Satisfying Intimacy ~ A show for Love, Sex & Life

Western science, traditional Chinese medicine, and Indian ayurveda all say, take care of your kidneys and adrenals, and you'll take care of pure vitality manifesting in part as your sexual energy. ~ 

That's one of the teachings of a textbook that somehow hit the bestseller lists, Healing with Whole Foods by Paul Pitchford. ~

This episode is a mix of those ideas with Taoist, tantric, and other teachings about how to grow, circulate, and share sexual energy. It also talks about what can happen when you live and have sex in a way that wastes the gift you have of life and pleasure. ~

Comments on this show and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to [email protected] or Instagram @hsrthankyou. Thanks for listening! ~

Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.

Adina Rivers is a rare person who has found the words and images for sultry spiritual sex based on knowing and accepting yourself and the other person while daring to ask and try "what more am I and are we capable of that is our human birthright"? ~ 

Her YouTube channel My Tiny Secrets brings information and motivation to 1.1 million people, and she has faced her share of resistance as well. Growing up in Germany, traveling to Brazil to discover another way of life, and landing in Bali where she lives today, Adina has pursued her fullest self in relationship despite facing poverty, ostracism, and abuse. She brings a strength of conviction that you are perfect as you are and capable of even more. And because of the courage of her journey - which you can watch here in this Draw My Life video - now so many people trust her with their most intimate thoughts and feelings. ~

In this show we chat about how she did and does that, most recently giving birth to her second child while being polyamorous and at the same time committed to one partner. She tells us what people are saying are their deepest insecurities and hopes, and brings us back to having fun and depth with this one amazing chance we get to live in this body, with these people. ~ 

Thank you Adina and also to Claudia from your team for being so wonderful to work with and gracing our new podcast with your presence. ~

Comments on this show and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to [email protected] or Instagram @hsrthankyou. Thanks for listening! ~

Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.

Speaking of gratitude.,. I should start by giving thanks! Thanks if you've been listening, writing in with suggestions, joining for interviews, and spreading the word about this really new podcast. It's been amazing so far. ~

Your input is so valuable and exciting and the show has a new Instagram @hsrthankyou to hear your tips and link to your inspiring creations on Insta. ~

Today's show is of course philosophical but also practical like I try to be there. There are ideas for example on saying whatever you need to yourself or your beloved to never go to sleep angry, even if some challenges are real and big and can't be resolved in a day. And scoops of patience, remembering what you want, and how to supercharge your body with joy - whether from receiving something little or big, or giving to someone even when you don't feel you have anything to give and they shine joy back to you. ~

Comments on this podcast and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to [email protected] or @hsrthankyou! Thanks for listening. ~

Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.

Priscila Armani hosts the Sexo explícito podcast on Spotify, to "explain the truths about sexuality, with serious experts, but without neglecting quality bitching - everything you wanted to know and never had the courage to ask." ~

She gives a great picture here of the real lives behind Brazil and Latin America's hypersex image, what people are telling and asking her, covering the whole spectrum of sex, gender and relationships. ~

Some of the countries where HSR is talking with people there is literally only one or no one I could find who's been doing sex and relationship ed and promotion for a while online. For the countries where there are a lot of people we can showcase different voices and ideas. ~

Thanks Priscila for sharing your eye-opening stories and picture, in English too! ~

Comments on this podcast and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to [email protected]. Thanks for listening. ~

Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.

What are the possibilities of being inside with your beloved, that words like missionary and doggy-style reduce to a same-old, physical-only, media-influenced-adolescent act instead of an ecstatic devotional flow in which positions are secondary to connection, and sex is the breath of life in and out of your relationship? ~

This new mini-series (episodes 20 and 21) of Healthy Sex and Relationships says, let whoever wants dare go there, in a way that sanitized medicalized words like oral sex and intercourse are made to prevent us from doing, just as missionary position was supposed to affirm male dominance instead of mutual love and pleasure. ~

As with most episodes of Healthy Sex and Relationships there's lots of room here for you to come you to come up with your own ideas and practices, and suggestions on how to try them out with yourself and your intimate partner with no shame or fear of failure, only the curiosity of the explorer and the discipline of the athlete to find and refine the nuggets of gold. Wishing you much time filled with joy and discovery. ~

Comments on this podcast and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to [email protected]. Thanks for listening. ~

Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.

What are the possibilities of coming face to your beloved's most intimate area and them to yours, that the words 69 and going down barely begin to scratch the surface of? ~

Can something you enjoy immensely actually be a path to the goddesses and gods or however else you know the deepest sacred ecstasy? ~

This new mini-series (episodes 20 and 21) of Healthy Sex and Relationships says, let whoever wants dare go there! ~

And if this is a practice or position that you've never really enjoyed, or never tried, there are some approaches suggested here that might open the door to much time filled with joy and discovery. ~ 

Comments on this podcast and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to [email protected]. Thanks for listening. ~

Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.

