Sapphic Sexology

When you love your partner so much but the sex is non existent, does it mean you're with the wrong person?

Why do you get along so well but when it comes to sex it feels... forced?

Listen for why improving the relationship doesn't usually fix your sex life, and how to begin bridging the gap between love and desire.

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What happens when you're SO into her and you enjoy the way she touches you, but your orgasm feels elusive? Why can you cum on your own but not with a partner?

Listen to find out:

>the hidden meaning of struggling to orgasm

>the wrong goal most people chase that makes orgasm more difficult and what to focus on instead

>how to talk about it without your partner feeling blamed

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Masterclass:

https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/freebie

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How do you keep your mind from wandering to work or if you smell weird? Is there a way to refocus or are you doomed to enduring distracted sex to keep your partner satisfied?

How can you feel satisfied when your libido is higher than your partner's?

What do you do when the tension of your sex life is affecting the rest of your relationship?

How do you stop feeling like your high sex drive is a burden to your partner?

Listen to this week's episode to learn:

+Stop the cycle- how to stop feeling rejected and actually feel closer to your partner

+Understanding desire: Learn how to collaborate with your partner instead of feeling like enemies on separate sides of the room.

+Making intimacy appealing: How to initiate sexual connection in a way that feels pressure free and fun for both of you.

LINKS MENTIONED:

Get your Intimacy Check-Up:

https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/freebie

Tell me how you navigate mismatched libidos:

https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/contact

How do you fix low libido? What do you do when your partner wants sex more often (or a lot more often) than you?

How do you stop feeling like 'the problem'?

Listen to this week's episode to learn: 

✨The Real Path to Desire- how to activate your desire whenever you want, without needing to be on vacation to feel it

✨Debunking Myths: Why what you're experiencing as ‘low libido’ is actual just a simple misunderstanding of how desire really works

✨Stop pointing the finger: How to stop blaming yourself and create a thriving sex life, no pressure required.

LINKS MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE:

Get your Intimacy Check-Up:

https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/book

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https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/youtubequestions

When the body positive affirmations fail, what do you do next? How do you close the gap between knowing you're 'supposed' to love your body and all the judgements and not good enough-ness that gets in the way?

In this episode, you'll learn:

-why affirmations don't work

-the unique challenge of body acceptance queer people face

-how to ACTUALLY love your body.

LINKS MENTIONED:

newsletter:

https://sapphicsexologist.myflodesk.com/newletter

get your intimacy check-up:

https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/book

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What do you do when your partner tells you they have sexual trauma? You love them, but are scared of making it worse by doing something wrong. How do you help them feel safe?

In this episode, I share the common, harmful dynamic couples fall into when one of them has experienced sexual trauma, and how to create a thriving relationship using a proven framework that helps your partner feel supported without losing yourself in the relationship.

NOTE: if your partner's sexual trauma is interfering with their quality of life, encourage them to get support from a qualified professional, whether that's me or someone else.

Book an intimacy check up here:

https://www.sapphicsexologist.com/book

Are you wondering how to get the spark back? You love your partner, and a great sex life takes effort. But how do you keep your relationship from feeling more like roommates or besties? In this episode, I share the key to keeping it hot beyond the 'honeymoon stage' using a proven framework that deepens intimacy without needing to stretch your bank account for a million date nights a month or pull a hammy trying a crazy new position.

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Are you tired of feeling scared to initiate, or waiting for your partner to do it... then it just never happens and everyone is dissatisfied?

I'll show you the exact formula to initiate with confidence so you can feel excited to start sexual connection and keep the ball rolling without worrying if they're having a good time.

Listen for the exact process myself and my clients used to master the art of initiation and were able to:

 👉🏼go from waiting for your partner to be in the perfect mood and never finding the right moment to being able to shift the energy from stress to turn on

 👉🏼hearing more 'sounds fun baby' and less 'not right now' from your partner

👉🏼 one client was able to go from being scared of her partner's sexual trauma to initiating with a balance of erotic energy and tender care

In this episode, I'll break it down for you and show you:

💚 How to stop anxiously overthinking initiation (it can be easy and fun!)

💚 The 2 most common experiences that make initiating feel way more intimidating than it has to be

💚 Why I don't focus on 'ways to initiate' google-type tips (and how my clients confidently initiate anyway)

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