Irrespective of any issue that comes up within your circles,the ability of one to be incontrol of self,not to overreact or even loose it but rather stay calm and in control of his or her emotions allows them to steer the whole situation devoid of anger or any emotion that might affect the situation.

1. Why did you meet them or them you.

2. What you are doing(improved each other.

3. When the season(a break,a break up, or a done deal and you remain in touch but not as before)

Complaining, comparing, and carping are things that steal our joy,we need to watch these 3 and we shall get to enjoy what we have right before us!

Being able to truly start a growth process beyond: delayed debts,issues,or even people who have hurt us,it's a first step to think of the delay it causes and the need to let it,them,those go...

When we reach out and the other parties are not willing or responding to it:one day, it will come to an end, and there will be no more of the reach out or meet up!

It's the number of times we have made promises to people only not to fulfil them.Making them stay,wait,be glad to be, and even camp on our side only for one not to come through,making them end in hurt,pain and confusion only because we lied from the beginning or did not speak the truth as it is,or even were excited at the moment.

The ability to pour into any form of relationship what we want back so as to help it grow!

Everything has a time/period set for it (scheduled), and it is always for a reason(appointment).. if we all do understand this,then our need to complain or wallow in a particular thing will easily come to an end.

When we do have conversations,what is the intention behind it? What is the take away? How does it I.pact or leave us as participants.We thought it wise not to always be casual about it,but rather be intetional of the extract of the moment shared.

They are always used as a dip-stick to our human relations.and why not learn more about ourselves to improve our own characters!