Schoolin Life Podcast

On this week’s episode, Ashley and Marcy talk sexuality. Sexuality is defined as one’s capacity for sexual feels toward another; basically your sexuality defines who you’re attracted to sexually and romantically. These days it’s a cute quip to say “sexuality is fluid,” but what does that mean for two self-identified straight women. How do the way we were raised, our faith, and our encounters with past partners impact how we define ourselves sexually. Join Ashley and Marcy as we dive into the rigid walls of straightness and explore if it’s time for us to loosen up.

Substitute: Minda Honey, Author, Writer Instructor Creative Consultant

Connect with Minda on social @MindaHoney

Read her latest Semi Fluid State:The rigged lines of sexuality

https://longreads.com/2018/08/24/the-rigid-line-of-straightness/

All Black Everything: HBCU Homecoming Recap

TV: Rel on Fox

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On this week’s episode Marcy and Ashley talk preconceived notions, judging a book by its cover, and fair warnings. People say that when you first meet someone, you’re not meeting them but you’re meeting their “representative.” Very few of us really put our genuine selves out there for the world to see. Instead we slowly expose our real selves, our flaws, and everything we keep behind our masks. But if we were to tell the truth, how would people see us? If we came with a warning label, what would it say about us, and how would others respond to us based on that? Listen as we explore our own warning labels, the traits that we hide, and whether we should be more transparent and just provide people with proper warning.

 

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All Black Everything: Building Black Community at Work 

 

TV: New Amsterdam on NBC

  Catch Schoolin Life Out & About   Join Ashley on Facebook Live for Black Grl Boss Networking Session "Developing and Leveraging Your Network to Grow Your Small Business"
October 23rd 7:00pm Simply, click https://www.facebook.com/blackgrlboss/ and join the group and the conversation. If you're a black female entrepreneur you don't want to miss out!   Join Ashley at Howard's Homecoming 

October 27 in Washington D.C.

It’s homecoming season and there is no better place to celebrate than Howard. Join me, Diplomatic Enterprises, and Howard University School of Law’s Class of 2008 for a grown-up’s party including all of our favorite jams from the 1999-2000’s. HBCU homecoming events are not to be missed (even if you didn’t go to the school and are perpetrating like me), so get your ticket today. I’ll meet you on the dance floor. Also we’ve got the hookup get $15 off your ticket with code “SchoolinLifeHU”
  Join Marcy at Party with a Purpose: Spelman Alumnae Tailgate Experience
12 - 6 p.m. Check in for Homecoming 2018 at the Welcome Home Alumnae Check-In Tent where you will receive a signature souvenir (while supplies last), can make your annual gift  to Spekman, and capture Homecoming 2018 at our photo booth. Reconnect, relax, and dance with your sisters in the Alumnae Networking Lounge. You also have the option to purchase a southern BBQ spread. Only $15 for adults and $5 for children 10 and under. Limited tickets available on site. 
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On this week’s episode Marcy and Ashley talk upgrading. Self improvement is a way of life for many of us as we constantly strive to advance, level up, and grow personally and professionally. But is this culture full of motivational quotes, self help resources, and quips becoming more overwhelming than actually inspiring? Surrounding ourselves with personal improvement guides and mantras can become the goal, instead of the doing the work to improve or taking the responsibility to practice and apply the lessons. Join us as we talk about upgrading ourselves, our partners, and our lifestyles in a raw, real, and authentic way. We talk what’s worked, what hasn’t, and how you can upgrade too.

 

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All Black Everything: Black Card Revoked  

 

TV: Interracial Relationships: Superstore and 911 

  Join Ashley at Howard's Homecoming 

October 27 in Washington D.C.

