In this episode Colleen and Allard unpack what it’s really like to date the Dutch—from hyper-honesty and split bills to emotional restraint, planning three weeks ahead, and the unspoken rules no one warns you about. Is it refreshing or romantic kryptonite?

We talk cultural clashes, misunderstandings, and the moments that make you laugh, cringe, or question everything you thought you knew about love. Whether you’re dating a Dutch person, married to one, or just Dutch-curious, this episode is for you.