Scared 20 Something In A Closet

Hey everyone! It’s been a minute—five months, actually.

I’ve really missed our chats and I’m stoked to catch you all up on what’s been going on.

A lot’s changed since we last talked, and I think you’ll want to hear about it.

In today’s episode, we’re going to unpack a whirlwind year of life after graduation.

I’ll talk about battling imposter syndrome, diving into a new job, and randomly, jumping out a plane.

We’ll also get into how my outlook on life has shifted, learning to let go of fear and judgment and living more in the present.

I’ve met some people who’ve left a big mark on me, even if they didn’t stick around for long, and I’ve started focusing more on what it means to build a community and empower others.

It’s been a journey of growth, and I’m excited to share it with you.

So, pull up a chair, grab your bev, and let’s catch up.

I can’t wait to get back into our conversations and hear what you’ve been up to as well.

Here’s to more episodes together, and continuing to navigate this crazy, exciting time of our lives.

in this episode i discuss my path to finding strength and confidence. plus i tell you all about my adventures on a farm lol. living my simple life fantasy.

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remember when i said i was back in the last episode? lol. but this time i'm back for real! in this episode i discuss my current likes and dislikes since it's been a minute and my experience with ketamine therapy. take a listen!

i do not condone the use of illicit drugs and am in no way encouraging listeners to receive treatment in this way.

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i'm back! sorry for being MIA but life was lifeing. in this episode i discuss the reason behind the new closet location and how my life has drastically changed in the span of a week. i'm also talking about the importance of embracing seasons of change or new chapters and how it actually gives us something to look foward to.

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in this episode i discuss closure when it comes to romantic relationships. piggy backing off of this week's earlier episode, i discuss my opinions on closure and when i think it may be appropriate. i acknowledge that the process of getting/needer closure is different for everyone so i'd love to hear your opinions on it. but remember, if they don't treat you well and you're craving their attention...DON'T TXT THEM!

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in this episode i discuss my current relationship and what i have learned through it. i also discuss what i've learned from previous relationships and situationships 😬. i've had to come to terms with a lot in terms of my romantic relationships and i've seen a lot of self-growth. i'm interested to hear what you all may have learned from current or past relationships. could be romantic or otherwise.

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in this episode i discuss my relationship with spirituality and my new journey with tarot cards. as i get older, i find myself wanting to create a belief system for myself. maybe it's comfort in knowing that i'm not alone in the grander sense, or it might just be another way for me to find a larger community. i talk about what aligns with me currently and my thoughts on using abstract concepts as a way to relate to my current reality. i would love if other's shared their experiences with their own belief systems whether it be religion or spirituality.

don't forget to follow and rate the pod! plus send me a message over email; let's figure this shit out together. find me online @:

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in this episode i discuss my relationship with money including financial anxiety, spending habits, and my love for eating out. doordash is my enemy and i truly don't know how i'm going to pay my rent this month. i need advice more than anything else. do you have any money-saving tips, useful financial apps, or insight into how to develop healthier financial habits? send help.

don't forget to follow and rate the pod! plus send me a message over email; let's figure this shit out together. find me online @:

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Email: [email protected]

sorry for the late episode, iphone please give me more storage challenge!

in this episode i discuss my journey with sexuality, how i identify now, and how i feel about the current stance on sexuality. i'm very proud to be a part of the LGBTQ+ community and have so much admiration for those who continue to fight to be who they are every day, you are loved, seen, heard, and fucking amazing!!!

don't forget to follow and rate the pod! plus send me a message over email; let's figure shit out together. find me online @:

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LGBTQ+ Resources 🏳️‍🌈:

GLAAD Resource List

The Trevor Project

Offers help through text messages and phone calls. Also provides additional information on stats on the LGBTQ+ community.

Human Rights Campaign

A list of direct online and phone support services for LGBTQ+ youth

🛑 TW: disordered eating, body dysmorphia, body image

if these are topics that may make you feel uncomfortable or trigger you in any way, please do not listen to this episode

in this episode i discuss my journey with my body and food. i'm currently struggling with some aspects of my body and the way i choose to cope with it. however, as i get older, i learn how to handle these challenges in a healthier way and learn from the bad days.

don't forget to follow and rate the pod! plus send me a message over email; let's figure shit out together. find me online @:

Instagram: @scared20something

TikTok: @scared20something

YouTube: @scared20something

Email: [email protected]

Eating Disorder Resources:

National Eating Disorders Association

Offers online chat and text messages for support, resources, and treatment options

If you are in a crisis and need help immediately, text “NEDA” to 741741

National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders

Offers free, peer support services, helpline, and more