If you want to have great sex in midlife but feel like your relationship is lacking the lust and passion it used to have in your 20s, maybe it's because you're compromising. The first time I heard Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD say,
"if you want to have a bland, passion-less, companionship with your partner, compromise," I thought, wait, what? That's what I've heard all my life...
a successful marriage is based on compromise. And while that may be true, it says nothing about having a successful AND passionate marriage or partnership that includes great sex. We're rounding out season 2 of the Savor Food and Body Podcast with the first (of hopefully many) conversations about sex, intimacy, body image, and intimate relationships. My guest, known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy” and host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast.
For over 20 years she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life-- from the daily grind of running a household to intimate communication and ecstatic experiences in the bedroom.
A wife of 26 years and a mother of 4, Dr. Alexandra believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success, isn’t compromise--it’s being unwilling to compromise. Because when both people feel free to be themselves, the relationship becomes juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.
Dr. Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, USAToday, Cosmopolitan, Business Insider, thrive global, mind body green, FOX NEWS NYC, and Disruptors Magazine recently named her one of “30 Inspiring Women to Watch in 2022."
Our juicy conversation includes...
- How Dr. Alexandra went from a thriving medical practice to becoming the "intimacy doctor" and relationship coach.
- What are the biggest challenges her clients face when it comes to emotional intimacy in midlife?
- How the relationships we have with our bodies impact our intimate relationships? And what suggestions Dr. Alexandra has for women in midlife who struggle with negative body image in the bedroom?
- Finally, Dr. Alexandra shares what long-term couples can do to cultivate more curiosity in their intimate relationship during midlife and beyond.
Whether you've been in your marriage for decades, a few years, or haven't found the right person to spend the rest of your life with yet, this episode will put savoring your body into a whole new perspective.
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