Most people are aware that coming from a dysfunction family, the family members can be your worse enemy. As a person striving to life your best life now, you have a serious choice to make. Maybe we can't choose the family we're born into, but as an adult we can choose not to be part of their drama. The choice really is up to you.

Why do funerals and weddings bring out the worse in people? After the recent passing of my younger brother, I had to step back from the family dynamic to reassess how I really fit into that group and if after 15 year of struggling to maintain a civil relationship with 2 of my sisters and 1 brother is it really worth the heartache and stress.

When is enough enough?

In this episode I share my personal experience with siblings as we gathered to mourn the sudden transition of my brother, whom I loved dearly.

Share your thoughts, and leave a comment. Namaste!

Habitual thoughts, views of life, and hanging on to old memories are some things that drag you down.  Many people become stuck in a certain lifestyle, a certain phase of life, the good old days, or stuck in unforgiveness, emotional hurt and pain they refuse to let go of.  

This episode is dedicated to my baby brother Stanley Williams who transitioned out of this physical realm last Sunday. In the midst of coping with the grief, we are also dealing with challenges of negative psychic energies from people who are hanging on to old memories because they are stuck and are not able to move past certain negative vibrational energies. I'm sure some of you listeners can relate to that.

Thank you for sharing your questions. Please feel free to contact me at [email protected].

Namaste!

Developing your God Mind Consciousness is a challenging process for many of us. This episode is about establishing positive new patterns of behavior, habits that will help overcome the negative psychic forces that are active in your life. With the intention of establishing positive thought patterns you will learn about the spiritual resources at your disposal to plant seeds of new life experiences in your mind.

Don't forget to tell a friend about this podcast and reach out to me at [email protected] for a free copy of the ebook 4 Steps to Reveal Your Divine Essence.

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As we continue the series Four Steps To Reveal Your Divine Essence this segment elaborates on Step 2 - How to Develop Your Divine Essence. In this segment we talk about the importance of discipline, and differentiating yourself from the crowd by not conforming and learning to think for yourself so that you don't continue to fall prey to the subliminal programming from society. The emphasis in on being inwardly guided by the God Mind presence and consciousness that is your divine nature. You can choose to connect to develop a positive attitude about yourself and your life. It can be best formed by accepting a spiritual foundation upon which you self image rests. 

Developing your divine essence includes, as Michael Beckwith points out meditating, studying, and surrounding yourself with people that are on the path of spiritual evolution and not religious dogma. 

Remember that the power that created you is within you and can be reached in numerous ways, the most fundamental of which is trough a conscious mental attitude that can call if forth.

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Continuing the 4 steps to Reveal Your Divine Essence today is about developing your Divine Essence. When you endeavor to develop the connection with your Inner Self you want to cultivate a sacred space for your daily rituals/practice. Be mindful of the true nature of who you are and relax and be your authentic self and allow the essence of Divine Mind within you to guide you as you experiment with your practices and techniques that are unique to you to find what resonates with you.

Today we'll share a few short meditations to help you breath into your Divine Essence in appreciation and honor of your Divine Beingness and you'll do some breath work to release fear, doubt, lack and unbelief. A simple exercise you can do to develop your connection with the Divine within you.

As I wrap up the conclusion to the first step understanding and appreciating your divine essence keep in mind that the body is full of stress, tension and all the distractions that keep us focused outwardly. I hope you 're take away from these episode leave you with the understanding that there is something real going on deep inside you and that you become strong enough to appreciate and experience it.

You have to do the spiritual work, build up your spiritual muscles in order to become inwardly aware. It's a process of unfolding the multifaceted layers of the you and all aspects of the ego self that was created when you were born based on society and the facade you created to represent yourself to the world.

There really is something more wonderful to you than what meets the eyes. Your higher self is calling you, answer the call. Namaste!

Do you wonder why?

Well the answer is you don't know who you are and what you don't know about yourself can hurt you and your relationships. Listen to this episode as I provide foundational information for newbies starting a spiritual quest, and information to help reinforce those who have already begun their spiritual journey.

In this segment you will discover areas of your true essence (the mind, body and spirit connection) that you’ve neglected or were unaware of. You will get clarity about your divine essence and concrete options for dealing with challenging life situations.  

After listening to this episode you’ll learn how to change the direction your unconscious life was heading and gain a greater appreciation for the life path you’ve agreed to follow.

If this podcast blesses you share your comment below and please like this episode and tell a friend about it. Namaste!

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Hopefully after listening to this episode you will feel confident in knowing that you no longer have to tolerate the gossiping and bullying antics of a jealous sibling. It is perfectly fine for you to sever the biological ties with vicious siblings who are making your life a living hell. It's time to cut the ties that bind you to a toxic family dynamic in order to protect your mental wellbeing and allow yourself to heal from those painful memories.

I read that the rivalry develops as children compete for their parents’ attention, love, and respect, and typically rears its head in various forms of fighting and expressions of jealousy.

Relationship dynamics between aggressive sibling and the victim sibling often remain unchanged from childhood into adulthood. The bully continues to victimize their sibling because having someone to pick on boosts their own fragile sense of self-worth. The victim, worn down by years of ill treatment at the hands of their sibling, may feel resentful, but may also be at a loss as to how to change the situation, thus allowing the abuse to continue.

The jealous sibling may have become so used to having a sibling who can’t or won’t defend themselves that they don’t want the dynamic between them to change and become more healthy. Having someone to blame for their problems or take their frustration out on suits the bully and so they deliberately resist any attempts at sincere reconciliation.

After many attempts at trying to have a healthy relationship with the gossiping, bullying sibling, most victims simply give up and accept the situation, however miserable it makes them. Some take the drastic, but necessary measure of avoiding contact with their sibling.

Estrangement between adult siblings is not as uncommon as most people think, with a recent study at Cornell University finding that one in ten adults have one or more family members from whom they are estranged. For many people in this situation, it is a last resort and one they may grapple with for years before finally taking the plunge. However, most report feeling a strong sense of relief that they no longer have to endure their bullying sibling’s behavior.

Feel free to contact me at [email protected] if you'd like to speak privately about your struggles dealing with sibling rivalry.