SCHITT AINT THE SAME

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, we sit down with R&B singer Monifah for an unfiltered conversation about her journey through love, family, fame, and recovery. From her breakout success in the ’90s music scene to navigating the pressures of the industry, Monifah opens up about the highs and lows that shaped her life and career.

We explore how love—romantic, familial, and self-love—has played a central role in her healing. Monifah also shares her experience with addiction, her path to sobriety, and what it means to truly reclaim her voice, both as an artist and a woman.

Topics We Cover:

• Monifah’s rise in the music industry
• The pressures of fame and identity
• Love, relationships, and personal growth
• Family, legacy, and reconnection
• Her battle with addiction and the road to recovery
• Finding purpose and peace through music and community

Quotes to Remember:

“I had to lose everything to find out what really matters.”

“Love doesn’t always look like what we expect—but it’s always the answer.”

#Monifah #Podcast #Recovery #MusicIndustry #Love #Family #Healing #Sobriety #WomenInMusic

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In today’s episode, 9 sat down with the incredible Keertana — a talented writer, artist, filmmaker, and English teacher. Keertana’s journey is nothing short of remarkable. At just 15 years old, she found herself attending the Toronto Film Festival, navigating a world typically reserved for much older creators — even entering the event registered as a 35-year-old white man!

Beyond filmmaking, Keertana also runs her own magazine, showcasing her creative voice and leadership. Despite facing challenges such as memory loss, her resilience and brilliance continue to shine through every project she touches.

Keertana is truly a bright young star with a future full of possibilities.

I pray that her story inspires you as deeply as it inspired me.

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Guest: Ish from The Joe Budden Podcas

This week on Schitt Ain’t The Same, I’m joined by none other than Ish from The Joe Budden Podcast—and we’re diving into a real one.

We’re talking investing, relationships, and what it looks like when men drop the surface talk and actually open up. Ish brings that grown-man energy and thoughtful perspective that always makes for a dope convo.

We get into:

• How women view financial security vs. financial freedom

• Dating while building wealth (and peace)

• How is he your man , and you haven’t seen how he lives 

• The evolving expectations in modern relationships

• And a few gems you probably weren’t ready for

It’s unfiltered, insightful, and full of those moments where you pause and go, “Damn… that’s facts.”

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It’s always a pleasure talking to Taliah Karim about Real Estate.

Whether it’s the right time for you to buy a house depends on a few key factors:

1. Your Financial Readiness

• Emergency Savings: 

• Debt-to-Income Ratio (DTI)

2. Your Credit Score (700)

3. Market Conditions

• Interest Rates: 

• Housing Prices

4. Your Personal Situation

• Do you plan to stay in the home 

If you’re set on buying soon, you might consider:

• Looking into first-time homebuyer programs (some offer down payment assistance).

• Exploring FHA or other low-down-payment loan options.

• Continuing to save while monitoring the market for better conditions.

Taliah Karim

Broker | Owner

TK Real Estate Group Inc

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I pray that this episode help women to understand you are not alone !! This happens to more women than we care to admit, most of us just don’t share because of embarrassment. I want to say ,this guy has  FUCKED WITH THE WRONG BITCH !! (@JenniferLewis)

It is deeply disheartening to acknowledge that even in 2025, financial exploitation within relationships remains a significant concern. Research indicates that between 94% and 99% of women in abusive relationships have experienced some form of financial abuse. A survey found that nearly 22% of individuals have experienced financial abuse in a past relationship  . Men are more likely than women to commit financial deception, with 47% of men admitting to such behavior compared to 39% of women  . These statistics highlight the pervasive issue of financial exploitation in relationships, underscoring the need for increased awareness and preventive measures.

Make sure you take note of the strategy listed at the end ! It will save you a lot of money and heartache 

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VENUS VS MARS
MEN ARE BOXES AND WOMEN ARE WIRES!! 
MEN CAN COMPARTMENTALIZE AND WOMEN WANT THINGS TO CONNECT . 

SO I HAD TO HAVE THIS CONVERSATION WITH A FEW FRIENDS THAT COULD HELP ME UNPACK THIS ANALOGY!!

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Jawara Wauchope, known professionally as Jawara, is a highly sought-after editorial and celebrity hairstylist with a distinctive, artistic approach to hair. He has Jamaican background,Jawara moved abroad to pursue his passion for hairstyling, building an impressive career in the world of fashion and beauty. His work spans across high-fashion runway shows, magazine covers, and red carpet styling for top celebrities, including Solange  and Beyonce.

Jawara honed his craft over eight years at Salon 804 in Harlem, an experience that shaped his expertise before he broke into the editorial world. His avant-garde, sculptural, and often culturally inspired hairstyles have made him a favorite among designers, photographers, and fashion publications. He has contributed to major fashion houses and leading magazines, cementing his reputation as a visionary in the industry.

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As a parent we are always thinking about how much influence kids should have over big life decisions, like going to college or choosing a career. It’s definitely important to listen to them—kids often have a strong sense of what excites or motivates them. But it can be tricky balancing their passions with practical advice about the future.

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Michelle Smalls is an incredible entrepreneur and community leader! It’s inspiring to see someone managing multiple businesses—real estate and salon ownership—while making a positive impact in her community. Her generosity and selflessness clearly set her apart as a role model.

If you’re looking to support her and learn from her journey, purchasing her book is a fantastic way to do so. I will Drop the Amazon links here, and make you help spread the word!

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https://www.amazon.com/Control-Your-Emotions-They-Will/dp/B0C9KTQNVS

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It was a pleasure to have a conversation with Bevy Smith. It is always enlightening to hear about the victories and challenges, people face. Bevy shared openly about her past experiences and her future aspirations. I pray that we all benefit from the wisdom in her book, “Bevelations :Lessons from a Mutha,Auntie, Bestie.”

I READ THIS BOOk 3 times,YES IT WAS THAT GOOD !! 

The key take away for me  is ,Success may come later in life! JUST HANG IN THERE!!

In Bevy  words!!

“IT GETS GREATER LATER”

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