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Reality Hour I Want My High School Swet Heart Back by Sam Sylk

Dear Sam,

I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. He has always been great, not really a jealous person, other than about my cousin. I wasn’t raised with my cousin, I met him for the first time when we were 21, and at the time I didn’t know he was my cousin, we met at a club and we ended up kissing ONCE over 4-5 years ago, but nothing sexually happened, I found out he was my cousin when we linked up a week later, nor have we even mentioned it. He moved away, and he has become one of my best friends, he is always there for me and is just such an important person in my life. At no point has he tried to do anything remotely inappropriate to me. My boyfriend read thru our messages and saw that he called me sweetie and just went crazy, and said he needed a break. After 2 days he told me he can’t really see us together if my cousin is at all involved in my life. I at first agreed, but now I just keep thinking about how I’m unsure if I want to give up my cousin for him. I do see a future with my boyfriend, we have talked about marriage and buying a house and kids, and only now has there ever been a problem. I’m wondering whether or not I’m doing the right thing?

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Dear Sam,

Hey, really lost. I have been dating” this man for years! I have seen him twice since meeting. He’s a wonderful guy but literally lacks communication skills and he has so much going on in his personal life. In my heart of hearts I don’t believe he is cheating. My issue is though that I am missing that physical connection one gets with their partner. I am missing being around him and just in his company. He keeps saying soon, soon, soon and when it happens it will be worth it but I feel like I am cheating myself out of livings my life waiting on him. What can I do to ease this feeling or do I just live and see if maybe God brings us back? Please Help!

Dear Sam,

A good male friend and I were at a party of a mutual friends. My male friend got drunk and I ended up giving him a ride home. Well that's when decided to profess his romantic feelings to me. The problem is I don't like him like that plus I have a man that is coincidently his friend. I just wrote it off as a drunken moment but a week later he brought it up again. I told him i didn't like him like that. Should I tell my boyfriend?

Dear Sam,

I recently found out that my husband has been having phone conversations with another woman, that I have never met. Well at least before I found out they had been talking. According to both of them (yes I called her), they met at a local spot, enjoyed each others conversations as friends. Now their conversations has gone from the spot to the phone and text. They claim they just enjoy each others conversation and they can talk to each other about things they can't to others about. In his case me, she on the other hand is single and claims he also gives her relationship advice. Where I come from if your husband has a female friend that you don't know he's cheating but these two say they are not. Am I wrong? Is my husband cheating? Who does that?? Please help!!