What you wear can help or hinder you, this is a story of how I realised this the hard way.

Growing up I don't remember watching soft and innocent programming. Everything was always edutainment and never any fantasy or escapism😕

Just my thoughts and anecdotes as to why dating apps are the worst.

I'm back with my first episode of 2022. I'm sharing something that made me happy recently even though this year hasn't been kind.

Dating apps are hell but the romantic in me is still looking for the Peter Kavinsky to my Lara Jean. I can tell you that I DIDN'T find him on Tinder... I found lots of scammers though🤣

All my life I have suffered from anxiety, it has stolen so many moments and experiences from me. On this episode I talk about one of the few times I have been able to overcome anxiety.

For years I would not look at my own face. So I missed out on what a beautiful face I had. On this episode I talk about my negative relationship with all things beauty and how I finally looked at my face after years of avoiding it.

The realisation that there's nobody to call... Most days it's easy to forget that I don't have a romantic partner, those few times it hits, it's often in the early hours of the morning.

On this episode I recite Pablo Neruda's Ode To Common Things. I also talk about how I discovered it and the appeal of living a slow life.

On this episode of Second Helping I talk about my love for Korean dramas and general interest in the country of South Korea. My adventures using the tinder passport feature and finding out about the term Koreaboo.