Intimacy shouldn’t feel like a test you can fail. We open a gentler way to relate to Jesus—one built on safety, honesty, and trust—so that even those carrying unwanted sexual desires, betrayal, trauma, or unanswered prayers can step toward connection without pressure or performance. Rather than chasing a perfect quiet time, we explore how everyday moments become holy ground: the clink of dishes, a commute’s quiet, the light on autumn leaves. When we treat intimacy as presence instead of a project, our nervous systems can exhale and our desire has room to grow.

We share language that removes shame and invites realism: Can I be honest with you, Lord? Do I feel safe with you, Lord? Can I trust you, God? That pause between question and answer matters. Scripture reframes God’s posture—the Lord who sees, the face that shines, Jesus, gentle and lowly—and helps us imagine a relationship that meets us where we actually are. We talk about cultivating a listening heart, the biblical picture of wisdom that stays connected moment by moment, and we borrow lived practices from Brother Lawrence to a modern “Experiencing God” approach that treats the day like an ocean you can hear, watch, or dive into.

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Resources from this episode:

• Practice the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence
• John Eldredge - The One Minute Pause App

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👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

What if the thing you fear—letting people in—is the very thing that heals you fastest? We open up about why isolation intensifies shame, why “being right” without being known leaves you empty, and how a few safe relationships can anchor recovery, restore trust after betrayal, and steady your identity when everything feels uncertain.

We get practical about building community that actually helps. You’ll learn how to test for safety with small disclosures, look for integrity and honesty over warm fuzzies, and invite people who can play three vital roles: mirror (reflect what’s true), flashlight (illuminate options), and sandpaper (gently refine). We unpack rhythms that make connection feel secure—a standing coffee, a weekly check-in—and how prayer sharpens discernment so you can sense who’s trustworthy. 

If you’ve been hurt by community, we name that grief and show how to re-enter wisely. Needs change across seasons; circles shift; God still provides the right companions for the chapter you’re in. We talk about interrupting addictive spirals with one simple text, why listening can heal more than advice, and how Jesus’ withness reframes everything—because love doesn’t demand you swim the ocean alone. You don’t need twenty people to begin. You need one safe person and a baby step.

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Memory can feel like a trap… until it becomes a path back to wholeness. We chose remember as our word for the year, not to force a walk through old pain, but to gently re-member the parts of ourselves that splintered under grief, betrayal, and shame. Together we ask better questions, listen to what our bodies are telling us, and trust that God is already meeting us in the details we often overlook.

Press play if you’re ready to move from avoidance to gentle restoration and hear the song that’s already being sung over your life. If this helped you breathe easier, subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review to help more people find the show.

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You’re invited to Regeneration’s Annual Dessert Fundraiser on Thursday, March 19, at 6:00 PM at Martins Valley Mansion. Join us for an encouraging evening of real stories and renewed hope as we celebrate how Christ is bringing healing and restoration in our city. Dessert is provided, and seating is limited. Learn more, register, or host a table RSVP

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👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Singleness often exists in the shadows of our cultural conversation, especially in faith communities where marriage is frequently celebrated as the ultimate destination. But what if your life's unexpected path includes long-term singleness? How do you navigate sexuality, loneliness, and purpose when the "happily ever after" narrative hasn't materialized as planned?

Connelly Gillum, author of "Revelations of a Single Woman: Loving the Life I Didn't Expect," brings refreshing honesty to this conversation as she shares her journey through decades of singleness. After a relationship ended in her early 40s, Connelly faced what she believed might be the "consummate tragedy" of permanent singleness. Yet nearly twenty years later, she's discovered surprising fullness, purpose, and joy—not despite her singleness, but partially because of it.

The conversation doesn't shy away from difficult truths. Connelly candidly discusses how cultural messages about sexuality created a persistent wrestling match with God, leading her to suspect He might be "holding out" on her. The breakthrough came not through denying her sexuality or desires, but through reframing them as opportunities for self-giving rather than self-fulfillment. From supporting family during crisis to discovering the joys of hospitality, Connelly reveals how her singleness has allowed her unique ways to reflect Christ to those around her.

For singles beyond the typical ministry demographic of under-30, Connelly offers particularly valuable wisdom about grief and purpose. She emphasizes that acknowledging the genuine suffering of unsought singleness isn't wallowing—it's essential healing work that eventually leads to freedom. And her closing thoughts about how "God sets the lonely in families" provide hope for building meaningful connections beyond traditional family structures.

Whether you're single, supporting someone who is, or simply interested in a deeper understanding of singleness, this conversation will challenge assumptions and offer a fresh perspective on embracing the life you didn't expect.

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“Sometimes Sunday is the loneliest hour of my week.” 

That confession lit a fuse. 

We open up about singleness, sexual desire, and belonging in the church, and why treating marriage as the finish line keeps too many people stuck on the fringes. In this episode, we explore the quiet messages singles hear, the subtle social silos that form, and the deeper invitation God offers to all of us: a life of obedience, intimacy, and joy right where we are.

