This episode of Sacred by Design delves into the often-overlooked issue of pornography addiction among women. We highlight the nature of pornography, the shame it brings, and the silence women maintain around this struggle. We want to break this silence by offering the three C’s: (Content, Coaching, and Community) showing the importance of integrating knowledge through resources, personal coaching, and supportive communities.

You are not alone in your journey; we see you, and we are here for you!

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We are excited to announce that we will be releasing new content on two different days. On Tuesdays, we will focus on women and unwanted sexual behaviors. And the next week, on Wednesdays, we focus on women impacted, recovering, and healing from betrayal trauma. Tune into one or both; either way, we pray it will bring healing and hope!

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👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

What happens when the world you trusted comes crashing down with betrayal?

Join us on Sacred by Design as we welcome back Anne, a dedicated voice in the realm of betrayal trauma recovery. Together, we unpack the whirlwind of emotions that accompany the discovery of infidelity and shine a light on the path to healing. Anne shares some essential steps for reclaiming one's identity and emotional well-being. From the importance of a safe, supportive environment to practical recovery steps like sharing your story and engaging in self-care, Anne opens up a roadmap for finding strength and solace. 
With compassion we explore the power of taking things one step at a time, through the simplicity of "right foot, left foot, breathe" to navigate life's storms. We also introduce exciting opportunities for deeper connection through upcoming webinars and group sessions.

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👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Have you ever wondered about your own sacredness and intentional design by God? This episode of "Sacred by Design" promises to reshape your understanding of self-worth and sexuality. In this episode we aim to uplift and inspire, revealing how the persistent and loving pursuit of God can transform our perception of being precious and purposefully created.

We'll also explore the vital role of daily reminders in maintaining our spiritual well-being. Inspired by a quote from C.S. Lewis, we discuss how simple reminders—whether they're post-it notes or spiritual truths—can reinforce our intrinsic value and purpose.  This episode invites you to embrace these gentle nudges and find strength in the assurance that you are cherished and honored. 

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In this episode of Sacred by Design, Kyle addresses the common misconceptions around the word 'sacred.' She explains that many people feel unworthy of being called sacred due to their flaws, sins, or life experiences. However, she emphasizes that sacredness is a status granted by God, not something earned by human effort. By understanding that they are created by God, we can begin to embrace our inherent sacredness. We encourage you to reflect on your definitions of sacredness, seek God's perspective through scripture, and discard negative labels and self-conceptions. This is an invitation to accept your God-given sacredness and let it transform your life.

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Feeling disqualified or unworthy? Today's episode of Sacred by Design is here to remind you that you are profoundly loved and inherently sacred. Have you ever savored a cup of coffee or felt the warmth of the sun on your face during a walk in the woods? These moments of joy are reflections of God's delight in you. Join us as we explore "Sacredness" and reassure you that you are not defined by your worst moments or the labels others have given you. We discuss the struggle of connecting mind, heart, and body, especially for those who've experienced trauma, and invite you to recall moments of presence and joy to see your sacredness. Tune in to discover the incredible love and beauty that God recognizes within you.

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Have you ever wondered what it truly means to be sacred by design? In this heartfelt episode, Kyle turns the spotlight on Andrea, who opens up about her personal reflections and journey toward embracing the belief that every individual is sacred and created with intention. Andrea bravely shares her struggles with bulimia and the profound moment of divine peace she experienced in church, showing how these experiences have shaped her understanding and faith.  Tune in for an inspiring dialogue that underscores the sacredness of our personal development and the incredible impact of support and connection.

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👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
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Embracing Sacred by Design: A Journey for Women with Same-Sex Attraction

As we are rolling in our season 2 of 'Sacred by Design,' Andrea & Kyle dive deep into the intention and heart behind the concept of being 'sacred by design,' specifically addressing women who love Jesus and struggle with same-sex attraction. 
They discuss the importance of seeing oneself through God's perspective, recognizing sacredness and design as divine attributes regardless of personal struggles. The conversation serves as an open invitation for listeners to embrace their identity in Christ, free from shame, and to explore their unique paths of following Jesus while challenging societal norms. Kyle and Andrea emphasize the personal and introspective nature of this journey, encouraging listeners to trust in God's design and love for them.

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What if you could rediscover your worth and sacredness after experiencing deep betrayal? 
Join us on Sacred by Design as Anne and I embark on a journey to uncover the significance of words like "sacred" and "design" amidst the personal pain of betrayal. Our conversation is a compassionate reminder to all women that their inherent sacredness and worthiness remain intact, despite the fractures caused by betrayal. 
We delve into the necessity of grieving and recognizing the sacred nature of this process, encouraging listeners to embrace their humanity and seek solace from friends, scripture, and sacred time with Jesus. 

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Have you ever felt broken or filled with shame, wondering if you could ever see yourself as whole again? Join us as we kick off Season Two of "Sacred by Design" with a heartfelt reflection on the  meaning behind our podcast's name. We recount the pivotal moment we chose "Sacred by Design" and discuss its deep resonance for women grappling with trauma or unwanted sexual behaviors. Despite feelings of shame or brokenness, we emphasize that every woman is inherently sacred by God's design. Our aim is to help you see yourself through God's eyes—beautiful, honorable, and awe-inspiring.

Journey with us further as we explore the path to healing and rediscovery of your sacred self. We talk about how God touches our lives through beauty, creativity, and joy—like the calming presence of water or the exhilaration of music. Reflecting on the nurturing image of God from Zephaniah 3:17, we highlight Him as a comforting parent who sings over us, offering peace and rest. We urge you to embrace new words, songs, and pathways as tools for your healing journey, recognizing that you are sacred by design. This episode is an invitation to reconnect with your sacred identity and find joy in that realization.

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👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)

Do you feel that stubborn willpower should be sufficient to overcome pornography addiction, masturbation or casual hookups? 

We're here to help dispel that myth, sharing how this mentality often leads to self-blame and failure, creating a cycle of despair. The truth, which may surprise you, is that it's in these challenging times that we should invite divine intervention. We're not meant to go through this alone; God is ready to help and guide us towards a life of greater freedom. 

*This is an excerpt from a recent seminar with our Sacred by design team.  Join us as we explore the science behind pornography addiction, discussing how it hijacks the brain's reward system, leading to responses that are difficult to overcome on your own. We also emphasize the importance of being kind to oneself during recovery. 

Hear the inspiring story of Julie, a young woman who battled pornography and masturbation.  How she overcame the isolation she felt due to her same-sex attraction, and how seeking help allowed her to shift her perspective, realizing that she couldn't win this fight on her own.

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👉Women 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Women overcoming unwanted sexual Behavior)
👉Compass 21-Day Prayer Journal & Devotional - (Wives who are or have been impacted by partner betrayal)