In this inspiring conversation, Christine welcomes Monica, a dynamic leader, mother of two, and purpose-driven professional who shares her winding path from aspiring physician to corporate VP and mom. Monica opens up about the pivots in her life, the fears she had to face, the mentors who shaped her, and the intentional choices that led her to personal and professional fulfillment.
This episode dives into identity, courage, authenticity, and the evolving definition of success for women—especially those juggling career, motherhood, purpose, and self-care.
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Major Themes & Insights1. The Power of PivotsMonica started her journey believing she was destined for medical school—until a profound shift in her senior year made her reevaluate her motivations.
➡️ Lesson: Your “plan” doesn’t have to be permanent. A pivot can be the exact step you need.
2. Fear: A Catalyst, Not a CageWhether it was changing careers, leading for the first time, or stepping into motherhood, Monica describes moments of feeling unprepared or intimidated.
➡️ Her approach: Feel the fear, acknowledge it, and still move forward.
3. Redefining SuccessEarly Monica equated success with titles, achievements, and checking every box. Today, success looks like happiness, family, impact, and alignment with her purpose.
➡️ We evolve; so should our definitions of success.
4. Mentors & Sponsors MatterMonica’s transformation from shy new hire to confident leader was fueled by people who saw potential in her—even when she didn’t see it herself.
➡️ Curiosity, courage, and willingness to raise your hand attract mentors.
5. The Female Fear FactorMonica and Christine explore why women often feel they must check every box before stepping up—while men will throw their name in the ring with just half the qualifications.
➡️ Challenge the narrative: courage > perfection.
6. Motherhood as a Superpower (Not a Setback)Monica shares her beautiful journey into motherhood as a single mom by choice—and how “organized chaos” became her new normal.
➡️ Her wisdom: You will drop balls. Give yourself grace. Focus on impact, not perfection.
7. Self-Care as a DisciplineFrom early-morning quiet to full self-care days (YES—even when the kids are at daycare), Monica emphasizes that restoration is not selfish—it’s essential.
➡️ You can’t pour from an empty cup.
8. The Spiritual FoundationMonica credits her faith as the anchor that fuels her purpose, resilience, and desire to impact others.
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Key Takeaways for Listeners✨ 1. You are allowed to change your mind.Your dreams at 16 don’t have to dictate your future at 26—or 46. Pivoting isn’t failure; it’s growth.
✨ 2. Fear doesn’t mean “stop.”Fear is a signal that something important is ahead. Take the jump.
✨ 3. Don’t wait to be perfect.Apply for the job. Volunteer for the project. Raise your hand. Perfect is a myth; progress is power.
✨ 4. Mentors are everywhere—even at a distance.Look around: who inspires you? Learn from them, even if they’re not in your direct circle.
✨ 5. Write a letter to your future self.You’ll be surprised what you learn when you revisit it later.
(Challenge issued by Christine!)
✨ 6. Motherhood and ambition can coexist beautifully.Your “S” might glow in the dark—and that’s your strength, not your limitation.
✨ 7. Schedule self-care like a meeting.Take the day off. Do nothing. Restore. Your future self will thank you.