If you didn’t know the ‘right way’ to do it, what would be YOUR way?

This week we unpacked the conversation around doing things your way, whether it be in business, relationships, health, friendships...whatever it is you’re called to impact in your life.

So often we can become stopped by the idea of how it ‘has to be’ that we disconnect from the inner knowing of how WE would uniquely do it.

The power of shifting and knowing there is no right way and you get to make it up is that you build the muscle of trust with yourself and equally create a life that truly feels lit up for you.

Let’s dive in sister x

If you’d love to get access to the free training mentioned in this episode, go to www.souldriven.biz/free

ABOUT LEAD IT SISTER
I’m your host, Lauren Darlington, a Woman devoted to sharing her experiences and her life with Women to remind them that their past is never a life sentence.

I ADORE all things inner leadership, business, creating the lives we want, and the juicy conversations that actually make the difference.

I’ve come from a ‘not so shiny’ past, and share it so you truly get how much where we’ve come from does not determine where we’re going. To find out more about where I’ve come from, head to my Instagram (shared below) and click on the ‘my story’ highlight reel.

I see you Sister, and we both know you’re here for more.

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“Who am I to?” is something I hear ALOT from Women who are leaning into creating something for themselves and...I GET IT. I still have it come up regularly, on loudspeaker.

The truth is, this ‘stuff’ doesn’t go away. 

The self-doubt, the fear, the questioning..it’s what makes us human. And leading our lives doesn’t come when that is absent, it comes with doing the things regardless. 

In this conversation, we unpack the messiness of leadership, aka the ‘real shit’ that happens when we’re being at cause in our lives and creating new futures for ourselves and those in our world. 

Raw, unplanned, and totally unfiltered, as always. 

If you’d love to get access to the free training mentioned in this episode, go to www.souldriven.biz/free 

ABOUT LEAD IT SISTER

I’m your host, Lauren Darlington, a Woman devoted to sharing her experiences and her life with Women to remind them that their past is never a life sentence.

I ADORE all things inner leadership, business, creating the lives we want, and the juicy conversations that actually make the difference.

I’ve come from a ‘not so shiny’ past, and share it so you truly get how much where we’ve come from does not determine where we’re going. To find out more about where I’ve come from, head to my Instagram (shared below) and click on the ‘my story’ highlight reel.

I see you Sister, and we both know you’re here for more. 

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If an idea is for you it comes with the ENERGY required to create it.

In this conversation, I unpack the difference between an idea coming THROUGH you (and therefore you feel it, and there is energy with it) versus ‘taking on’ an idea from a space of should...and the impact of both. 

I’ve realised recently how much it matters that our ideas are ours, and HOW we know they are. How if there is no energy behind an idea, there isn’t what’s created to create it. It just becomes something we ‘should do’

This conversation could be a massive ‘opener’ for you in your creativity and TRUSTING yourself and when you do feel called towards something. 

ABOUT LEAD IT SISTER

I’m your host, Lauren Darlington, a Woman devoted to sharing her experiences and her life with Women to remind them that their past is never a life sentence.

I ADORE all things inner leadership, business, creating the lives we want, and the juicy conversations that actually make the difference.

I’ve come from a ‘not so shiny’ past, and share it so you truly get how much where we’ve come from does not determine where we’re going. To find out more about where I’ve come from, head to my Instagram (shared below) and click on the ‘my story’ highlight reel.

I see you Sister, and we both know you’re here for more. 

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The conversation of ‘life purpose’ and ‘what I’m here for’ is a big one and it can come with a cost. If we’re more focussed on what the ‘big thing’ is, and not on where we are being called to go next, we can miss the opportunities that are right in front of us.⁣

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OR we can feel so far from ‘the big thing’ that we’re more focussed on how far we have to go, versus taking the very next step. ⁣

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When we follow the nudge and trust the opportunities that arise (even if they aren’t ‘the thing’) a new path forms and breadcrumbs appear that when we look back, lead us EXACTLY where we needed to go to create what we desire.⁣

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In this episode, I open up the conversation around trusting the opportunities and how they are what create what’s next.⁣

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Leadership ISN'T something to obtain from someone outside of you ... and while it is, you’re outsourcing your POWER.