It’s homecoming season and there is no better place to celebrate than Howard. Join me, Diplomatic Enterprises, and Howard University School of Law’s Class of 2008 for a grown-up’s party including all of our favorite jams from the 1999-2000’s. HBCU homecoming events are not to be missed (even if you didn’t go to the school and are perpetrating like me), so get your ticket today. I’ll meet you on the dance floor. Also we’ve got the hookup get $15 off your ticket with code “SchoolinLifeHU”
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On this week's episode Marcy and Ashley talk mentorship. Personal and professional development don’t usually occur in isolation. They require resources, feedback, and instruction, which is why having a mentor is critical. But finding someone you can connect with, who has the necessary expertise, and most importantly, has the time to mentor, is a daunting task. Once you find that person, you have to be ready to answer their tough questions such as ‘what do you want out of this relationship, how can I help you reach your goals, and what's in it for me?’ In this episode you’ll  hear from Marcy and Ashley both long time mentors (and mentees) about the importance of mentoring, finding a good match, and nurturing the relationship so that you both get the most out of it.

 

All Black Everything: Mental Health Referrals  

 

TV: Female comedians: Awkwafina, Natasha Rothwell, Ali Wong 

  Join Ashley at Howard's Homecoming 

October 27 in Washington DC D.C.

It’s homecoming season and there is no better place to celebrate than Howard. Join me, Diplomatic Enterprises, and Howard University School of Law’s Class of 2008 for a grown-up’s party including all of our favorite jams from the 1999-2000’s. HBCU homecoming events are not to be missed (even if you didn’t go to the school and are perpetrating like me), so get your ticket today. I’ll meet you on the dance floor. Also we’ve got the hookup get $15 off your ticket with code “SchoolinLifeHU”
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Email us: [email protected]   Subscribe to the Schoolin Life Newsletter    AD:   Ready to launch, grow, or protect your Small Business? Let DE help! To find out more about how they can help you with your Small Business, Branding, or Legal needs, visit www.DiplomaticEnterprises.com to schedule your free consultation today.

On this week's episode Marcy and Ashley talk bougie behavior. Both of us have been accused of being a little bougie; maybe it's the Ph.D.'s, or maybe the Pink and Green, or it could be the confidence we exude when we walk into a room. Regardless of the reasons, on this week’s episode we explore our behaviors, what they say about our views on class, race and feminist ideals, and how we manage these bougie, learned behaviors to create inclusive communities.

 

It Aint None of My Business: Over Only One #overonlyone

 

All Black Everything: Breast Cancer Awareness Month  

 

TV: Tokyo Vanity Love and Hip Hop Atlanta 

  Join Ashley and Marcy: A Pod Connection ATL   October 6th    Get your tickets today!    Follow us on Social: Facebook, Twitter & Instagram @schoolinlifepod 

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On this week's episode Ashley and and substitutes Kisha and Dani talk implicit bias. We all have a tendency to allow stereotype-confirming thoughts to pass spontaneously through our minds, and doing so is called implicit bias. It’s what tells us to run when we’re being chased or to swallow when we have something in our mouth. In harmless situations, this bias can be positive; however, when it comes to racism, sexism, classism, ableism, anti-Semitism, ageism and heterosexism, those involuntary conclusions or overgeneralizations can lead to discrimination. If you've ever found yourself leading a group toward the stairs, without considering everyone’s mobility or if you've disregarded a teenager’s opinion before hearing their legitimate answer, then like us, you’ve been guilty and this episode is for you. Listen as we discuss the power and privilege of bias and how we're fighting to rid ourselves and the world of these harmful behaviors.

 

Learn more about Dani’s work:everyvoicelifted.com

Take the Implicit Bias Test:https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/

Watch video about Implicit Bias: https://youtu.be/hDd3bzA7450

 

 

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On this week's episode Ashley and Marcy talk birth control. The time came when I knew I wanted to have sex. I also knew I couldn't tell my momma. So at the age of fifteen, I had to figure out how to prepare, all on my own. Like any naturally-curious child pre-internet, I asked my big cousin and she told me to go to Planned Parenthood. Before I knew it, I had a patch, condoms, and the freedom to do the momentous thing that I totally wasn't ready for.

