In this episode, Jim chats with counselor and author Esther Liu about the complex issue of shame and its impact on our identity and relationships. They shed light on how shame often keeps us from seeing ourselves as beloved children of God, leading to feelings of not being enough. Esther offers valuable insights and practical steps to overcome shame, emphasizing vulnerability and the support of others. Learn how to break free from shame's grip by embracing our true worth found in Christ’s unconditional love. Tune in for a heart-stirring conversation that's a beacon of hope for anyone seeking to live free from shame and fully embrace their identity in Christ.

In this episode, they discuss… 

• The role of community in dealing with shame (10:39)
• The difference it makes when we believe what the Bible says about God's compassionate posture towards us (21:53)
• How societal standards influence feelings of inadequacy and shame (36:25)
• How Jesus' life and sacrifice challenge worldly notions of success and worth (46:22)

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Referenced in this episode:

• Shame: Being Known and Loved by Esther Liu
• Blog: When You Feel Ashamed: Grace for the Second Fall by Josiah Bancroft
• Serge's Sonship Course
• Good and Angry: Redeeming Anger, Irritation, Complaining, and Bitterness by David Powlison
• Bible references: Psalm 139, Psalm 103, Genesis 29:14b-35, Mark 10:17-31, Isaiah 52:13-53:12

Credits: 

Our guest was Esther Liu, Licensed Counselor at CCEF (Christian Counseling and Education Foundation), and author of Shame: Being Known and Loved. Hosted by Jim Lovelady. Production by Anna Madsen and Sunny Chi. Music by Tommy L. 

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