Leadership is a way of BEING, a CHOICE

Tune into this week's episode for a raw, real conversation on LEADERSHIP and the HUUUGGGEEE impact shifting into this way of being has for yourself across ALL areas of your life.


ABOUT LEAD IT SISTER

I’m your host, Lauren Darlington, a Woman devoted to sharing her experiences and her life with Women to remind them that their past is never a life sentence.

I ADORE all things inner leadership, business, creating the lives we want, and the juicy conversations that actually make the difference.

To find out more about me go to my Instagram below and the ‘my story’ highlight reel

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So you're REALLY going after that thing, that big vision, that idea that nudged you and you said a big YES to You're taking aligned action. You're showing the eff up You're doing the damn thing then.... you hit a world of self-doubt, nothing is working 'fast enough' you're questioning if you can even do this, you want to give up and abandon the whole vision. Welcome to the trenches babe. In this week's episode, I share with you (FROM the trenches) how to powerfully move through these when you're really going after something because the truth is? this part never goes away but you can shift how you move through them. Oh and p.s you've totally got this x 

ABOUT CREATE IT SISTER

Create It Sister is a space for the conversations you're wanting to have in the world. Your host Lauren Darlington goes IN + busts up the ideas on who we think we should be, shines a light on things you may not be seeing + stands WITH you in the shame that comes up in being a Woman in the world.

Each week Lauren lands in your ears with episodes that ignite YOUR voice, truth + fire in the world so you go out and CREATE IT SISTER + live the life you're truly wanting. Everything from the relationship with yourself, sex, shame, womanhood, creating your life, full expression, confidence + everything in between. No topic is off-limits, EVERYTHING is raw + unfiltered + we have some increddd guests join us too.

Lauren is an IN-powerment coach, a voice, a speaker, a conversation starter committed to reminding Women of their own power + reclaiming who they are. Coming from rock bottoms like suicide attempts, prostitution, self harm to reclaiming her power IN her pain and supporting, reminding and standing for Women to do the same.

Connect with her at:
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Whether you're feeling stuck 'in the face of' your vision OR you're feeling like nothing ever lands for you on what to create or do next, this conversation will crack open how to say YES to lead to MORE when it comes to creating the life (and business) you want. TRAIN yourself to become the kind of person who SEES opportunity by saying YES. 

ABOUT CREATEIT SISTER

Create It Sister is a space for the conversations you're wanting to have in the world. Your host Lauren Darlington goes IN + busts up the ideas on who we think we should be, shines a light on things you may not be seeing + stands WITH you in the shame that comes up in being a Woman in the world.

Each week Lauren lands in your ears with episodes that ignite YOUR voice, truth + fire in the world so you go out and CREATE IT SISTER + live the life you're truly wanting. Everything from the relationship with yourself, sex, shame, womanhood, creating your life, full expression, confidence + everything in between. No topic is off-limits, EVERYTHING is raw + unfiltered + we have some increddd guests join us too.

Lauren is an IN-powerment coach, a voice, a speaker, a conversation starter committed to reminding Women of their own power + reclaiming who they are. Coming from rock bottoms like suicide attempts, prostitution, self harm to reclaiming her power IN her pain and supporting, reminding and standing for Women to do the same.

Connect with her at:
Instagram

In this week's episode of Create It Sister, a Say It Sister series, join me; your host Lauren Darlington, in a TANGIBLE conversation to help you start MASSIVELY freeing yourself up in your business and moving your visions forward. Whether you've got an online business and are ready to hire support (or have support but don't yet know how to maximise it), have an online business but aren't yet ready to hire support OR don't yet have an online business but desire too...there's something in this episode for you.

