about timelines, self-reflection, or uncovering old patterns, this episode is packed with the wisdom you need to make informed decisions. Plus, it’s just the first part of our deep dive with Jeff, so stay tuned for more!

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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Episode Summary:

Key Points Discussed

•  The Power of New Traditions 

If you need extra encouragement, a listening ear, or a prayer partner this holiday season, I invite you to reach out. Email her at [email protected].

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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In Episode 28, we continue the conversation with Peggy Hurd, a licensed marriage and family therapist, who has been instrumental in my healing journey through separation and divorce. Peggy, with over 51 years of marriage, and the wisdom of being a mom of two and a grandmother of two, returns to further unpack the complex topic of abuse in marriage. 

In this episode, we focus on two important and often misunderstood aspects of marital abuse: 

- Spiritual Abuse: The misuse of religion, faith, or spiritual authority to manipulate or control a spouse. 

- Sexual Abuse within Marriage: Addressing non-consensual sexual experiences and violations within the context of marriage. 

Peggy shares her professional insights and offers practical advice on recognizing these behaviors and beginning the process of healing. Through our conversation, we hope to shine a light on the nuanced forms of abuse and empower listeners to rise and reclaim their lives after divorce.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode: 

1. What constitutes spiritual abuse in a marriage and how it manifests.

Listen to Part 1 of the conversation (Episode 27) if you missed the introduction to this series. Peggy’s personal and professional insights offer encouragement and clarity for those on the path to emotional freedom.

Enjoyed this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an update!Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. 

You can email me at: [email protected]. 

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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Website and Blog link:

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RESOURCES MENTIONED:

The Divorced Christian, Pastor Darius Good

The Emotionally Destructive Marriage, Leslie

Episode Summary:

In this special episode, I’m joined by a very important guest—Peggy Hurd, a licensed marriage and family therapist who played a key role in my healing journey during my separation and divorce. With over 51 years of marriage experience, Peggy brings a wealth of knowledge as both a therapist and a wife, mom of two, and grandma of two.

This episode kicks off a powerful series where we break down the different forms of abuse—starting today with emotional and financial abuse. We also dive into the concept of gaslighting, a manipulative tactic often linked to emotional abuse. I get candid about my personal experiences, sharing how I coped with childhood sexual abuse and how I survived through the most challenging times of my life.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

- Definitions and types of emotional and financial abuse 

- How gaslighting plays a role in emotional abuse 

- Real-life strategies for coping and healing from abuse 

- Insights from Peggy’s 51 years of marriage and her professional expertise 

- My personal journey through trauma, healing, and survival 

Key Takeaways:

- Abuse can take many forms beyond the physical. Recognizing emotional and financial abuse is the first step toward healing. 

- Gaslighting can leave victims questioning their reality, making emotional abuse even more damaging. 

- Healing is a journey, not a destination. Sharing our stories and learning from others is part of reclaiming our identity and power. 

- You are not alone. Support from trusted individuals, including professionals like Peggy, can be life-changing.

Meet Peggy Hurd:

- Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist 

- Married for 51 years 

- Mom of 2, Grandma of 2 

If you’ve experienced emotional or financial abuse, know that healing is possible. Start by recognizing the signs and reaching out for support. 

Join the conversation! Connect with us on social media and share your story using the hashtag #RiseAndReclaim. 

Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. 

You can email me at: [email protected]. 

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here:https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

Website and Blog link:

https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

The Divorced Christian, Pastor Darius Good

The Emotionally Destructive Marriage, Leslie Vernick

Summary: 

In this episode, we confront a common but painful belief: that divorce disqualifies someone from serving God. Many have been told that since God hates divorce, He can no longer use them. But today, we’ll explore the lives of two powerful women—Kathryn Kuhlman and Aimee Semple McPherson—who experienced divorce yet were mightily used by God. Their stories remind us that **God’s anointing and calling are not canceled by human mistakes.

