SECOND CLOCK™

When you are in a toxic relationship or environment and you start to realize that wake up, what does that mean

Knowing that change is inevitable then what holds us back from accepting change? What if, when a lesson in a relationship or job has been learned we acknowledged what has been learned and then release the hold? That is where I find myself now.

What is it to be emotionally unavailable? Sometimes all it takes is being too invested in an outcome that will never be and the lack of awareness to let go.

When I got let go from my job it created a toxic time in my life. This experience would make me question how I could have let this happen and what I needed to make things right, for me.

There are certain people and experiences that test us and shape us, for the better. This is the story of my sister-in-law walk with cancer and me by her side.

What if our life is not about our purpose but instead is about the myriad of experiences that together form us and how we experience people and the world?

So, with this idea in mind, I decided to accept what comes and even seek out experiences, including the embarrassing and the ridiculous. Here are a few of those stories. 

When you or a friend is caught up in a situation, I refer to that as being "In It". When I found my way out I tried to figure out how. In this episode I share my findings.

There are things we learn from our parents and there are ways we become like our parents. To understand myself, it starts with HER. My mother.

I do not remember when I lost the desire to say NO and started saying YES instead.

As I settle into my forties I hear NO knocking and the journey I began to reclaim my NO.

It is hard to know what someone wants and what will fulfill their needs but after an unusual conversation I was left seeing relationships for what they are.