There are people who don't want to leave rock bottom; they just want you to go down there to keep them company. Those are professional victims and energy vampires.

          There are those who like to help out of the vanity of being good. They don't know how to say no and are always taking responsibility for the welfare of others.

          Energy has no distance. If you feel pity for someone, you will connect with their negative energy. And end up badly, maybe even sick and with losses in your life.

          And if you meddle in the test or lesson that someone needs to go through to evolve, Life can find a way to get you out of the way. A lot of people get in trouble for intruding where they shouldn't.

          To help, empathy and goodwill are not enough. Above all, it's necessary to have intelligence and common sense to not hinder and not be harmed.

          The Law of Attraction is a cosmic, universal law. A lot of people read about it, saw the movie "The Secret", and tried to put the principles into practice but with no success.

          Why? Is there a secret behind "The Secret" that no one has told?

          After decades of studying how life works, I have come to some conclusions that I share with you in this episode.

          What defines our energy and how does it attract people and situations in our life in practice?

          We are much more affected by energies than we imagine, whether they come from the environment or other people ― incarnated or not.

          Negative energy weighs, bothers, puts pressure, causes imbalances, and even pain in the physical body.

          How do we get negative energy from others? How does the phenomenon of magnetic attraction between people occur? How are we influenced by the collective unconscious?

          Everything you ignore or deny in yourself, repressing, will inevitably come to you when you least expect it.

          Your best and your worst will be unconsciously projected on someone or some situation. And you will be forced to see yourself reflected in a magnifying mirror.

          In practice, two types of situations can occur: irritation, when we project something of our own that we deny because we consider it ugly, unpleasant, bad ― a weak point.

          Or passion, when we see in the other some quality or skill that is equally repressed, unknown, neglected, or still underdeveloped ― a strong point.

          What to do to get rid of the irritating person or situation, changing reality? How to cure a passion to avoid disappointment and suffering?

          Your dark side contains characteristics that you consider bad, ugly, unpleasant, inadequate, shameful.

          They are not necessarily bad, but you've made them negative with evilness, considering them defects. I prefer to call them weak points.

          And because you don't like these aspects in yourself, you tend to deny and repress them in a corner of the unconscious, pretending that they don't exist.

          But Life will force you to face everything you don't want to see in you. How? Bringing mirrors with magnifying glasses, in the form of unpleasant people and situations that will reflect your dark side.

          Negative and repressed content can also surface like an erupting volcano. With a force that dominates the person and can cause panic/anger/crying attacks, manias, neurosis, compulsions, and even outbreaks.

          Nobody runs away from themselves, because Life wants and needs you to evolve. Self-knowledge, self-acceptance, and self-improvement are fundamental.

          As incredible as it may seem, some people like to suffer for love. They find it beautiful, romantic, noble! But no suffering is beautiful, especially if it is due to an impossible or unrequited love.

          There are those who love to be in love. Or who fall much more in love with the idea of ​​being in love than with the target of their passion.

          For them, love is like a drug. They are addicted to "romantic opiates", the idea of ​​the love dream. And they relate to an ideal partner that they created in their imagination and exists only there.

          Incurable romantics live a perfect story in their fantasy. Some even distort reality so much that they completely lose common sense.

          For many people who suffer for love, the case is much more an ophthalmological issue than a cardiac one. And it's not easy for them to give up the pink lens with which they like to see everything.

          How to cure a love pain? How to cure a passion that causes suffering?

          Everything has a function in the Universe, even suffering. Everything and everyone can serve as instruments of Life to teach a lesson, help or be a companion, or temporary enjoyment.

          Conflicts with other people are opportunities for you to develop and exercise certain skills.

          The keyword is functionality. What is more functional for a person to learn a lesson and thus evolve in their consciousness?

          There is no chance, accident, coincidence, luck, or bad luck. Everything follows an order in the Universe, there is no chaos, mess, and disorder. There are effects or consequences of causes put into action, in addition to meaning, purpose, and function.

          In the face of any challenging, uncomfortable, or painful situation, a good question is: what does Life want you to learn with that?

          Your life is yours, it was given to you as a gift. It's an opportunity to grow and evolve as a human being.

          What have you been doing with it? Are you wasting your existence with secondary and transitory things? Are you living to please others and be accepted by the world? Are you working to pay the bills only?

          Life without pleasure is meaningless, the question is what kind of pleasure is sought: the illusory, sold by the media and society, or the real one, yearned by the soul to rejoice with the experiences in this world.

          A well-lived life is one that fulfills the spirit, the rest is mental and egoic masturbation. Focus on your self-improvement, as remorse is the worst thing a being can experience when they reach the other side of life.

          The most difficult thing for human beings to learn is to take possession of themselves. All the tests and challenges in life are related to this and nobody, absolutely nobody, escapes this lesson.

          Learning takes time, is often particularly arduous for the neglectful but it's essential. And what does it mean, in practice, to have self-possession?

          An individual with self-possession is aware of their own power, has the force of self-mastery not to be impressed and led by the drama of others and the world.

          They don't allow themselves to be led by other wills or external influences and, as a result, they become masters of themselves and their own destiny. They cease to be a pawn that moves in a zigzag through life.

          Nor do they allow themselves to be shaken or hurt by anything, remaining in an inner state of serenity and neutrality, just observing what goes on outside themselves.

          They live better, suffer much less, and their lives don't follow the flow of struggles and obstacles of most people.

          People, in general, interpret a type to please. They interpret a character learned, developed, and designed to be well seen, accepted, appreciated, and even loved.

          Do you really want to get to know a person? In this episode, I share my observations based on years of study, analysis, and practice.

          Not only as a Therapist and Astrologer but also as someone who has trained the sensitivity to identify the signals that people unconsciously give. That's how I became a profiler, someone who makes behavioral profiles.

          When you learn to recognize and read the signs, you begin to see people's truth, camouflaged under layers of social varnish and made up with seduction and personal marketing strategies.

          It's possible to obtain valuable information about someone without having to live intimately with them. In this way, one can avoid illusions, disappointments, and even losses. And that is priceless!

          The other has the right to think and say what they want. You have the obligation to select what enters your ears and echoes in your mind.

          Whether or not to give importance to what comes from outside is a choice. And a very high price is paid for accepting destructive criticism: damage to self-esteem, self-image, and self-confidence.

          Who's in there? Do you think on your own, with discernment, or have you learned to think with others?

          Are there other people's voices in there thinking for you? Putting you down, criticizing, humiliating, demanding, not giving you peace, and sabotaging your life?

          Having what I call filters in the ears and self-possession is critical if you care about your mental and emotional health.