not a single marriage around me is aspirational. it’s completely illogical. the endless arguments, the barely concealed disgust, the endless bristling, the normalised wilful blindness to the lies, the last to know about the blatant affair. why anybody signs up for a lifetime of that just for a couple of kids and once a month sex will always baffle me.

These are my quick tips on what to do when you unexpectedly lose your job

You know how people say “if it explain Nigeria to someone and they claim to understand it, they’re either lying or they need mental health support”? I just realised today why that is so true.

This episode is dedicated to all those who thought they would remain spring chickens forever until their lower back said “are you a joker?”

When I say I can handle the truth, it doesn’t mean your truth will not have consequences or elicit an adverse reaction. It simply means I prefer to hate you for the truth than love you based on a lie.

Considering that habits are formed when there are no consequences to bad behaviour during the formation stage, or when actions are rewarded or excused, those who have enabled it over the years bear just as much blame. Which explains why you’re so shocked when you finally meet someone like me who will not lower standards for you and hold you accountable. It’s really not your fault, I blame those who you met before me who didn’t stop you. Now I’m the toxic one.

This episode explores vulture friendships who stay in your orbit only waiting for the day you will be desperate enough for them to swoop in and take advantage to benefit themselves. They won’t help you if it will make you better but target your most vulnerable state so they can ask to use that same money to buy your phone for cheap.

My reflection on the things we have now normalised that would have gotten people ostracised just a few decades ago. And the courage it takes to be a critic in the world that mandates conformity so badly even when it makes no sense.

My take on people who deliberately thirst trap but then act shocked and offended when it attracts lurid comments from complete strangers. Miss me with that BS this year.

My reflections on how the passage of time makes old problems feel trivial and why we should get perspective now. In ten years, will these same things keeping you awake, actually matter? Or are you worrying away precious time?