Selfless Esteem

Dear Selfless Esteem, I don't have any friends because I'm so old that all of my best friends (and a lot of my peers) have passed away. I'm thankful for my long life but I'm very lonely. I don't think anyone would be interested in being friends with me because of my old age. How can I have close friends again? Signed, All Alone

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If you're in imminent danger, call 911. If you need immediate assistance, go to the nearest emergency room. If you're in crisis, Text HOME to 741741 to reach a crisis counselor. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions.

All Scripture quotations are from the World English Bible™, the updated version, with the exact wording and punctuation in ebible.org. "World English Bible" is a Trademark of eBible.org.

Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm curious about your thoughts on those of us who are addicted to being productive and always trying to tackle too much at once (including self-improvement initiatives)? How do we center and focus on one thing at a time to ensure what we're pursuing is meaningful and lasting? Thanks! Signed, Perfectionist Peggy

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If you're in imminent danger, call 911. If you need immediate assistance, go to the nearest emergency room. If you're in crisis, Text HOME to 741741 to reach a crisis counselor. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions.

All Scripture quotations are from the World English Bible™, the updated version, with the exact wording and punctuation in ebible.org. "World English Bible" is a Trademark of eBible.org.

Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm tired of doing and saying whatever pleases people when sometimes I don't want to, or I don't really mean it. I've been this way all my life. How can I stop people pleasing? Signed, Major People Pleaser

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If you're in imminent danger, call 911. If you need immediate assistance, go to the nearest emergency room. If you're in crisis, Text HOME to 741741 to reach a crisis counselor. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions.

All Scripture quotations are from the World English Bible™, the updated version, with the exact wording and punctuation in ebible.org. "World English Bible" is a Trademark of eBible.org.

Dear Selfless Esteem, My dog died and I miss him so much. He was my fur baby and I can't believe he's gone. Do you think the Rainbow Bridge is true? I can't bear the thought that I'll never see him again. Signed, Heartbroken Pet Parent

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If you're in imminent danger, call 911. If you need immediate assistance, go to the nearest emergency room. If you're in crisis, Text HOME to 741741 to reach a crisis counselor. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions.

All Scripture quotations are from the World English Bible™, the updated version, with the exact wording and punctuation in ebible.org. "World English Bible" is a Trademark of eBible.org.

Dear Selfless Esteem, I have a lifelong friend who seems more & more ungrateful & cold hearted. For years I've been there for her by encouraging & listening & helping her out financially when I didn't have much myself. She had similar beliefs but now snaps at me whenever I bring up God or the Bible. She gets mad over any & everything. She's become extremely critical, yells when I disagree & no matter what I do she points out how I haven't done enough. I care a lot about her but the rapport doesn't feel healthy. Signed, Loving Someone Ungrateful

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If you're in imminent danger, call 911. If you need immediate assistance, go to the nearest emergency room. If you're in crisis, Text HOME to 741741 to reach a crisis counselor. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions.

All Scripture quotations are taken from the World English Bible.

Dear Selfless Esteem, I think I'm a victim of religious trauma because I'm such a perfectionist. I've been this way since I was a child, and although there's some things I'm grateful for in my upbringing, religion isn't one of them. Whenever something bad would happen to me, a church leader or a church member would say God's punishing me for some unconfessed sin. I don't go to church anymore, but I still feel pressure to be perfect and I still feel guilty over every little thing. How can I heal from religious trauma? Signed, Unholy

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If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you're in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions.

All Scripture quotations are taken from the World English Bible.

Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm interested in aging gracefully but I'm also dreading sagging skin, wrinkles, and everything else that goes along with aging. I see some crow's feet forming by my eyes, which I think is a bigger deal for me as a woman than it is for a man. How can I stop focusing on this every time I look in the mirror? Signed, Not Forever Young

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If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you're in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions.

All Scripture quotations are taken from the World English Bible.

Dear Selfless Esteem,Why do I get so mad when I see my co-workers slacking off? I feel like I work twice as hard as they do, yet I don't make as much as they do. They never get in trouble for not doing their job. And I never get any praise for doing more than I need to do. I know it's not my place to "straighten them out" but how do I manage these strong feelings of anger and resentment towards them?Signed, Not a Slacker

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If you're in crisis, call or text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. Another option is to use the chat feature at Lifeline Chat. There are also suicide hotlines in each state listed on suicide.org. If you're in imminent danger, call 911. For other countries, see Wikipedia's list of suicide crisis lines.

This podcast episode is meant for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to amount to professional or specific advice on which reliance should be placed. Submitting a question does not establish any kind of professional-client relationship. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for services of a medical, legal or mental health professional, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in your area prior to making any professional, legal, financial or tax related decisions.

All Scripture quotations are taken from the World English Bible.

Dear Selfless Esteem, Does the "Let Them" theory contradict the Bible? Doesn't the Bible say that we should motivate each other to do good works? It also says to make disciples all over the world. In my life, I've even had people betray me, backstab me, and try to bring me down. Is it Biblical or even reasonable to have a hands-off approach? Signed, Just Wondering

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My fellow Americans usually attend barbeque parties or look for sales on Labor Day. But no matter what we do, let's remember the significance of this holiday.

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