This podcast examines the question of full disclosure in relationships and when they should be made. When does your long term boyfriend or girlfriend deserve to know your Health status or key life information (like out of wedlock children)?

This is me just thinking out loud about the role of commonality and relevancy in regular friendships. If the circumstances that brought you together suddenly change, you will find that you drift apart naturally. But real friendships are the ones not affected by circumstance. That’s the real difference.

Times like these it does not feel like a coincidence. My life is full of these moments when I actually give up on certain things and then everything starts to shift in inexplicable ways. Meeting even the needs I never thought I had. Is that God’s reassurance?

A reflection on how we give ourselves life deadlines as if we can control anything.

My experience with people “complimenting” me by saying I don’t sound Nigerian. The shock whenever I tell them I didn’t grow up in the UK or the US because I don’t fit their stereotype of what a black African from Africa should sound like. I blame the movies.

My thoughts on the election of Pope Leo XIV and the automatic pressure of leadership against his own country’s current anti Christian policies.

An incident yesterday made me wonder why adults are so cynical about friendships.

My thoughts on why religious fasting, particularly as practiced by Nigerians, is hypocritical.

I watched the BBC documentary on visa sponsorship scams in the UK that highlighted the victims and alleged scammers, and came away feeling like it was an incomplete story. Here’s my thoughts on the entire thing.

This is my unbiased review of the fictional novel - Dream Count, by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. Please feel free to disagree with my thoughts on the book, hopefully only after you have been able to read it.