Listen in as we discuss the birth control conversation—held either with the voice in our head, a confidant, or a partner—that every woman has had at some point in her life and that we continuously have to decide what is best for ourselves. Whether it’s a patch, a pill, or pulling out, we've all got to decide on a plan for how and when we choose control or birth.

 

Substitute: Taja Fox, Founder Bliss Women Magazine

 

It Aint None of My Business: "Kids Don't Damage Women's Careers, Men Do"

 

All Black Everything: Sterling K. Brown 

 

Fall TV Preview 

 

Upcoming Schoolin Life Event!   Join Ashley for an exclusive, in-store event sponsored by our friends at Ann Taylor LOFT. We'll share drinks, hors d'oeuvres, and discussions about how leveling up our look can impact us personally and professionally.   Level Up Your Look Sunday, September 30 6:30–9:00 p.m.   Get your ticket today: schoolinlifepod.com   A Pod Connection ATL   October 6th    Get your tickets today!    Boonie Breakdown Ticket Giveaway   Thank you to everyone who participated! Our winner is @monib_gr8 on Instagram! Congratulations! 
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On this week’s episode Marcy and Ashley discuss life’s turning points, what they’ve learned and if hindsight is really 20/20. We all have those moments in our lives. Those critical, pivotal moments that seemingly define how we move forward. Maybe it’s that motivating teacher that showed us extra attention, told us we were smart and really caused us to consider college or maybe that fight with an ex where we realized that it was time to break it off.   Turning points are rarely planned and we often don’t see them coming, but they alter our life’s course sometimes for better or maybe for worse. Join Ashley and Marcy in a moment of reflection as we discuss pivotal points in life and love.   All Black Everything: Dear White People on Netflix   TV: Queen Sugar on OWN   Upcoming Schoolin Life Meet Up!   Join Ashley for an exclusive, in-store event sponsored by our friends at Ann Taylor LOFT. We'll share drinks, hors d'oeuvres, and discussions about how leveling up our look can impact us personally and professionally.   Level Up Your Look Sunday, September 30 6:30–9:00 p.m.   Get your ticket today: schoolinlifepod.ticketleap.com   Follow us on Social: Facebook, Twitter & Instagram @schoolinlifepod 

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On this bonus episode Ashley and Keila Hill-Trawick of Little Fish Accounting, talk online dating, faith, and winning while being yourself. At the prompting of a friend in 2016, Keila downloaded Tinder despite her apprehensions that it wouldn't be right for her. That same friend was her wedding officiant one year later when she married Jamal, who she met after swiping right! Listen to this "unicorn" #blacklove story as Ashley and Keila dish on what makes a good dating profile, the importance of setting intentions while dating, and why they would recommend online dating to the modern, single woman or man.   Be sure to read the Schoolin Life Blog "Life Lessons from Online Dating" that accompany this post at schoolinlifepod.com   Follow Keila at @hellokeila on Instagram    Subscribe to the Schoolin Life Newsletter    Follow us on Social: Facebook, Twitter & Instagram @schoolinlifepod 

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On this week's episode we talk falling in love. Whether you experience butterflies in your stomach, sweaty palms, and tugs of the heart strings - or you process rationally-balanced decisions about choosing another, falling in love means different things to different people. It can be hard to distinguish the difference between like, lust, and love. Join the conversation as Ashley and Marcy talk all the boys they've loved before, no "4 Page Letter."

  New Blog "Life Lessons from Online Dating" and special mini episode of Schoolin Life Podcast "Tinder & Jesus release on Thursday! Be sure to check them both out!
  Substitute: Stephanie McGrew of Infinite Life Fitness Follow Stephanie on IG:https://www.instagram.com/ms4composure/   All Black Everything: Being Black in the Workplace   TV: To All the Boys I've Loved Before on Netflix   Follow us on Social: Facebook, Twitter & Instagram @schoolinlifepod 

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