Equestrian Perspective

S3 | 7. Shutdown Horses Explained: Why They Close Off and How to Help


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If your horse seems "quiet"… but something feels off... this episode is for you.

Shutdown horses often look calm, obedient, or easy… yet on the inside there is a different story at play. They may feel disconnected, disinterested, flat, or robotic... or go from calm to explosive without warning. And while these signs can be subtle, they matter. Shutdown behaviours arent laziness or compliance. It's a nervous system response asking for support.

In this episode, I break down:

  • The real signs of shutdown:
    • Freeze responses, "lights on no one home", obedience without connection, quietness masking overwhelm, sudden explosions, apearing "fine" but feeling off
  • Why shutdown responses:
    • How horses enter freeze when earlier attempts at communication weren't understood… why this isn't a training issue but feedback… and how past experiences and pressure-based environments shape shutdown tendencies.
  • Why recognising shutdown behaviours is important:
    • For deeper connection, a stronger relationship, more natural motivation - and most importantly, safety.
  • How to help your horse open back up:
    • The 5 foundations I use with shutdown, spooky, reactive, and sensitive horses.
  • The inner skills you'll need along the way:
    • Patience, attunement, emotional awareness, intuitive listening, letting go of pressure and timelines, and reinforcing the behaviours you do want.

Plus, I share transformation stories (Shorty + Ella) that illustrate what's possible when a shutdown horse finally feels safe to feel again, and how quickly connection, softness, and engagement return.

If you've ever felt like your horse is here with you… but not really with you... this episode will help you understand why, and what steps to take next.

✨ FREE RESOURCE: To get started with a clear plan, download my Prepare Your Horse For Any Environment checklist - it's the exact foundation I use with all horses to build confidence step by step.

✨ Want deeper support? This is the kind of work we dive into inside The Field, my 3-month horsemanship mentorship experience for compassionate equestrians who want clarity, confidence, and a safer, more connected partnership with their horse. If you're ready for a guided pathway and personalised support, you can learn more here.

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