• How to start delegating 
• How to continue to free yourself up  How to focus on what you'd love to do, but don't have time for 
• How to put ACTION STEPS in place to move your visions forward PLUS powerful (and ultra simple) exercises to help you implement this today

Go to www.thevirtualpillar.com/delegate for your two free resources mentioned on this week's episode. Join me over on Instagram at @lauren.darlington and @thevirtualpillar.com

ABOUT CREATE IT SISTER

Create It Sister is a space for the conversations you're wanting to have in the world. Your host Lauren Darlington goes IN + busts up the ideas on who we think we should be, shines a light on things you may not be seeing + stands WITH you in the shame that comes up in being a Woman in the world.

Each week Lauren lands in your ears with episodes that ignite YOUR voice, truth + fire in the world so you go out and CREATE IT SISTER + live the life you're truly wanting. Everything from the relationship with yourself, sex, shame, womanhood, creating your life, full expression, confidence + everything in between. No topic is off-limits, EVERYTHING is raw + unfiltered + we have some increddd guests join us too.

Lauren is an IN-powerment coach, a voice, a speaker, a conversation starter committed to reminding Women of their own power + reclaiming who they are. Coming from rock bottoms like suicide attempts, prostitution, self harm to reclaiming her power IN her pain and supporting, reminding and standing for Women to do the same.

Connect with her at:
Instagram

Join me, your host; sister and online biz bestie, for episode ONE of season TWO of the Say It Sister podcast...CREATE IT SISTER! In this episode, we dive into how to pivot in your business while PLAYING inside of your strengths. Think real-life examples of how pivoting and following the nudges leads to huge gifts you couldn't see before, potent questions to crack you wider into exploring possibilities you may not be seeing and calls forth to taking action on those things you've got sitting on the shelf. Let's create it sister! -+-+-+-+-+-

ABOUT CREATE IT SISTER

Create It Sister is a space for the conversations you're wanting to have in the world. Your host Lauren Darlington goes IN + busts up the ideas on who we think we should be, shines a light on things you may not be seeing + stands WITH you in the shame that comes up in being a Woman in the world.

Each week Lauren lands in your ears with episodes that ignite YOUR voice, truth + fire in the world so you go out and CREATE IT SISTER + live the life you're truly wanting. Everything from the relationship with yourself, sex, shame, womanhood, creating your life, full expression, confidence + everything in between. No topic is off-limits, EVERYTHING is raw + unfiltered + we have some increddd guests join us too.

Lauren is an IN-powerment coach, a voice, a speaker, a conversation starter committed to reminding Women of their own power + reclaiming who they are. Coming from rock bottoms like suicide attempts, prostitution, self harm to reclaiming her power IN her pain and supporting, reminding and standing for Women to do the same.

Connect with her at:
Instagram

Firstly, I want you to know I'm here for you Sis. It's a weird time we're all navigating. Secondly, I wanted to create an episode which supported you in TANGIBLY pivoting and navigating inside of your business right now...(regardless of whether you have a business or not this episode will support you in some capacity) Listen in to hear some tangible things you can consider right now to shift in your business to thrive during this time, OR perhaps shift into an online business!-+-+-+-+-+- 

ABOUT SAY IT SISTER

Say It Sister is a space for the conversations you're wanting to have in the world. Your host Lauren Darlington goes IN + busts up the ideas on who we think we should be, shines a light on things you may not be seeing + stands WITH you in the shame that comes up in being a Woman in the world.

Each week Lauren lands in your ears with episodes that ignite YOUR voice, truth + fire in the world so you go out and SAY IT SISTER + live the life you're truly wanting. Everything from the relationship with yourself, sex, shame, womanhood, creating your life, full expression, confidence + everything in between. No topic is off-limits, EVERYTHING is raw + unfiltered + we have some increddd guests join us too.

Lauren is an IN-powerment coach, a voice, a speaker, a conversation starter committed to reminding Women of their own power + reclaiming who they are. Coming from rock bottoms like suicide attempts, prostitution, self harm to reclaiming her power IN her pain and supporting, reminding and standing for Women to do the same.

Connect with her at:
Instagram