Through their journeys, we’ll learn that God’s grace covers our failures and how His purposes for our lives remain, even when the world says otherwise.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Kathryn Kuhlman’s Journey:

   - Raised in Missouri with a passion for spreading the Gospel.

   - Founded the Denver Revival Tabernacle but faced public scandal after marrying Burroughs Waltrip, who divorced his wife to marry her.

   - After her marriage ended, Kathryn felt heartbroken and judged, but she experienced a deeper understanding of God’s grace.

   - Kathryn’s greatest ministry moments emerged **after her divorce, with miracles and healings marking her meetings.

1. Aimee Semple McPherson’s Triumph Through Scandal

   - Born in Canada, Aimee was a pioneering evangelist, traveling with her first husband as a missionary.

   - Despite **two divorces** and several public scandals, Aimee founded the **Four Square Gospel Church** and built the Angelus Temple in Los Angeles.

   - Her story highlights that **God can use people even when their personal lives are messy**. She revolutionized evangelism through radio and drama, impacting thousands.

1. Lessons From Their Lives

   - **Romans 11:29** reminds us that "God’s gifts and His call are irrevocable."

   - Both women faced **public judgment** but continued ministering with powerful anointing.

   - God's anointing is given **for the benefit of others**, not just for the minister.

Key Quotes:

- Kathryn Kuhlman: *“It’s a thousand times easier to die physically than to keep on living. You see, the Lord forgives, but people don’t.”*

- “God’s anointing flows through broken vessels.”

If you’ve gone through a divorce and feel disqualified, this episode is for you. **God’s grace is greater than any failure**, and His calling remains on your life. Offer your brokenness to Him and watch Him transform it into something beautiful.

Thank you for listening!

If this episode blessed you, share it with someone who needs encouragement. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review. You are not disqualified—you are redeemed and called.

You can email me at: [email protected]. 

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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Summary: 

In today’s episode, we respond to a heartfelt email from a listener named Angela, who is grappling with the pain and betrayal caused by her ex-husband. Angela asks, “When will the Lord bring justice for all the pain my ex-husband caused me?” This question resonates deeply with many who struggle with injustices experienced during divorce, especially when lies and deception leave lingering wounds. 

We explore the challenge between desiring justice and trusting God's timing. While betrayal hurts, we discuss how God’s justice may not always align with our timeline or expectations. We reflect on the challenge of surrendering our right to vengeance and trusting that God will expose what needs to be revealed in His perfect way. 

Key Takeaways:

1. Justice on God's Timeline: The justice we seek may not happen immediately, but God promises that every hidden thing will be brought to light (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14).

Encouragement:

When the desire for justice feels overwhelming, remember that God sees every wound and betrayal. His justice brings not only correction but also redemption and healing. Trusting Him requires surrendering your pain and allowing His perfect will to unfold.

If you’ve struggled with betrayal or the desire for justice, we’d love to hear your story. Send us your questions or thoughts at [your contact info]. Don't forget to share this episode with anyone who might need encouragement today. 

SCRIPTURES:

Ecclesiastes 8:11-13, New International Version

Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 New International Version

Isaiah 30:18

Isaiah 61:8

Romans 12:19 New International Version

Mark 4:22

Daniel 2:22

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Episode Overview:

In this episode of the *Rise & Reclaim After Divorce* podcast, we dive deep into the emotional toll of divorce, particularly the sadness and depression that often follow. I share my personal journey of battling emptiness and depression after my divorce and discuss the importance of turning to God during this difficult season. We explore practical ways to cope with these feelings, including grieving, seeking community, and relying on God’s Word to heal and restore our hearts. If you're navigating life after divorce and struggling with sadness or depression, this episode is for you.

Key Points Discussed:

• Personal Story: How I navigated post-divorce depression, emotional exhaustion, and emptiness.

SCRIPTURES:

Isaiah 12

Psalm 34:17-18

Jeremiah 29:11

Philippians 4:8

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