It's always an annual decision when the year begins.It's about the relationships that we have formed over years.and in this, we are sometimes avoiding the issue and playing victim even if we are the course! What if we rethink how to do it.

You have to constantly be cognisant of where you stand in the tea set.cups will wait to be poured in to same as the tea pot needs to be refilled constantly so that it can pour!any residue or remains in the tea pot is always considered garbage.

The ability to be sensitive to the ones we offended,it needs to be a process to apologize and let the matter cool down literally.A chip of trust has left the offended:there's need to work it back,so if we realy want it to get better then we let the person heal and go back,even if it means space and little communication with respect to their healing.it might call for one even to avoid normalcy (jokes,calls,randomness...) just allow them come back to your former camaraderie.

This is a successive process of learning about a situation in our relationships:

Love

Hurt

Forgive

Learn

This is the habit showing off,yet there's work to be done for self,not for people.Mostly in matters/things that are constructive.The lack of personal accountability makes us be in more hurry to show others(what we are made of),yet there's work to be done for objective results and mostly it's personal.

These are things that people don't talk about or engage a lot in because they are important yet sensitive to each person.It's always a process, and pretence has made them manoeuvre conversations:smiling,grinning make a light comment but yet inside they are realy struggling,in their privacy they cry,and in their spaces they are 'choking' sometimes even 'drowning' in the thoughts.thus the unsaid.

When you actually believe in that which you re doing in a group activity,the best way to get assistance,correction, and even change,one has to come out loud(self believe).killing doubt and delay.It is only Farr that one comes out of their fears and second guessing ti a place where you can spotted and assisted for the better!

Shame can be a chain,it holds you back from exploring and puts you in a cocoon:it makes you stay somewhere for long because of the unexpected,but just if we jump beyond the invisible line,we discover more about self and delay we had before!

This episode is about bringing down our idea of help: the anger that it might provoke,the entitlement that it Instigates,the disappointments that we face if not given to us, and also the idea that its a compulsory thing to be done to us!

This is the ability for one to prepare for any possible outcome on our daily journeys!