I give my personal account on how I’ve learned to love my step children. And how to pursue a relationship with your step children.

I talk about my current grieving process I’m going through. Because I just lost my grandpa. And it’s been tough. But I know he’s in a better place.

I talk about telling the people in your life that are disrespecting you to no longer disrespect you. That you have new standards of living and you no longer except how these people have talk or treated you in the past. And you love yourself enough to no longer allow disrespect.

I talk about not doing things that you know aren’t right just because someone in your life guilts you or tells you it’s just this once. It’s not a big deal. The problem with that is it’s never just “once”

I talk about not being so busy going from one thing to another that you don’t stop and enjoy the moments.

I talk about Father “God” in this one. So if God isn’t really for you, then don’t listen to this one. I talk about how I’ve experienced Father in my own life. And what he’s really like.

I give a couple examples of activities we do to try to “relax.” But most of these activities actually lead us to feel more tired and more drained. So we need to actually slow down and find something that truly gives us a chance to relax and rest.

I just say what the five love languages are, and give examples, then I proceed to explain how they help in marriage. Consider following me on Instagram: selflove_podcast_spotify

I talk about my own suicide attempt. I want you guys to know that you aren’t weak for that. You just haven’t figured out how to deal with the problems in your life that weigh on you. And I want you to fight the good fight. To show up for yourself each and everyday. And to find the courage to fight. And to know that I’m here for you. And I think you are wonderful, and amazing. Consider Following me on Instagram: selflove_podcast_spotify

I talk about learning how to love like children do. To have the mindset of a child who forgives easily. And without holding back. I talk about letting go of past regrets and past pain. And if it’s closure you need you may need to create your own closure. So that you can be your best self in this new year.