Karen Kaz Lucas is an artist and educator breaking open taboos about sexuality in Kenya through The Spread podcast. In just 15 minutes chatting here she covers a lot of ground! From the conservative religious legacy of colonialism to queer liberation, this show is an eye- and ear-opener to what's going on in this East African nation of 50-million people and dozens of cultures. ~

More about Kaz from her YouTube channel: "Having begun her career in 1997 as a rapper/singer, she has gone on to run creative ventures and projects cutting across the performing arts, media production, digital marketing and innovative events that shape the industrial standard. Kaz has had a lifelong passion for changing the way sex education is taught to young people. Driven by this passion and enabled by her media experience, she started The Spread, a sex positive podcast that only exists because there is no comprehensive sex education in Kenya. Information about sex is rooted in the negative consequences: HIV and AIDS and unwanted pregnancies. But while these are some real consequences, there’s need to highlight all the positive things that can come out of healthy, informed and consensual sexual practices." ~ 

This is part of Healthy Sex and Relationships' international interview series about the strengths and challenges of each land and what unites us as global people. I hope this brings deeper meaning to your life and relationships and inspires you to activate even more of your potential as a creator in society. ~

Thank you Kaz for making time to share with us your passions and learnings from so many years of amazing creation. ~

Comments on this podcast and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to [email protected]! Thanks for listening. ~

Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.

Jingshu (Jess) Zhu grew up in the Sichuan province of China, moved to the Netherlands to study Human Rights Law, and from there, for the past 5 years, hosts a love and sex podcast for people in China and the Chinese diaspora, called Four Gifts (love, play, spirituality and fortune). She has done a lot of work in particular for the well-being of LGBTQ people and sex workers. ~ 

Her website, jingshu.love tells more... "Having been through childhood sexual trauma and various forms of psychosomatic disorders in relation to that for many years, I never really knew what safe and authentic connection felt like. Luckily, with the help of meditation, circling, psychedelics, and authentic-relating community, I have walked through the valley of my own shadow, and discovered my gift in connecting with my own power, with my loved ones, with nature, and with spirituality (in its broadest sense)." ~ 

Like other episodes in our love and sex around the world series, the chat starts with some of the values learned from family and school, cultural strengths, and the challenges of equality, safety, and freedom/pleasure. But then Jingshu takes us deep into finding out what's possible with your gifts in life, mind-body-spirit speed-healing, and her amazing modeling of authentic relating. Thank you Jingshu for sharing the benefits of all you have integrated from within and from so many other valuable places. It's a breath of fresh air, a real alternative to the world of taboos, shoulds, and other limitations we learn. ~ 

Comments on this podcast and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to [email protected]. Thanks for listening. ~

Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.

Can you have a relationship that constantly renews itself with exciting energy of discovery, or are relationships doomed to honeymoon, flatten out, and die or else become living dead negotiated tolerance? Is it just one hot new move that's needed, or a whole change of attitude? ~

These are some of the great questions we'll start listening to here, and let the answers come from... you! (with a few practical suggestions here from me too) Because everyone has within them a world to discover, and hopefully the person we're in relationship with - whatever kind of relationship - we are with not just for convenience or because we have some idea of who we want them to be, but because we love them! we see them, we want to discover them even as they change, and we do that for ourselves too, and they do that for us. ~

It's a simple magic formula that I guarantee you costs nothing and requires no expert other than yourself and them, and can work forever. But, it requires us to be honest, and very open to life. And, it perfectly coexists with the very important healthy narrowings down we have to comfortable routines, a good groove in lovemaking, and elsewhere in the relationship, so we have energy and focus for elsewhere in our lives too. ~

Comments on this podcast and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to [email protected]. Thanks for listening. ~

Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.

How to constantly renew ourselves and our relationships could fill a whole year of podcasts. ~ 

Last episode I introduced the idea of staying inspired by 3 evolving paths at the same time: yours, theirs, and the relationship's, even sourcing great juiciness and longevity from some of our most vulnerable experiences and feelings, while enjoying the relationship as a blessed opportunity to discover life itself. ~ 

This time I start with some of the more so-called superficial things we do, and why they're equally helpful - a new look, a vacation, new activities, and yes new positions meaning new ways of discovering and lavishing each other's bodies. And I follow it back to the fundamental of you and them as sacred beings, social, natural, with so much to discover, bit by bit, as life allows, as we make room for what really matters to us. ~ 

Again this is by no means an expert opinion, it is just a few ideas and heaps of encouragement for the amazing person you already are. ~ 

Comments on this podcast and suggestions for future episodes? Send a message to [email protected]. Thanks for listening. ~

Thanks to Jette Weiss for the cover art and Youssoupha Sidibe for the music, used under license.