If you’ve ever felt unseen in the pews or pressured to treat wholeness like a ticket to marriage, this conversation offers a better story. 

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Join us for the final week of our special mini-series on Advent. If you missed the previous episodes, we explored the intersections of Mary's yes and our sexual struggle, and the importance of finding connection and community. Today, we dive into Mary's song, reading Luke 1:46-55, and reflecting on how it speaks to us in this season. Listen as we personalize these lyrics to find our own song and discover the joy in knowing that God notices and remembers us. Don't miss this heartwarming and inspiring episode filled with reflections on God's mercy and the ripple effects of our actions.

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You’re invited to Regeneration’s Annual Dessert Fundraiser on Thursday, March 19, at 6:00 PM at Martins Valley Mansion. Join us for an encouraging evening of real stories and renewed hope as we celebrate how Christ is bringing healing and restoration in our city. Dessert is provided, and seating is limited. Learn more, register, or host a table RSVP

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Amidst life's challenges, where do we find the strength and support to navigate our most vulnerable moments? Join us as we reflect on the  story of Mary and Elizabeth in this special Advent mini-series on Sacred by Design. With  Executive director Josh Glaser and Kyle, we explore the parallels between Mary's path to motherhood and our own pursuit of sexual wholeness. Discover how Mary's feelings of isolation and misunderstanding resonate with modern struggles and uncover the transformative power of community.

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You’re invited to Regeneration’s Annual Dessert Fundraiser on Thursday, March 19, at 6:00 PM at Martins Valley Mansion. Join us for an encouraging evening of real stories and renewed hope as we celebrate how Christ is bringing healing and restoration in our city. Dessert is provided, and seating is limited. Learn more, register, or host a table RSVP

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In today's episode, Host Andrea and Josh (host of Becoming Whole podcast) discuss the advent season's significance and how it relates to many of the personal struggles addressed at Regenertion. We invite you to reflect on how the Christmas story, particularly the incarnation, intersects with issues like sexual struggles and personal wounds. 
The discussion centers on Mary's experience, her unique relationship with Jesus, and her profound 'yes' to God, highlighting the comfort and support God offers. Josh propose that listeners ask themselves where in their lives they wonder 'how can this be?' and encourage them to stay open to God's unexpected and abundant invitations.
We discuss the role of community support, highlighting Elizabeth's comforting presence in Mary's life, and reflect on how such relationships can bolster our own spiritual journeys. Learn creative practices to connect with Jesus, whether through a quiet walk or the simple act of coloring, and consider the power of openness in nurturing your connection with the God. Join us as we conclude with a heartfelt prayer, seeking guidance for those feeling hesitant on their spiritual journey, and inviting you to experience a life filled with unforeseen beauty and transformation.

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You’re invited to Regeneration’s Annual Dessert Fundraiser on Thursday, March 19, at 6:00 PM at Martins Valley Mansion. Join us for an encouraging evening of real stories and renewed hope as we celebrate how Christ is bringing healing and restoration in our city. Dessert is provided, and seating is limited. Learn more, register, or host a table RSVP

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In this episode of Sacred by Design, we meet Kristen Miele, a sex educator passionate about equipping families with the language and tools to discuss sex and sexuality. Kristen shares insights on her curriculum, Sex Ed Reclaimed, which aims to provide a biblically based education for children and teens. The conversation covers the importance of addressing topics like dating, puberty, and identity from a Christian perspective, and emphasizes the role of parents as primary educators. Kristen also discusses the challenges of creating content that balances empathy and truth, and offers encouragement for parents at different stages of this journey.

Kristen Miele
https://www.sexedreclaimed.com/
https://www.instagram.com/sexedreclaimed/

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You’re invited to Regeneration’s Annual Dessert Fundraiser on Thursday, March 19, at 6:00 PM at Martins Valley Mansion. Join us for an encouraging evening of real stories and renewed hope as we celebrate how Christ is bringing healing and restoration in our city. Dessert is provided, and seating is limited. Learn more, register, or host a table RSVP

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👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

This episode of Sacred by Design delves into the often-overlooked issue of pornography addiction among women. We highlight the nature of pornography, the shame it brings, and the silence women maintain around this struggle. We want to break this silence by offering the three C’s: (Content, Coaching, and Community) showing the importance of integrating knowledge through resources, personal coaching, and supportive communities.

You are not alone in your journey; we see you, and we are here for you!

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You’re invited to Regeneration’s Annual Dessert Fundraiser on Thursday, March 19, at 6:00 PM at Martins Valley Mansion. Join us for an encouraging evening of real stories and renewed hope as we celebrate how Christ is bringing healing and restoration in our city. Dessert is provided, and seating is limited. Learn more, register, or host a table RSVP

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👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)